Guest guest Posted June 10, 2005 Report Share Posted June 10, 2005 Deb, you're absolutely right. It all comes down to money. Like Lanelle said, we may be a lost generation of patients. Nobody really cares until the problem gets so bad that it can't be ignored any longer. But the problem goes way beyond one particular illness category. It goes to every difficult-to-diagnose, difficult-to-treat illness. They don't want to waste the money so they find ways to deny treatment instead. You'd think insurance companies would figure out that it makes more sense to put dollars into curing us, than wasting money on barely keeping us alive on expensive symptom management drugs for years, but they don't. Almost 25 years ago, my mother's husband (who had no insurance) was sent home from the hospital with a clean bill of health. He died the next day. About 10 years ago, an HMO refused to treat one of my inlaw's fathers. He died while they were trying to work through the approval red tape. A couple of years ago, my good friend, a doctor, died, because he couldn't get anyone to take his illness seriously. He started having seizures so they revoked his medical license, but wouldn't help him get the drugs he needed to stop the infection that was causing the seizures. Acted like he was crazy. Tony helped him more than anybody. Got him on some abx which helped enough that he finally got his medical license back and he even helped treat me, but it was too late for him. A couple months later he had a seizure and died, and this was a young, beautiful, brilliant man. Last year my brother-in-law died because his idiotic doctors kept telling him not to worry, he just had kidney stones, when in fact he had stage 4 colon cancer. Too late by the time they bothered to figure it out. The problem is huge. It's the entire medical system being driven by money from top to bottom. It's going to take major reform for that to change. An army of sick people trying to fight that? I wish us all luck. That's why I'm thankful for the internet where we can help each other and circumvent doctors altogether if we want. Only use them when it serves us, because I don't know too many who are serving us out of some kind of greater good. They serve the dollar first. And that's the rule, not the exception. penny " deb obrien " <DebOB@p...> wrote: perhaps, a call to your state sen or state rep asking them who to contact in sacramento could be helpful....who is higher in the hierarchy than the guy who said no? perhaps a letter to the newspapers? agencies/companies don't like to have their bad stuff publicized and you do write beautifully.... it's all comes down to money.. > good luck, > deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 13, 2005 Report Share Posted June 13, 2005 I shall stick my nose in here. But if someone would get me the anmes and numbers of the media, I will call on behalf of a friend who has been wrongly treated. I don't know personally, but I have difficulty calling agencies to help when I've been wronged. I think they will only call me a whiner and that everyone has problems. But to make a phone call on behalf of someone is something I easily can do because I believe in the cause. (No one has belittled me into running and hiding yet, like they do on my personal stuff) With a little bit of organization we could organize systematically have teams calling everyone's foe. I think that news media is more receptive to callers from out of town with breaking news. We could say something like, I'm calling because I'm shocked at the horror treatment of a young acquaintance. I am living in fear of what next, me, or you ? I don't know exactly when the shock wore off, but I've often said that it wasn't the diagnosis that devestated my world. It was the fact that even though I was too sick to raise my head off the pillow, I was still my ONLY ADVOCATE. Remember all that gargbage about becoming a team member with your doctor. Hogwash. They don't want you to be their teammate. They only have two interest. 1. Their business/practice is really a pharmaceutical dispensing station. 2. With a little luck they may be able to convince your insurance that you need some minor surgery or injections that are extremely profitable. I refer to hospitals as " shot shops " Those in pain understand what I'm saying. Penny, I have now asked five doctor's the question, " So are you saying that I'm a member of the Forfeited Generation. Evidently there is such a concept taught in medical school because several have asked where I received that inside information. Shocking isn't it. OUr future young doctors are taught in medical school that in any emerging disease, at least one generation will be forfieted before science will sit up and take notice. All told me that initial patients must be dx with depression. Disgusting............... Peg Lanelle > perhaps, a call to your state sen or state rep asking them who to > contact in sacramento could be helpful....who is higher in the > hierarchy than the guy who said no? perhaps a letter to the > newspapers? agencies/companies don't like to have their bad stuff > publicized and you do write beautifully.... it's all comes down to > money.. > > good luck, > > deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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