Re: The OLe' BUT YOU LOOK FINE PROBLEM is happening again...

October 30, 2007

This is the Sppon Theory on Butyoudontlooksick.com; I have always liked it.

Perhaps it will help.

aharleybaby68 wrote: Can

you All help me out?

I met a great guy, and we are having the issue about me saying I dont

feel well and him saying I look or sound fine as though I am lying or

something and it is really upsetting me..almost to the point of saying

BYE..but I know if I could get him to understand this a little better

we could probably be fine with our relationship...I think he thinks

this is " my excuse " to be lazy when in fact I WOULD LOVE TO BE OUT

DOING THINGS AND HAVING FUN!!! Can anyone express how they have dealt

with others who dont understand ?? I am just gonna ask him to read

what is posted cuz my vision is so bad...

I DONT FEEL WELL I LIVE IN ILLINOIS..THE WEATHER STINKS THIS TIME OF

YEAR AND I HAVE CHIARI~PSEUDOTUMOR CEREBRI!AN LP SHUNT~AND EDS!!!

I had to have a medi port after 32 needle sticks to get an IV didnt

work...then had to have nutrition therapy to get my weight back up to

close to normal I had dropped down to 81lbs...I was bed ridden..

when I met him I had gotten the weight back on, felt like a million

bucks compared to previous stuff and the way I felt..NOW I AM HAVING

THE PAIN OF WEATHER CHANGES AND DONT FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING!

PLEASE HELP ME OUT !!!

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October 30, 2007

I have photos of some of my friends and family. I have in the past, when met

with this same problem, pulled out these photos and laid them out and asked

the person to pick out who in the group of photos has had a breast removed

because of cancer? Who has had 3 heart attacks, a pace maker put in and a triple

bypass? Who in the group wears braces on both legs? Then I point out the

people who have those problems...and tell them sometimes really bad illnesses

aren't evident by how they look or behave. People like us who deal with a

great deal of pain everyday learn to live with it.

Some people have taken it to heart and others still didn't get it.

Good Luck

Shari

Wichita KS

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