Guest guest Posted June 5, 2006 Report Share Posted June 5, 2006 To clarify, I really treat the men in my life very well, like they are my husband. I don't mind cooking them a meal, doing the occassional load of washing etc. etc. I just won't explain my spending and finances, take orders, be bossed around etc. In every way they are treated and respected as if they are the only person in my world, I am loyal and trustworthy etc. but unless I find the exact 'right' one I don't want any permanent arrangement, especially if it's me doing all the providing and loving and caring. Been there and never want to go there again. So, it's not the 'husband' thing I object to, I think it's the ONLY way to live if you meet your ideal partner, I just want to make sure, that is all, assuming I get the chance to decide it. It can be very lonely, I have been divorced and alone for 25 years, but there is a price for everything and lonliness is the price for serenity for me right now. M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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