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I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I ask the

questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax. His ocd appears

to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I understand about the

nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he can get it back under

control? How long does waxing last before waning begins? He has been living 2

1/2 hours away since Sept. and been doing fairly well (or at least bearable with

ocd). He does not have a new psychiatrist in Little Rock yet. His is still in

Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I will try to get him into one

there now that this has happened, but what do we do in the meantime. Help!

Thanks, Sheila

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waxing and waning

I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I ask the

questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax. His ocd appears

to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I understand about the

nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he can get it back under

control? How long does waxing last before waning begins? He has been living 2

1/2 hours away since Sept. and been doing fairly well (or at least bearable with

ocd). He does not have a new psychiatrist in Little Rock yet. His is still in

Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I will try to get him into one

there now that this has happened, but what do we do in the meantime. Help!

Thanks, Sheila

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waxing and waning

I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I ask the

questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax. His ocd appears

to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I understand about the

nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he can get it back under

control? How long does waxing last before waning begins? He has been living 2

1/2 hours away since Sept. and been doing fairly well (or at least bearable with

ocd). He does not have a new psychiatrist in Little Rock yet. His is still in

Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I will try to get him into one

there now that this has happened, but what do we do in the meantime. Help!

Thanks, Sheila

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Our experience (my son is 16 y.o.) is that once the OCD gets under control

through ERP, the waxings can be nipped in the bud as soon as they are

recognized by promptly applying the principles of ERP (exposure and response

prevention). It sounds like your son needs a therapist skilled in this

treatment modality. Perhaps someone in the Little Rock area can recommend

someone.

Judy

----- waxing and waning

I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I ask the

questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax. His ocd

appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I understand

about the nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he can get it

back under control? How long does waxing last before waning begins? He

has been living 2 1/2 hours away since Sept. and been doing fairly well (or

at least bearable with ocd). He does not have a new psychiatrist in Little

Rock yet. His is still in Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I

will try to get him into one there now that this has happened, but what do

we do in the meantime. Help! Thanks, Sheila

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Our experience (my son is 16 y.o.) is that once the OCD gets under control

through ERP, the waxings can be nipped in the bud as soon as they are

recognized by promptly applying the principles of ERP (exposure and response

prevention). It sounds like your son needs a therapist skilled in this

treatment modality. Perhaps someone in the Little Rock area can recommend

someone.

Judy

----- waxing and waning

I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I ask the

questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax. His ocd

appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I understand

about the nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he can get it

back under control? How long does waxing last before waning begins? He

has been living 2 1/2 hours away since Sept. and been doing fairly well (or

at least bearable with ocd). He does not have a new psychiatrist in Little

Rock yet. His is still in Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I

will try to get him into one there now that this has happened, but what do

we do in the meantime. Help! Thanks, Sheila

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Our experience (my son is 16 y.o.) is that once the OCD gets under control

through ERP, the waxings can be nipped in the bud as soon as they are

recognized by promptly applying the principles of ERP (exposure and response

prevention). It sounds like your son needs a therapist skilled in this

treatment modality. Perhaps someone in the Little Rock area can recommend

someone.

Judy

----- waxing and waning

I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I ask the

questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax. His ocd

appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I understand

about the nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he can get it

back under control? How long does waxing last before waning begins? He

has been living 2 1/2 hours away since Sept. and been doing fairly well (or

at least bearable with ocd). He does not have a new psychiatrist in Little

Rock yet. His is still in Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I

will try to get him into one there now that this has happened, but what do

we do in the meantime. Help! Thanks, Sheila

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Hi Sheila,

Unfortunately, there is no way to know how long a waxing period is going

to last.

What I can say is that, in general, when a person has learned how to use

the techniques learned in cbt, they can use them more efficiently and

usually regain their control easier than if they were starting from scratch.

In simple words, because they already know what to do, its easier to get

back on track.

What may be necessary, is for your son to access his previous therapist,

or a new one trained in cbt for ocd, and receive support for his efforts.

Therapists trained to work with OCD will have explained that this is a

possibility (relapse) and worked on relapse prevention skills. With

adolescents, the first step is to access the person that coached them during

therapy (mom? dad?). This is a time for the coach to go back to 'cheer

leading' and remind the person that they were in control in the past, and

they will be again! I will become reinvolved if this has not worked and some

refresher sessions are needed.

On another thought, could it be that his Celexa has stopped being

effective and its time for a change or increase? Remember to reinforce that

cbt is the backup needed for meds and that some people can manage their O's

and C's without medication.

take care and let us know how things work out,

wendy in canada

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>My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax.

>His ocd appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I

>understand about the nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he

>can get it back under control? How long does waxing last before waning

>begins? sheila

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Hi Sheila,

Unfortunately, there is no way to know how long a waxing period is going

to last.

What I can say is that, in general, when a person has learned how to use

the techniques learned in cbt, they can use them more efficiently and

usually regain their control easier than if they were starting from scratch.

In simple words, because they already know what to do, its easier to get

back on track.

What may be necessary, is for your son to access his previous therapist,

or a new one trained in cbt for ocd, and receive support for his efforts.

Therapists trained to work with OCD will have explained that this is a

possibility (relapse) and worked on relapse prevention skills. With

adolescents, the first step is to access the person that coached them during

therapy (mom? dad?). This is a time for the coach to go back to 'cheer

leading' and remind the person that they were in control in the past, and

they will be again! I will become reinvolved if this has not worked and some

refresher sessions are needed.

On another thought, could it be that his Celexa has stopped being

effective and its time for a change or increase? Remember to reinforce that

cbt is the backup needed for meds and that some people can manage their O's

and C's without medication.

take care and let us know how things work out,

wendy in canada

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>My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax.

>His ocd appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I

>understand about the nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he

>can get it back under control? How long does waxing last before waning

>begins? sheila

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Hi Sheila,

Unfortunately, there is no way to know how long a waxing period is going

to last.

What I can say is that, in general, when a person has learned how to use

the techniques learned in cbt, they can use them more efficiently and

usually regain their control easier than if they were starting from scratch.

In simple words, because they already know what to do, its easier to get

back on track.

What may be necessary, is for your son to access his previous therapist,

or a new one trained in cbt for ocd, and receive support for his efforts.

Therapists trained to work with OCD will have explained that this is a

possibility (relapse) and worked on relapse prevention skills. With

adolescents, the first step is to access the person that coached them during

therapy (mom? dad?). This is a time for the coach to go back to 'cheer

leading' and remind the person that they were in control in the past, and

they will be again! I will become reinvolved if this has not worked and some

refresher sessions are needed.

On another thought, could it be that his Celexa has stopped being

effective and its time for a change or increase? Remember to reinforce that

cbt is the backup needed for meds and that some people can manage their O's

and C's without medication.

take care and let us know how things work out,

wendy in canada

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>My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half ago. He takes

80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a .25 xanax.

>His ocd appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks, from what I

>understand about the nature of the illness. What I want to know is how he

>can get it back under control? How long does waxing last before waning

>begins? sheila

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HI Sheila:

Does your son's counselor do exposure and response prevention

therapy with him? If so they should be able to design some

exposures and behavior therapy interventions to help him through

this adjustment. With a move and changes on the horizon it is all

too frequent that our beloved OCDers experience a waxing of symptoms.

Sometimes they just go up and down without any clear connection.

During a time of waxing and waning the best thing we found to help our

son was having the frequency of his E & RP increased and simplification

of his life around him until a waning period came by. Sometimes a med

adjustment might help get things a bit more under control for some

people.

When in crisis we tried to follow a few guidelines - stay calm, if

only outwardly; keep life as simple as possible, even boring and

totally routine; work like heck to get good quality treatment

professionals on the team to help turn things around. Good luck, take

care, hugs to you and your son, aloha, kathy (h)

kathyh@...

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> waxing and waning

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> I haven't posted since this summer but I will update you before I

ask the questions. My son is 22 and was diagnosed a year and a half

ago. He takes 80mgs of Celexa a day as well as a .5 risperdal and a

..25 xanax. His ocd appears to be waxing for the past couple of weeks,

from what I understand about the nature of the illness. What I want

to know is how he can get it back under control? How long does waxing

last before waning begins? He has been living 2 1/2 hours away since

Sept. and been doing fairly well (or at least bearable with ocd). He

does not have a new psychiatrist in Little Rock yet. His is still in

Dallas although he has been seeing a counselor. I will try to get him

into one there now that this has happened, but what do we do in the

meantime. Help! Thanks, Sheila

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  • 3 years later...

On Monday, October 10, 2005, at 05:04 AM, dumbaussie2000 wrote:

> One of

> many OBVIOUS PROBLEMS is the waxing and wanning and the fickleness

> of being almost perfect one moment to being completely blown away

> the next(age and ilness duration dependant).

I never had much of the waxing and waning. Once I was down, I was down.

Although there were some middle years where my illness was more

tolerable than at the beginning or within recent history. Sure, I had

moveable aches and pains, but once I got sick I was never " almost

perfect " again. I think that before I knew I was sick is when the

variability might have been showing itself. I just didn't recognize it

as anything.

My illness should have shouted " Lyme " to anyone who knew anything. Very

classic early symptom was terrible knee pain. At that time I was a

dancer. Since then my joints have never been right. Nobody even clued

me in to inflammation. They just let my shoulder freeze and even now I

don't have full ROM. Finally the back problems started and I would give

anything to have had real treatment before that got started. I guess

all my digestive symptoms the first year threw off the doctors. Not

that they were doing any real detective work. Wow, how weird to find

out that gastroenterologists know nothing about how to fix digestive

problems!

Tony, I'm not saying there's nothing else growing in my joints or

whatever, but I have about the least amount of " head " symptoms as

anyone I know with a chronic pain/fatigue problem. I will admit to

having one root canal, which very well could be rotten, although I was

already sick before that. Probably it's now a nice little nest for the

Bb bugs and whatever else I've picked up.

- Kate

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