Guest guest Posted August 18, 2005 Report Share Posted August 18, 2005 My dad's 79 and was just diagnosed. I know the life expectancy is 5-7 years from what I read online. I'm sure there's a difference between 60 year olds & 80 year olds. Do you guys know? Sorry - I'm still trying to predict what I'm in for. Many blessings, Mara _____ From: LBDcaregivers [mailto:LBDcaregivers ] On Behalf Of Dempsey Sent: Thursday, August 18, 2005 7:00 PM To: LBDcaregivers Subject: Causes of LBD While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something was missing (for me anyway). Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but wonder how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the survey that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the end? Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of this. I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in the car and be there in 12 hours.... Thanks for understanding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 18, 2005 Report Share Posted August 18, 2005 Please do not try as each individual is different. Simmel > >Reply-To: LBDcaregivers >To: <LBDcaregivers > >Subject: RE: Causes of LBD >Date: Thu, 18 Aug 2005 19:46:57 -0400 > >My dad's 79 and was just diagnosed. I know the life expectancy is 5-7 >years >from what I read online. I'm sure there's a difference between 60 year >olds > & 80 year olds. Do you guys know? Sorry - I'm still trying to predict >what >I'm in for. > > > >Many blessings, > >Mara > > > > > > _____ > >From: LBDcaregivers [mailto:LBDcaregivers ] >On Behalf Of Dempsey >Sent: Thursday, August 18, 2005 7:00 PM >To: LBDcaregivers >Subject: Causes of LBD > > > >While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of >possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something >was missing (for me anyway). > >Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but >wonder >how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the >survey >that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have >lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the >end? > >Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or >near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of >this. > >I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every >minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like >to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in >the car and be there in 12 hours.... > >Thanks for understanding. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2005 Report Share Posted August 19, 2005 Mara: I find that one of the confusing things in the statistics is when they say 5-7 years form onset, how exactly do you determine onset. My Mum had minor AD & PD symptoms 5 years ago. The definative LBD symptoms (hallucinations, shuffling gait) where triggered 6 months ago. What is considered the onset? When do we start counting years? --- Mara Herzberger wrote: --------------------------------- My dad's 79 and was just diagnosed. I know the life expectancy is 5-7 years from what I read online. I'm sure there's a difference between 60 year olds & 80 year olds. Do you guys know? Sorry - I'm still trying to predict what I'm in for. Many blessings, Mara _____ From: LBDcaregivers [mailto:LBDcaregivers ] On Behalf Of Dempsey Sent: Thursday, August 18, 2005 7:00 PM To: LBDcaregivers Subject: Causes of LBD While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something was missing (for me anyway). Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but wonder how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the survey that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the end? Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of this. I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in the car and be there in 12 hours.... Thanks for understanding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2005 Report Share Posted August 19, 2005 I have been asking the same question regarding a time line of what to expect. Unfortunately, no one has been able to give a guide to the progression of the disease as it seems to be different for each individual. Knowing some type of time line would allow me to be better prepared to deal with the future.... God bless, Cheryl Causes of LBD While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something was missing (for me anyway). Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but wonder how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the survey that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the end? Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of this. I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in the car and be there in 12 hours.... Thanks for understanding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2005 Report Share Posted August 19, 2005 , Where in Michigan is your Dad? I am in Howell, MI. My Father-in-law is in Florida and was diagnosed with LBD in April of this year. He has had parkinson's for nearly 10 years. They have taken him off all parkinson's med's just recently. He was admitted into the hospital last night with phnemonia in both lungs again. I am new to the group but I know there are a couple of others from Michigan as well. Jo Dempsey wrote: While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something was missing (for me anyway). Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but wonder how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the survey that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the end? Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of this. I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in the car and be there in 12 hours.... Thanks for understanding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2005 Report Share Posted August 19, 2005 Mara- My Dad will be 88 on Oct. 19. He is in the end stage o LBD. He has been diagnosed for about 3 years now. However, I am sure it was going on for many years. Some indications are as follows: In 1998, he had surgery and was totally off the wall from the pain medication and other sedation. He was so bad that they were afraid to transfer him out of ICU. Also for years prior to that he quite a few falls. . We just thought he was a clutz (sp). I use to beg him to stay off his bike, but he never listened. Another thing that happened was that when my Dad took a dip in our community pool, he lost his perception as to where he was in the water. He slipped in the 3 feet of water and couldn't recover. Someone had tocome to his rescue. Then in August 2001 came the big one! Dad fell in the garage. We are not sure what happened, but the garage looked like there was a massacre. The floor was drenched. There was a trail of blood through the house and bathroom. All the chairs in the den were also covered with blood. My Dad was found unconsciious by my Mother. Dad suffered a basal skulll fracture which is a major head tramua. He spend 4 months in vaious hospitals. He fell again in Jan 2002.. This time it was a subdural hematoma. We still did not know at this point that LBD was the culprit. Another thing that was prominent over the years was knee/joint stiffness. It was painful just to watch him get out of his car. About 2 years ago, we took him to an orthopedic Dr. for his knee pain. Much to our surprise, there was no signs of arthiritis in his joints. I think it was the LBD doing its thing. The tremors appeared around the time of diagnosis. I think the LBD was lurching around for aprx. 15 years. Writing all this makes me think, why didn't I see this coming? Although my Dad fell from time to time and there were other incidents, I think my Dad led a a pretty good and active life up until the time of the big fall. I hope this gives you some insight at the time frame. I wonder if there really is any. Best wishes to you and your Dad. I can tell he is very lucky to have you. Gerry Deverell Wilmington, Delaware Causes of LBD While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something was missing (for me anyway). Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but wonder how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the survey that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the end? Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of this. I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in the car and be there in 12 hours.... Thanks for understanding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2005 Report Share Posted August 21, 2005 Jo, The world keeps getting smaller, eh?? My Dad is in Court Dementia Assisted Living Facility in Brighton (near the Target on Grand River). And, my mom lives in her condo in South Lyon. Re: Causes of LBD , Where in Michigan is your Dad? I am in Howell, MI. My Father-in-law is in Florida and was diagnosed with LBD in April of this year. He has had parkinson's for nearly 10 years. They have taken him off all parkinson's med's just recently. He was admitted into the hospital last night with phnemonia in both lungs again. I am new to the group but I know there are a couple of others from Michigan as well. Jo Dempsey wrote: While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list of possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think something was missing (for me anyway). Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but wonder how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the survey that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who have lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the end? Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you at or near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of this. I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him every minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would like to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump in the car and be there in 12 hours.... Thanks for understanding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2005 Report Share Posted August 22, 2005 Great question . My dad was diagnosed w/ Parkinson's in 1998 -- w/ LBD this spring (after I brought it up). However, LBD symptoms clearly began showing up last summer -- maybe a bit before that, but those were much more subtle. So when is onset? Lori > > > --------------------------------- > My dad's 79 and was just diagnosed. I know the life expectancy is 5-7 > years > from what I read online. I'm sure there's a difference between 60 year > olds > & 80 year olds. Do you guys know? Sorry - I'm still trying to predict > what > I'm in for. > > > > Many blessings, > > Mara > > > > > > _____ > > From: LBDcaregivers > [mailto:LBDcaregivers ] > On Behalf Of Dempsey > Sent: Thursday, August 18, 2005 7:00 PM > To: LBDcaregivers > Subject: Causes of LBD > > > > While I was constructing a message to you all about my Dad for the list > of > possible common denominators of LBD, I couldn't help but think > something > was missing (for me anyway). > > Forgive me for this .. but my Dad is still alive and I can't help but > wonder > how much longer we may have with him. Could we add a question to the > survey > that looks at the length of the disease? In otherwords, for those who > have > lost their LO's could you tell us the time period from diagnosis to the > end? > > Also, I would surely appreciate knowing what, if anything, struck you > at or > near the end that would be helpful to those of us still in the midst of > this. > > I live in Missouri and my Dad is in Michigan. I want to be with him > every > minute but can't. But, I sure want a chance to say goodbye and would > like > to be with him at the end. If I knew of any warning signs I could jump > in > the car and be there in 12 hours.... > > Thanks for understanding. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2005 Report Share Posted August 23, 2005 To those trying to decide how long LBD is and has been going on, it is usually said 5-7 years from DIAGNOSIS not ONSET. I should have had Mom to an MD to see what was happening 5 years before I did. She wasn't living in the same state with me and was living alone. So only those people who saw her all the time knew how bad things were. I was talking to her every day by phone, but she was doing well at deceiving me. I didn't realize how much I carried on the conversation and she could do an answer. I was just thinking she was " getting older " and it never occured to me how bad her problems really were. She did stay with me for extended times during that first 5 years, and again I just thought at her age, everyone gets forgetful. (she was in her early 80's.) And when we did finally realize how bad things were, I still got the Alzheimers diagnosis. It is so much easier to look back and see how things progressed. Guess the human spirit, (mine) wants to deny things could be all that bad. When she died in '02, I finally got a look at her paper work and other things she did and realize how things had progressed. I imagine lots of others could " look back " and see things much more clearly too. Donna R Re: Causes of LBD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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