What can I do now?

[Guest guest]

On the advice of our behavior therapist I was the " parent " and took

my sons few items into restriction/hold. Now I cant get him to play

with them anymore when I offer them back to him. He has meltdowns

that play out like marathons. His tranquilizer med was held up at

behavior therapy because the pro's have not witnessed the full blown

aggressive meltdowns. They are worried that I would over use the pnr

dose to keep my challenges low and not develope better coping

skills,such as consequences. Now I have nothing to use as a

consequence anyway because he will not become re-interested in his

favorite toys or belongings. Instead he paces more,throws food ect.

and continues to regress. I am so mad at myself for going along with

the ideas of those who claim to know better. I am tired of hearing

how I need to be the parent and control the behaviors, situation.

DUH....how I would love to control the behaviors. What should I try

now to do or undo this mess? Theese meltdowns are bad. He is like a

tank in action,so strong in his anger. Everyone goes to safety areas

except me.

Thanks,

Tishanne