Re: New to the group...and thank you

[Guest guest]

Iam always surprised that people dont believe us. Everyone knows these drugs

ruin your sexuality. All we are saying is that the damage can be long term. Read

the warning label to your hubby. Its just one more mental step to get to pssd.

alex

New to the group...and thank you

I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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[Guest guest]

Glad you found us. It took me a while to realize what was going on and

understand that it was PSSD. I, too, am thankful I found this site. I am also

female and married. It relieved a lot of marital stress to be able to show my

husband it wasn't all in my head and I wasn't alone. Also to be able to share

what each of us is trying in order to recover.

H

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> I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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[Guest guest]

It would help if your partner would read this Yahoo group. You could also both

consult a sex therapist or relationship counselor. And you might consider some

degree of polyamory. Your partner could than have physical intimicy with another

person. That could possibly save your relationship, although one should first

read reliable websites about polyamory.

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> I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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[Guest guest]

hi k.bushnell, I am glad you found this group and no, you are not the only one

at all. welcome, I hope you find the support and even solutions here that you

need.

steve, I don't know what your motive is with these kinds of responses.

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> > I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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[Guest guest]

I am new here too, and there is so much information on here and online that you

can share with your husband. I'm lucky in that my husband has always been

supportive of my dysfunction, but I don't think he really believed me until now

that it was something physiological. Now I have much proof, and I think he gets

it now.

I wanted to point out too, that if per chance you are taking or have ever taken

birth control pills, they cause MAJOR problems too.

I wish I would've know years ago that herbal remedies can help. I'm taking fish

oil, Vit. D and Vit. E, as well as a Woman's Libido Supplement, and I'm just

starting to see some improvement.

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> I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

>

[Guest guest]

What?!?!

I'm sorry but I don't support that. That sounds like a recipe for relationship

disaster. The mear fact that she is willing to do what it takes to try and

overcome this and not stay passive on the sideline could certainly warrant a

little patience and perhaps " self fulfillment " in the meantime on his behalf.

This is my opinion. My husband and I have certainly been able to maintain a

healthy relationship despite the PSSD which has included continued open

discussions on this topic and patience.

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> > I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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[Guest guest]

Polyamory can indeed be a risk for an intimite relationship. That is why people

should first read a lot of reliable information about it, if they consider it.

But in some cases polyamory in some form can contribute to a solution for sexual

dysfunction, I believe. And a sex therapist or relationship counselor can helpt

with the decisions and communication about it.

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> > It would help if your partner would read this Yahoo group. You could also

both consult a sex therapist or relationship counselor. And you might consider

some degree of polyamory. Your partner could than have physical intimicy with

another person. That could possibly save your relationship, although one should

first read reliable websites about polyamory.

[Guest guest]

I would definitely NOT recommend polyamory, as I think it could make your

relationship much worse and ruin your marriage. With this kind of thing you run

into such complications as jealousy and STDs. No, if you and your husband can

somehow stay true to one another (as many of us old married people have promised

on our wedding days), I believe it is best.

Both of you talking with a trained sex therapist might help though.

Kay

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> > I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of you

that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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[Guest guest]

Yes polyamory is not without a risk of divorce. But every relationship is

different and not having sex can also ruin a relationship.

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> I would definitely NOT recommend polyamory, as I think it could make your

relationship much worse and ruin your marriage. With this kind of thing you run

into such complications as jealousy and STDs.

[Guest guest]

Steve, I think you are way off-base with the polyamory idea. It's not really

appropriate advice for this forum.

V

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> > I would definitely NOT recommend polyamory, as I think it could make your

relationship much worse and ruin your marriage. With this kind of thing you run

into such complications as jealousy and STDs.

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[Guest guest]

A few years back a woman member of the group had success with testosterone

shots. Like other members they stop posting after they get better.

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> > > I am new here and the first thing that I want to say is thanks to all of

you that have posted on here. I have been struggling with sexual dysfunction for

awhile now and it is so good to know that I am not the only one! I have become

so tired of being the bad person and being told that Zoloft could not have

caused this problem. I have absolutely no interest in having sex and it has

caused some major strife in my marriage. It's nice to know that there are people

out there who understand. I try to explain it to my husband and he doesn't get

it, he just gets mad at me. I just don't know where to go from here...

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