Re: Work and Asthma

[Guest guest]

Well no one should be treated like that it's not right. No one can tell you who you can or can not talk to you. If you have an HR department I'd talk to them. Stress can make your asthma worse or even bring it on. I'm sure you need a job sounds like this person is a control freak. I'd start looking for another job, until then learn everything you can and be excited about it. Don't let some bully make your life miserable. As for the asthma I'd talk to your Doctor and see what they say. This time of year is terrible at least where I live.

To: asthma Sent: Thursday, February 12, 2009 9:14:20 PMSubject: Work and Asthma

 My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept saying things about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,and he didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, and I feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peace now that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course to protect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling me that I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do, in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probably shouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman how she was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed to talk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is suppose to gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk to anyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even go through all the

details of the things that he said about me, but from being insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am not technically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need a book to learn software that I have never even seen before. It is really discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learn C#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keep this job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please this egomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawling her eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?

[Guest guest]

Does your boss have a boss also? If so, you could talk to his boss about this and the "phsycological abuse" he is giving you, because that is what he is doing to you. When got in my present job my boss told me I should not be "friendly" with anyone at my work because of the "kind of work / highly confidential" information I manage. Since it was a "requirement" in this position. I accept the fact that I should talk to much or establish a to personal relationship with my co-workers, but I don't thing that is what's going on in your case.

Hun, I know by first hand that sometimes the pressure at work can trigger asthma attack so, try to be relax while dealing with this hard situation.. I will be praying for you.

Ishia

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Date: 2/12/2009 7:14:45 PM

To: asthma

Subject: Work and Asthma

 My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept saying things about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,and he didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, and I feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peace now that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course to protect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling me that I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do, in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probably shouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman how she was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed to talk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is suppose to gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk to anyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even go through all the details of the things that he said about me, but from being insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am not technically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need a book to learn software that I have never even seen before. It is really discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learn C#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keep this job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please this egomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawling her eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?

[Guest guest]

you need a job put in a complaint with the EEOC, I hate these bastards, I had a boss that was like that I got a good one now and I couldn't be happier, for every bad apple their has to be a good one out there

To: asthma Sent: Friday, February 13, 2009 9:57:34 AMSubject: Re: Work and Asthma

i know how you feel a few years ago i had a boss who bullied me and my friends people would be coming out of the office in tears however she would pick on me cos of my eczema there were other issues to but YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THIS..... THIS IS BULLYING IN THE WORK PLACE. is there anyone else you can talk to about this ie his manager?

From: <luvbooks1cox (DOT) net>Subject: Work and AsthmaTo: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) comDate: Friday, 13 February, 2009, 3:14 AM

 My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept saying things about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,and he didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, and I feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peace now that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course to protect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling me that I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do, in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probably shouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman how she was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed to talk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is suppose to gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk to anyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even go through all the

details of the things that he said about me, but from being insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am not technically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need a book to learn software that I have never even seen before. It is really discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learn C#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keep this job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please this egomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawling her eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?

[Guest guest]

,

It may be worth it for a little while. You have to protect your

health and that environment is definitely not healthy! Lots of hugs.

Madeline

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> From: <luvbooks1cox (DOT) net>

> Subject: Work and Asthma

> To: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) com

> Date: Friday, 13 February, 2009, 3:14 AM

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> My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept saying

things about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,and

he didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, and

I feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peace

now that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course to

protect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling me

that I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do,

in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probably

shouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman how

she was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed to

talk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is suppose

to gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk to

anyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even go

through all the details of the things that he said about me, but from

being insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am not

technically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need a

book to learn software that I have never even seen before. It is

really discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learn

C#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keep

this job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please this

egomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawling

her eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyone

have any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks, I am hoping that I can find another job soon and it will all be irrelevant.

Work and Asthma> To: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) com> Date: Friday, 13 February, 2009, 3:14 AM> > >  > My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept sayingthings about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,andhe didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, andI feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peacenow that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course toprotect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling methat I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do,in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probablyshouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman howshe was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed totalk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is supposeto gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk toanyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even gothrough all the details of the things that he said about me, but frombeing insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am nottechnically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need abook to learn software that I have never even seen before. It isreally discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learnC#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keepthis job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please thisegomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawlingher eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyonehave any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?> > >

[Guest guest]

, really I ave been in it before, I put a complaint to uman resourcs and told tem I was contactin EEOC, I was transferred at te end of te process, I was youn and cute and I worked in enineerin (damn keyboard), yuck, sexual arrassed entire time I switced to law worked for te President, arassed the entire time I threatened to report him and have him disbarred -- what te HELL, luckily my new boss has 2 daughters, people are totally F--- up,

MElissa

To: asthma Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2009 5:55:23 AMSubject: Re: Work and Asthma

,It may be worth it for a little while. You have to protect yourhealth and that environment is definitely not healthy! Lots of hugs.Madeline> > From: <luvbooks1cox (DOT) net>> Subject: Work and Asthma> To: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) com> Date: Friday, 13 February, 2009, 3:14 AM> > >  > My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept sayingthings about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,andhe didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, andI feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peacenow that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course toprotect my job, I

had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling methat I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do,in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probablyshouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman howshe was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed totalk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is supposeto gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk toanyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even gothrough all the details of the things that he said about me, but frombeing insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am nottechnically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need abook to learn software that I have never even seen before. It isreally discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learnC#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I

can keepthis job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please thisegomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawlingher eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyonehave any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?> > >

[Guest guest]

Isn't that the truth.

Work and Asthma> To: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) com> Date: Friday, 13 February, 2009, 3:14 AM> > >  > My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept sayingthings about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,andhe didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, andI feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peacenow that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course toprotect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling methat I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do,in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probablyshouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman howshe was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed totalk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is supposeto gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk toanyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even gothrough all the details of the things that he said about me, but frombeing insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am nottechnically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need abook to learn software that I have never even seen before. It isreally discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learnC#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keepthis job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please thisegomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawlingher eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyonehave any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?> > >