Guest guest Posted January 2, 2003 Report Share Posted January 2, 2003 Re: Life after leaving MGIMS > Dear Raju, > > Hello again. It was a pleasure talking to you after all this time. I guess a > " TIA " must have triggered memories of my good old friends. I had a vague > idea about the upcoming 25th anniversary reunion but it was Rajesh Nanda's > call that really got me out of the shell. > I did some searching on the internet and located PMR's number that led to > finding you and GVD. It's a shame that some of us will not be able to > attend what promises to be a grand reunion of our infamous batchmates. What > a great way to reminisce about the old times and discover how our lives have > shaped since the early 80's. > I can tell by the limited contact I have had with my collegues that almost > everyone has done well. Some things never change and that partly explains > rather despicable behavior of some folks. > I left MGIMS in Jan 83 only to see myself losing direction initially. My > dad's ill health (MI at age 56) left me stranded out of the academic scene > (MD at Wardha) but opened doors for something I had truly never envisioned. > My career took a back seat in my valiant attempts to restore my dad's > health. This involved flying him to Texas to Denton Cooley's center for CABG > + plication of LV aneurysm in Oct 85. Everything went great and my dad was > back to a functional status class 1 (NYHA).(He finally succumbed to > reocclusion of the bypass grafts leading to cardiogenic shock in Feb 95. I > still miss him as he was aside from being a father, a role model, a friend > and just an amazing man.) > > I met this lovely young lady (Abha) in 86 at a local hospital where I was > bidding time trying to be good son. Before I knew what had hit me, I found > myself chasing after her to the UK for PLAB in 1987. Sincerity was always > one of my virtues ! We got married in 88 and did all our postgraduate > training in the UK, gaining MRCP in the process.In 91, we were blessed with > ISHA who is now in 6th grade at a local school and doing quite well. Then > came Mr.Rohan in 94 upon moving to the states. I had to unfortunately > re-train in medicine and nephrology (despite a 3 year renal fellowship in > Manchester).The doors finally opened for an academic position at a local > medical school/university hospital as a full time nephrologist on a > clinician educator track. > I now spend majority of my time doing solid organ transplantation mainly > kidneys and hearts - focussing on their medical needs. I still have > commitment to outpatient dialysis as well as teaching students, residents > and being an active member of 10 collegues in training renal fellows. > We bought a house in 2000 in the suburbs of Philly and are due for > citizenship this year. So it has been a long winding road to get this far, > challenging but rewarding in many ways. > I love my family, my job, have made a few new friends and do go back to > Delhi perhaps every 2 years.It's a big drain on the wallet with all of us > travelling together. > I do hope that you get the gist- also sending pictures of my family and our > home for you to share with our " friends " . I suppose it would not offend me > if you did share this mail with our batchmates at the reunion. > Listen, have a great time, be safe and have a shot on my behalf as well. > Look forward to hearing from you. > > Truly > > Rakesh > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 3 months FREE*. > http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail & xAPID=42 & PS=47575 & PI=7324 & D I=7474 & SU= > http://www.hotmail.msn.com/cgi-bin/getmsg & HL=1216hotmailtaglines_addphotos_3 mf > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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