Re: My bomb, more

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> litlrooh@... writes:

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> << As I was reading my own post, I have to say thanks to all of you, because

> you are helping me to pin down what the problem is exactly. >>

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> There's a great psychotherapy book called " Words to Say It. " Although the book

does not involve your type of problem, the title means that the first, hardest,

and most important step in therapy, as well as in growing and changing, is to

find the " words to say it " , that is to be able to identify and describe the

problem. You have made that important step already. The rest will follow. I'm

so sorry that you have to go through this, especially now at the holidays. You

have shown to us already that you are a very strong person. You are in my

thoughts.

Elena

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Re: My bomb, more

>> litlrooh@... writes:

>>

>> << As I was reading my own post, I have to say thanks to all of you,

because

>> you are helping me to pin down what the problem is exactly. >>

>>

>> There's a great psychotherapy book called " Words to Say It. " Although the

book does not involve your type of problem, the title means that the first,

hardest, and most important step in therapy, as well as in growing and

changing, is to find the " words to say it " , that is to be able to identify

and describe the problem. You have made that important step already. The

rest will follow. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this, especially

now at the holidays. You have shown to us already that you are a very

strong person. You are in my thoughts.

>

>Elena

Thanks for saying that Elena, somehow, that really got me right where it

counts. so often I think I'm such a weakling, a dufus, you know what I

mean? Like nothing I ever do is right, or that I'll never measure up to

those that can do it without a thought about it, whether its work or

marriage, or kids or whatever.

I hardly ever think of myself as strong...just treading water.

I really appreciated that..

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