Jan C in Sacramento

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Dear Jan-

Keeping you and your daddy in our thoughts and prayers.

Many hugs with love-

Sandie and

-- - Re: I'm Losing my Mom (I'm losing my Dad)

Hello ,

We can get through this together. My Dad started his escape from the

awful disease on Thursday just like your Mom. I'm sitting next to his

hospital bed, just like you. I'm stroking his hand and telling him I

love him, just like you. I listen to each breath and wonder what will

happen next, probably just like you. I look at his frail body (110

6'1 " ) and wonder how long it will hold on to his soul, probably just

like you. You are in my prayers. We can get through this together.

Warm knowing hugs...Jan from Sacramento CA

> Hi Everyone,

>

> Well after just four weeks I'm losing my mother. We started

Hospice

> Thursday and they don't think she will be here another week. Of

> course that's in God's hands. We have a hospital bed set up in the

> living room and she's there. She's so frail. Very unresponsive.

> Their just trying to keep her comfortable. Started giving her

Xanax

> for her anxiety and Zyprexa. I don't know all I know is I'm losing

> her and dont' know how to handle it. I'm an only child and I just

> don't know what to do. I just sit and hold her hand and tell her

> that I love her, but I don't know if she understands. I think she

> does sometimes.

>

> I hate this disease.

>

> I can't write anymore, I just wanted you all to know and please

> remember us in your prayers...I'm very upset and scared and don't

> know what I'm going to do or how I'm going to get thru this. I'm

> lost actually right now.

>

> Thank you,

>

>

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