Optimism Month - Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice - 3/30/12

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Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice - 3/30/12 - "Optimism Month" So, here we are, nearing the end of March, which was designated National Optimism Month in the U.S. Earlier this month, I challenged you to make a conscious effort to notice the negative, then another conscious effort to turn each negative around to a positive. How did you do? If I remember my own insights when I happened upon this idea, the first thing I realized was just how negative the world around me really was. I hadn't heard it before, but once I became aware, I couldn't

hang around in the teacher's lunchroom. The negativity actually soured me on lunch! Just getting away from the negative conversations wasn't enough. I needed to take hold of the world around me. First, I needed to internally refute the negativity I was hearing, and change the picture in my mind to a more positive one - just like I've asked you to do. Then, once I was more confident and comfortable with in my internal conversation, it was time to externally stop the negativity, but literally saying, "Stop. No more. This isn't helping the situation. What if." and then I'd go on to paint the picture of a solution rather than continue to dwell on the problem. If this whole idea of taking a negative and rephrasing - or reframing - the conversation into the positive is new to you, then this will take a little practice. However, it is possible, and the more you do it, the easier it becomes. Pretty soon, it becomes automatic for you, as this new

habit pattern becomes a part of who you are. And once you get the hang of it, and become mindfully effective at moving to the positive, then I can almost guarantee you will be calmer, happier, and able to handle whatever comes your way. And those around you? Well, they will want to be just like you. Go ahead, give them the secret. They will be glad you did. Lou TiceThe Pacific Institutewww.thepacificinstitute.com The effects of The Pacific Institute's education are reverberating around the world. For weekly updates, go to www.TPIGlobalNews.com To view past Winner's Circle messages, or make changes to your subscription, or unsubscribe, go to web site http://mailman.wolfe.net/mailman/listinfo/wcnFor any problems, please email rschau@... The Pacific Institute, Inc. copyrights 1997-2012. All rights reserved.Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice (WCN) is a registered trademark of The Pacific Institute. Code 033012 _______________________________________________Wcn mailing listWcn@...http://mailman.wolfe.net/mailman/listinfo/wcn