Re: Stupid NTs they'll never understand AS

[Guest guest]

" I am sure if we go to another country people would

understand us ... "

Don't be so sure about that.

Raven

[Guest guest]

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I'll have to side here with Raven. I have clinical depression in

partial remission. I've recovered some. Anyway, I have a much brighter

outlook now.

Dating is not something I want in the least. I don't want to date a

guy. (Yuck!) (I'm not a homosexual either.) Dating and exclusive

relationships are an invention of guess who??? The NTs! When I was

younger I thought I was supposed to date because it was the expectation

of everyone around me. I hated the idea of being different, but I

wasn't that keen on dating. I have an NT friend who is sad that she

isn't dating anyone. When she said that I looked at her like she was

crazy. I guess I'm the one who is atypical, not her.

and the zoo.

Monteiro wrote:

> Hi Raven. How are you?

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> In a way I totally disagree with you are saying in terms

> everything. For the love of God and Aspies alike, you sound so

> optimistic and a happy-go-lucky person my opinion.

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> Dating is like an elaborate screening process: a complicated job

> interview and I have to admit that those things are things us

> Aspies aren't so good at all. I myself would like to form an

> Aspergers Dating Society so we get all the lonley Aspie males and

> get them to experience the dating scene for themselves.

>

> Let's have the world open their ears and eyes and see what our

> gifts and traits will benefit society in general. We were huge

> centuries ago yet now we are mislabeled by society in general.

> What wrong have we done to be discriminated?

>

> The world has yet to understand what we are and how we can benefit

> them. We are the best politicians, lovers, workers and so forth

> which make us all that different from everyone else.

>

> When will the world wake up and realize that we have a lot to

> offer them and stop being dyslexic arrogant and ignorant in the

> meanwhile??

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> We live in a weird world

> Enjoy it.

> ~Jerry Springer when promoting his uncut show clips~

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[Guest guest]

I wouldn't mind finding a woman, but all the interesting ones are already taken. There was this one woman I went to school with for a year. She's quite pretty and inherited the part ownership of the family restaraunt, one of the most popular in the area. As is typical with me, I never got up the nerve to speak to her. In this case it turned out to be a good thing since I learned a couple of months ago that she was already married and has a daughter. There have been some others, but to tell you the truth I am not sure I could handle a relationship, especially with an NT. I guess I like being by myself too much. To put it simply, I can't really visualize what it would be like or how what things would be like now if I was in a relationship or even married.

Maybe that will change one day, but I'm not holding my breath.

[Guest guest]

" When will the world wake up and realize that we have

a lot to offer them and stop being dyslexic arrogant and ignorant in

the meanwhile?? "

I don't know, , but I certainly hope it's sooner rather than

later. I hate knowing that my child will suffer as I did until he

finds a place within himself as I did that allows me to weather the

storm with much less pain.

I hope you have a wonderful Holiday and an incredible year in 2005.

Raven

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> We live in a weird world

> Enjoy it.

> ~Jerry Springer when promoting his uncut show clips~

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[Guest guest]

" I wouldn't mind finding a woman, but all the

>interesting ones are already taken. "

Really? Wow! Thanks for letting me know ahead of time that I'm

either taken or not very interesting. <wink> :-)