Guest guest Posted January 13, 2006 Report Share Posted January 13, 2006 Hi , Thanks for the support. I know what you are saying about taking it easy. My doctor thinks it is in my back because of me bailing water, I only had pain from my calf down, but shortly after doing that for hours on end and in cold water on top of that I have been having horrendous back pain for over a year. But he doesn't care, says it is all my fault because I didn't listen to him ( " make sure you take the drawers out before you move the dresser down to the basement " ), so I made a mistake. I keep telling him if he did more around here to help I wouldn't of had to of done it all by myself. His excuse every time is he works and I don't. Hey, I am raising 3 kids, 90% of the time alone. He did get up this morning and got the kids ready for school, I guess he is trying to prove he doesn't need me. A maid, yes, that is exactly what he wants and he takes advantage of it because of my background. How I was pampered, and he was a farm boy. I know people say things in anger but he crossed the line last night yelling that we are going to get a divorce in front of all 3 kids. Our kids are sick enough right now with stress, they don't need that added on to it. I doubt if he is ever going to wake up. The house we bought in 1992 ruined our marriage, we basically don't have a marriage anymore because of it. We are just 2 people, that have different views now that are comfortable living with one another, maybe not happy married to each other..lol and he has always said he will stay with me until our youngest turns 18 because he is a child of a broken family. In reality, he is a man that needs to grow up and take on responsibilities of a 39 year old. Well thanks for emailing, good to have someone to talk to, I just sit and cry anymore, feel like just going to bed and never waking up. -- /marriage Wow I just read this and am so sorry to hear you guys are arguing that badly. I am honestly pissed off that he has said that if you cant do anything you are gone. If you continue to do all that you are doing then you will work yourself sick and the rsd will flare up. You HAVE to take it easy, lay down and take breaks regardless of what he says. I know he is your husband but sweetie you have to take care of yourself cause rsd can spread rapidly under some situations. He sounds like he wants a maid/slave instead of a wife. Im sorry i dont know you guys (thank god i dont know him!) and people say things in anger and i pray that is why he said those things. You have to do what is best for you and if that is finding place of your own without him then thats what will have to happen....i pray things get better and he wakes up....again im here for you!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2006 Report Share Posted January 28, 2006 Hello there hun....my adopted daughter...I really missed our chats over the past few days myself. For some reason I need to look at my messenger...it is giving me some sort of error message, so therefore, it is not working correctly. Thank you as well ...for being there for me...when things have been so rough.....it is always a pleasure to talk with you. I will take a look at this yahoo in a bit....and see if I can't get it working once again. I hope all is well with you....I have had a few rough days...but hanging in there....Take care sweetie and will talk soon! Your Step-Mom~ in Bradenton --------------------------------- Bring words and photos together (easily) with PhotoMail - it's free and works with Yahoo! Mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 Good Afternoon ...my daughter...Happy Anniversary to you and Dennis.....I love you...(My new daughter and son-in-law) You have a wonderful day! There just might be a surprise lurking on the internet somewhere sweetie! Check it out....if you need a clue...e-mail me! in Florida __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2006 Report Share Posted January 30, 2006 Dee thank you so much=) That ws so kind and sweet of you to do and trust me its a huge help...had to stretch the budget to get the movies as it was LOL but then i came online and saw your surprise you are such a dear friend (and mom) to me and i pray you are doing ok pain wise. Please know im here for you always and look forward to talking again very soon. God bless and thank you for your gift=) Rach > > Good Afternoon ...my daughter...Happy Anniversary to you and > Dennis.....I love you...(My new daughter and son-in-law) You have a > wonderful day! There just might be a surprise lurking on the internet > somewhere sweetie! Check it out....if you need a clue...e-mail me! > > in Florida > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2006 Report Share Posted February 17, 2006 Hi, thanks for the " heads up " on methadone. I am started on 10mg. twice a day but the Dr. is going to work me up to three times a day to start. So far it makes me tired but not nauseated thank goodness. If I can ask, how many mg. are you on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 2, 2006 Report Share Posted March 2, 2006 In a message dated 3/2/2006 7:45:19 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, rachael79rsd@... writes: *,* *I have been fighting SSD for the past almost 5 yrs and my lawyer is confident that they will win my case for me. I have RSD and am now 27yrs old. I dont know why it is so hard to get benefits and ssd but it is...most people have to fight for yrs. Im glad i found this lawyer and they were so nice and knew about rsd which is a huge help, they have a rn on staff and she will help my case as well.* *I hope you are doing ok hun!* ** *Moderator* Wow that is pretty crappy. You're so young too. I really really want to go back to work when my daughter goes to school full time. I was offered a position working with TODDLERS in a playgroup program. But I dont know if Im going to be able to do this. I mean today I took a painkiller before I went into school today, and I was flying high, and no one knew this, but I feel weird being stoned around the kids. I wanted to look into ssd. My neuro lady said she would work up the paper work in my favor if I decided to apply. When were you diagnosed ????????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2006 Report Share Posted March 7, 2006 In a message dated 3/7/2006 4:40:01 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, rachael79rsd@... writes: Im not sure what those feelings are that you're having while eating. My main reasons for not eating well are the meds and how i feel afterwards when I eat, I get electric like shocks in my right cheek, and then I get stabbing pain in my ear from chewing. eating people man that was funny look at what these meds do, turn me into a canibal! that's a mighty side effect!!! S. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 In a message dated 3/13/2006 3:23:32 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, rachael79rsd@... writes: *I just wanted to say I know how it feels to hurt so bad and just want relief. I pray your pain eases and I hope you can get some rest hun!!!!* ** *Moderator* Aw TY I wish the same for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is NO REST here with a 3 year old. I so wish I could lay down though. Someday, when she's 21 I will catch up on my sleep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 14, 2006 Report Share Posted March 14, 2006 dear Scarlet, it will be sooner than that! Once she's in school then at 7,8 or 9 depending upon the child, you can rest and even nap. I've done this with mine who are now 12 and 14. My 12 year old was a " why would you do that kid " so napping wasn't an option until he was at least 9!! He's not naughty just very curious about everything and no fear!! I do remember being so tired and in so much pain with 2 little ones, it wasn't easy but kids are a joy! much love, barb k. --- ScarletCatnRuby2@... wrote: > > > In a message dated 3/13/2006 3:23:32 P.M. Eastern > Standard Time, > rachael79rsd@... writes: > > *I just wanted to say I know how it feels to hurt > so bad and just want > relief. I pray your pain eases and I hope you can > get some rest hun!!!!* > ** > *Moderator* > > > > > Aw TY I wish the same for > you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is NO REST > here with a 3 year old. I so wish I could lay down > though. Someday, when > she's 21 I will catch up on my sleep. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > Barbara K. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2006 Report Share Posted May 17, 2006 I hate that!!!!! Thats how i feel about my pain dr visit sometimes...when i had to go up every month and waste 50bucks plus gas money (hes 45 mins away and u know gas is not going down very soon) to sit in office for 10mins or so and get refills. Now that he has me on doses that seem to be helping (somewhat) he is seeing me every 3 months which will save me some money. But I hate dishing out money for dr visits when it seems not much gets accomplished. Im glad that your hubby was able to get you some samples from dr though- that helps especially when medicine is going up like gas is lol. it gets rediculous!! When i had to take dennis to the er last yr for pneumonia they gave him a script for antibiotics for 80 bucks!!!! I was like wait a stinkin minute LOL cause i always thought antibiotics were cheap. Anyways hun im so sorry for your pain hun and i hope this passes (literally:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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