Guest guest Posted March 30, 2012 Report Share Posted March 30, 2012 lol no im no fucking quak, but what do you think you are ... hmm your fucking brain. If you think that a chemical is just gonna reverse things without you helping yourself then yeah mate .... carry on To: SSRIsex Sent: Friday, 30 March 2012, 1:25 Subject: Re: Inner Voice Oh man are you a fuckin quack?? we lost our libido because this shit altered our brains. > > How many of you talk to your inner voice and use it to feel feelings, certainly since when I took the SSRI I was like a zombie and my inner voice disapeared. I am now trying CBT in accessing and using the inner voice and feelings to move a way from being a robotatron? to a human being. From my point of view it is certainly hard as my thinking and thought processes has slowed down, but I started with what I read somewhere about trying to talk to your inner voice for at least five minutes. > > http://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=t & rct=j & q= & esrc=s & source=web & cd=2 & ved=0CDMQFjAB & url=http%3A%2F%2Fbakerthebrand.com%2F2011%2F09%2F06%2Flisten-to-your-inner-voice%2F & ei=i710T52HCKac0AX0kd3mDw & usg=AFQjCNGlyseNNCdndcFC1_tM4crj9VW80w > > > http://www.boldlivingtoday.com/2011/11/06/becoming-reacquainted-with-your-inner-voice/ > > > Its a thing we develop through life which helps us mature and to make decisions, I think a lot of why our 'libido' is gone is that we have forgotton how to listen to ourselves and turn ourselves on?? > > Just an idea, would be interested if anyone else thought this. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2012 Report Share Posted March 30, 2012 It's OK, I was being a bit melodramatic. I was afflicted with pssd when I was 16, thus I've barely had any sexual experiences or relationships. I guess that unlike most of the older people on here, I dont know to what extent I'm missing out, and I can't fathom how painful that must be for you. It took me a while to get off all medications, my parents would only listen to my shrink and not to me. It's almost 4 years later , I've managed to reclaim my life in most other aspects without the use, misuse, or abuse of psych meds . I am in college, with hopes of studying PSSD in depth one day. From the outside I seem like a regular 20 year old perfectly happy stable girl, except that I know I have this sexual disability that makes me weird and awkward and nobody can ever find out, because people will never understand . I am otherwise highly content with my life, but every now and then another incident pops up where I remember that I have an anti -relationship disease called PSSD. Good Night Sent from my HTC smartphone on the Now Network from Sprint!----- Reply message -----To: <SSRIsex >Subject: Re: Inner VoiceDate: Fri, Mar 30, 2012 12:30 pm Your post really touched me, Goldy. If it wasn't for my girlfiend I would be very lonely too. Chronic depression and the damage antidepressants have done to me have made me lose interest in relationships. When I had good sex drive, though, I always pursued woman because a being in love is wondeful. In fact, it was the relationship and being with someone really special that drove me find a lovely woman more than the sex ever did. I was always falling in love with some lovely girl I that might have come into my life and then it was all wow! My sex drive was unbelievable, though, so I can't explain how being in love was my main motivation, I guess I am just a romantic sort. Still, lonelines is very hard and feels like real unending emptiness and I am still feel like this even though I have a girfriend. But I was expecting a lot more out of life than this and so there is great sadness, but I am trying to make the most out of it through mindfullness techniques and radical acceptance. To give up the struggle and let things be should bring some healing in the end by transending suffering. Then the brain has a chance to heal. Kv > > My therapist says I'm avoidant, refusing to feel.. but I am honestly unable to. I no longer have the capacity for real emotions. Being numb has its benefits,  I don't ever get angry and I have no flight or fight response so I am able to think rationally when everyone is panicking.. but at the same time I'm unable to empathize with others. Or with myself. The only emotions I have that I can name are pride, guilt, irritable, or boredom. > I've lost the ability to connect with anyone outside of myself. physically as well as emotionally. it's not just the sexual aspect. tho that's bad enough.. I realized that for as long as I have this condition. I am bound to be alone forever. I guess loneliness is an emotion too? > > >  > > > > > > How many of you talk to your inner voice and use it to feel feelings, certainly since when I took the SSRI  I was like a zombie and my inner voice disapeared.  I am now trying CBT in accessing and using the inner voice and feelings to move a way from being a robotatron? to a human being.  From my point of view it is certainly hard as my thinking and thought processes has slowed down, but I started with what I read somewhere about trying to talk to your inner voice for at least five minutes. > > > http://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=t & rct=j & q= & esrc=s & source=web & cd=2 & ved=0CD\ MQFjAB & url=http%3A%2F%2Fbakerthebrand.com%2F2011%2F09%2F06%2Flisten-to-y\ our-inner-voice%2F & ei=i710T52HCKac0AX0kd3mDw & usg=AFQjCNGlyseNNCdndcFC1_t\ M4crj9VW80w > > > > http://www.boldlivingtoday.com/2011/11/06/becoming-reacquainted-with-you\ r-inner-voice/ > > > > Its a thing we develop through life which helps us mature and to make decisions, I think a lot of why our 'libido' is gone is that we have forgotton how to listen to ourselves and turn ourselves on?? > > > Just an idea, would be interested if anyone else thought this. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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