Re: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience

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Thank you for sharing..... I can see I'm not the only one who has to fake it. Too bad he was not understanding about it. It's so unfair to "have to" fake it, but it would crush my husband if he thought he couldn't please me, like it was his fault Prozac neutered me. Thank God we're not men, a man can't "fake" it.To: SSRIsex Sent: Mon, April 25, 2011 2:09:29 PMSubject: Re: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience

My ex broke up with me because of pssd. He said he can't be with a girl who doesn't have feelings for him bla bla bla. We had sex for 6 months- daily and I faked it every time. He noticed something was off, but couldn't quite figure it out. Sent on the Sprint® Now Network from my BlackBerry®

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Date: Mon, 25 Apr 2011 09:16:37 -0700 (PDT)To: <SSRIsex >ReplyTo: SSRIsex

Subject: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience

We need a separate thread for women only. I truly feel sorry for the men.... they are having problems because they can't get or maintain an erection, and it's obvious. A man can't tell when he's with a woman with PSSD, woman can pretend she is having a great time but she can't actually be satisfied. It's so demoralizing. I'm forced to have to pretend I have an orgasm so the guy doesn't get his feelings hurt that he isn't satisfying me! It would take 30 minutes with a vibrator by myself to orgasm. By that time I've practically burned myself. I'm tapering off prozac after about 15 years on it. The last time I tried to quit I still couldn't orgasm.... I was in a horrible mood all the time.....so figured I'd go back on it. But

now I want my orgasm back, so I'm going to go through this withdrawal and be done with it, and hope to god in time I get my orgasm back. Any other women out there with encouraging news? or treatment news? Thanks.To: SSRIsex Sent: Sun, April 24, 2011 12:02:23 PMSubject: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience Any recommendations/thoughts for women with this problem? or is this only for men? > > > > > > > > I've written about this on this forum before but feel compelled to again. I've had PSSD for 16 years and counting after my primary care physician pushed Prozac on me like it was popcorn while I was getting divorced from my first wife. I burnt out within days as if the pills cut signals and impulses to the brain almost immediately on taking the stuff. I was in the care of the infamous Dr. Goldstein in Boston at the time who put me through all kinds

of needless and hideous procedures too lengthy and miserable to recount here. At one point, his theory du jour for my problem was bike riding being the cause. Even though I told him I only rode a bike about 3 times while my son was a cub scout, he insisted that was the cause. Ridiculous. > > > > > > > > I only learned that PSSD existed a few years ago when an article appeared about this in the Boston Globe. Until then I had no idea why this curse had fallen upon me. I was both relieved and frustrated that no urologist even as one as world-famous as Goldstein had ever told me about it. > > > > > > > > But really why I write is to tell you absolutely the best way to cope with this miserable loss of libido and potency. I inject about ten minutes before sex with my beautiful wife of 14 years and it's amazing. I've done this for about 12 years now. I get an amazing erection and libido is great

since this produces blood flow to the region. This has allowed me to have a great physical relationship with my wife all these years. I know, I was scared beyond comprehension when the urologist back then recommended this. Stick a needle in my penis? You've got to be kidding. But after he showed me the proper technique I can tell you it's nothing. I mean it. The needles are so small and easy to slip under the skin. It's nothing. It's like, this is all I have to do for a great erection and libido and great sex with my beautiful wife? Piece of cake. So to all guys suffering, seriously consider this. Your urologist can prescribe this known as "tri-mix" and you can order it through any pharmacy that does compounding. I e-mail the pharmacy and get it in the mail chilled in a day or two by UPS. Ask me any questions on the forum or off-line. Guys --- do this. Until / if there is ever a cure for PSSD, this is categorically the best way to conquer the

misery. > > > > > > > > > >

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"When will this end, please?" oh gosh...... I feel for you!!!You don't need to apologize, and you're right.... it is a bit easier for women because the situation isn't as obvious as being a man and not able to have or maintain an erection. I would really be upset!!!! and it would effect me alot more psychologically if I was a man!!! Giving a man pleasure has been the fun part for me anyways, always gives me something to think about later. So I'm expecting to get my orgasm back at the most a couple years after I completely go off Prozac (I better!!!). I'm just hanging in there and waiting someday for my real fun and reward..... but making my guy happy nonetheless cause he gets his fun. I would still love a man even if he couldn't have an

erection, and be really patient, knowing how bad it affects a man psychologically, and it makes it worse. What about viagra? That doesn't work at all?MTo: SSRIsex Sent: Tue, April 26, 2011 12:02:20 PMSubject: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience

I feel the need to apologise to the women here, as I really thought it was a bit easier for you because you could fake it, or tell the guy what it is like for you and then try to give him some pleasure. This way you still might get the man you want (I've let some lovely women go who I would have normally chased and I really hate it). But now I see I'm wrong, and that it is just as hard for you women because sex without feelings or pleasure is just awful. And it is like that for me too: I can sometimes get it up, but boy is it horrible trying to keep the stamina up when it is so uninteresting. Normally all I can think about is breakfast, or dinner, or the pub, etc, or when will this end, please?

Kaivey

> > > > >

> > > > > I've written about this on this forum before but feel compelled to again.

> >I've had PSSD for 16 years and counting after my primary care physician pushed

> >Prozac on me like it was popcorn while I was getting divorced from my first

> >wife. I burnt out within days as if the pills cut signals and impulses to the

> >brain almost immediately on taking the stuff. I was in the care of the infamous

> >Dr. Goldstein in Boston at the time who put me through all kinds of needless and

> >hideous procedures too lengthy and miserable to recount here. At one point, his

> >theory dujour for my problem was bike riding being the cause. Even though I told

> >him I only rode a bike about 3 times while my son was a cub scout, he insisted

> >that was the cause. Ridiculous.

> > > > >

> > > > > I only learned that PSSD existed a few years ago when an article appeared

> >about this in the Boston Globe. Until then I had no idea why this curse had

> >fallen upon me. I was both relieved and frustrated that no urologist even as one

> >as world-famous as Goldstein had ever told me about it.

> > > > >

> > > > > But really why I write is to tell you absolutely the best way to cope

> >with this miserable loss of libido and potency. I inject about ten minutes

> >before sex with my beautiful wife of 14 years and it's amazing. I've done this

> >for about 12 years now. I get an amazing erection and libido is great since this

> >produces blood flow to the region. This has allowed me to have a great physical

> >relationship with my wife all these years. I know, I was scared beyond

> >comprehension when the urologist back then recommended this. Stick a needle in

> >my penis? You've got to be kidding. But after he showed me the proper technique

> >I can tell you it's nothing. I mean it. The needles are so small and easy to

> >slip under the skin. It's nothing. It's like, this is all I have to do for a

> >great erection and libido and great sex with my beautiful wife? Piece of cake.

> >So to all guys suffering, seriously consider this. Your urologist can prescribe

> >this known as "tri-mix" and you can order it through any pharmacy that does

> >compounding. I e-mail the pharmacy and get it in the mail chilled in a day or

> >two by UPS. Ask me any questions on the forum or off-line. Guys --- do this.

> >Until / if there is ever a cure for PSSD, this is categorically the best way to

> >conquer the misery.

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

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You could focus on just pleasuring the woman, and let her know you have a problem sexually, but temporary. It is only temporary. The more you worry about it, the more you develop a syndrome and negative feedback loop. I was with a guy who couldn't get it up at all. But I didn't give up on him at all, he just focused on me and it got him through..... then months later he got on viagra. Little did he know I was on Prozac and couldn't orgasm, so I had to fake it, but it was still alot of fun, and I love being with him. Now he has his mojo back, he has penile erectile dysfunction so HAS to take the viagra. It's still fun just being together sexually, I try not to think of it as just to "get off". Please don't give up. Women are

more understanding then you realize. Especially with men who shower them with little gifts, flowers, lovely emails, cards, love letters, hugging and kissing........ That won me more over then anything. You WILL recover and you WILL find that special woman. Don't ever say "why would she choose me?" This gets to be a self esteem issue and that's something you can change! There are alot of women who don't ever care about sex at all, more than you realize. They'd rather have a guy to cuddle with and not feel used sexually.To: SSRIsex Sent: Wed, April 27, 2011 11:31:53 AMSubject: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience

You might find this hard to believe coming from a man, but the bit I

find the hardest to cope with is not the lack of sex (which is still

terrible) , but my belief that it is almost impossible now for me to

find that special woman of my dreams who I would love to spend the rest

of my life with. Why would such woman choose me when they can have a

much more rewarding, interesting, and fun life with someone else. I just

hope I recover sometime.

Kaivey

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I've written about this on this forum before but feel

compelled to

> >again.

> >

> > >I've had PSSD for 16 years and counting after my primary care

physician pushed

> >

> > >Prozac on me like it was popcorn while I was getting divorced from

my first

> > >wife. I burnt out within days as if the pills cut signals and

impulses to the

>

> > >brain almost immediately on taking the stuff. I was in the care of

the

> >infamous

> >

> > >Dr. Goldstein in Boston at the time who put me through all kinds of

needless

> >and

> >

> > >hideous procedures too lengthy and miserable to recount here. At

one point,

> >his

> >

> > >theory dujour for my problem was bike riding being the cause. Even

though I

> >told

> >

> > >him I only rode a bike about 3 times while my son was a cub scout,

he insisted

> >

> > >that was the cause. Ridiculous.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I only learned that PSSD existed a few years ago when an

article

> >appeared

> >

> > >about this in the Boston Globe. Until then I had no idea why this

curse had

> > >fallen upon me. I was both relieved and frustrated that no

urologist even as

> >one

> >

> > >as world-famous as Goldstein had ever told me about it.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > But really why I write is to tell you absolutely the best

way to cope

> > >with this miserable loss of libido and potency. I inject about ten

minutes

> > >before sex with my beautiful wife of 14 years and it's amazing.

I've done this

> >

> > >for about 12 years now. I get an amazing erection and libido is

great since

> >this

> >

> > >produces blood flow to the region. This has allowed me to have a

great

> >physical

> >

> > >relationship with my wife all these years. I know, I was scared

beyond

> > >comprehension when the urologist back then recommended this. Stick

a needle in

> >

> > >my penis? You've got to be kidding. But after he showed me the

proper

> >technique

> >

> > >I can tell you it's nothing. I mean it. The needles are so small

and easy to

> > >slip under the skin. It's nothing. It's like, this is all I have to

do for a

> > >great erection and libido and great sex with my beautiful wife?

Piece of cake.

> >

> > >So to all guys suffering, seriously consider this. Your urologist

can

> >prescribe

> >

> > >this known as "tri-mix" and you can order it through any pharmacy

that does

> > >compounding. I e-mail the pharmacy and get it in the mail chilled

in a day or

>

> > >two by UPS. Ask me any questions on the forum or off-line. Guys ---

do this.

> > >Until / if there is ever a cure for PSSD, this is categorically the

best way

> >to

> >

> > >conquer the misery.

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

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Hi Ben

Ben I agree with you 100% , we will both recover . One sign that everything is coming back is when your old mental issues come back and you have to do you best to relax yourself.

Best, Adam

To: SSRIsex Sent: Fri, April 29, 2011 8:29:04 PMSubject: Re: The Only Way to Cope With This Misery -- Honestly -- From Experience

I will NEVER inject myself in the penis to have sex. That isn't real. I would rather have no sex then do that.Sorry to come at you. But to me that is juat not real. I will get better and I will have a healthy sexual relationship again. And I'll be damned if I put a needle in my dick.And it has nothing to do with being afraid of needles or pain, neither of these things do I have a problem with. It is about being a human being, and recovering, and BELIEVING in recovering, and knowing it is possible.Some of us here want to actually recover and not have to use a crutch our entire lives. And I will be damned If i do that. I would MUCH rather be alone and sexless than that. MUCH rather.> > > > > > > >> > > > > > > > I've written about this on this forum before but feel> > compelled to> > > >again.>

> > >> > > > >I've had PSSD for 16 years and counting after my primary care> > physician pushed> > > >> > > > >Prozac on me like it was popcorn while I was getting divorced from> > my first> > > > >wife. I burnt out within days as if the pills cut signals and> > impulses to the> > >> > > > >brain almost immediately on taking the stuff. I was in the care of> > the> > > >infamous> > > >> > > > >Dr. Goldstein in Boston at the time who put me through all kinds of> > needless> > > >and> > > >> > > > >hideous procedures too lengthy and miserable to recount here. At> > one point,> > > >his> > > >> > > > >theory dujour for my problem was

bike riding being the cause. Even> > though I> > > >told> > > >> > > > >him I only rode a bike about 3 times while my son was a cub scout,> > he insisted> > > >> > > > >that was the cause. Ridiculous.> > > > > > > >> > > > > > > > I only learned that PSSD existed a few years ago when an> > article> > > >appeared> > > >> > > > >about this in the Boston Globe. Until then I had no idea why this> > curse had> > > > >fallen upon me. I was both relieved and frustrated that no> > urologist even as> > > >one> > > >> > > > >as world-famous as Goldstein had ever told me about it.> > > > > > > >> > > > > >

> > But really why I write is to tell you absolutely the best> > way to cope> > > > >with this miserable loss of libido and potency. I inject about ten> > minutes> > > > >before sex with my beautiful wife of 14 years and it's amazing.> > I've done this> > > >> > > > >for about 12 years now. I get an amazing erection and libido is> > great since> > > >this> > > >> > > > >produces blood flow to the region. This has allowed me to have a> > great> > > >physical> > > >> > > > >relationship with my wife all these years. I know, I was scared> > beyond> > > > >comprehension when the urologist back then recommended this. Stick> > a needle in> > > >> > > > >my

penis? You've got to be kidding. But after he showed me the> > proper> > > >technique> > > >> > > > >I can tell you it's nothing. I mean it. The needles are so small> > and easy to> > > > >slip under the skin. It's nothing. It's like, this is all I have to> > do for a> > > > >great erection and libido and great sex with my beautiful wife?> > Piece of cake.> > > >> > > > >So to all guys suffering, seriously consider this. Your urologist> > can> > > >prescribe> > > >> > > > >this known as "tri-mix" and you can order it through any pharmacy> > that does> > > > >compounding. I e-mail the pharmacy and get it in the mail chilled> > in a day or> > >> > > > >two by UPS.

Ask me any questions on the forum or off-line. Guys ---> > do this.> > > > >Until / if there is ever a cure for PSSD, this is categorically the> > best way> > > >to> > > >> > > > >conquer the misery.> > > > > > > >> > > > > > >> > > > > >> > > > >> > > >> > >> >>