Re: Good Luck Elisa and Jeff!!!

[Guest guest]

I think that is wonderful that you have a relationship that is long lasting.

I get a lot of rhetoric about getting married and it is sad that people feel

the way they do. I am happy. What I appreciate the most is that Jeff is

empathetic and understanding to my disorders. He takes care of me when I am

in pain, or weak, or in an emotional crisis. So many people have lost their

compassion and selflessness. They have become expectant and care for only

themsleves. Because of this I count my blessings that I have a partner who

will take me as I am. Even when I announce that my mother is coming to stay

for a month or 2....... hee hee hee.....

Love

>

>Reply-To: erythema_nodosum_Group

>To: erythema_nodosum_Group

>Subject: Re: Good Luck and Jeff!!!

>Date: Wed, 07 Apr 2004 01:46:09 -0000

>

>Dear ,

> July 17th, eh? Well July 17th will also be the EN Group's 1 year

>Anniversary!! And you know how great this group turned out, so I think

>you picked the perfect day!

> Don't know if I ever admitted it, but Steve and I lived together

>for 11 1/2 (eleven and one-half) yrs. before I agreed to marry him. I

>was a child of the '60's and like the song goes " we don't need no

>piece of paper from the city hall.... " . But actually getting legally

>married was the best way to experess our love and commitment. Tomorrow

>is 20 years since we were legally married on Steve's birthday--he'll

>be (say it ain't so!) 60 years old!

> Love,

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

{My wife is totally an Angel for lighting the way through my dark times

with glowing compassion and warm teas and icyhot leg rubs. Sadly enough,

it looks like I'll be getting the change to pay her back in kind. Her

doctors have recently told her that she might have breast cancer. :| :S

Will know more later, but I learned how to be a pillar of support

largely through being helped by her, I can only hope I'm as good as she

is at it. We're two of a kind and cannot ever see it as that. it'd be

like a one-wheeled motorcycle. Prize every relationship in your life,

and that's me stating the obvious and being cliche' heh. hmmm.}

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[Guest guest]

Dear Cobalt,

I will keep you and your wife in my prayers.......

> {My wife is totally an Angel for lighting the way through my dark

times

> with glowing compassion and warm teas and icyhot leg rubs. Sadly

enough,

> it looks like I'll be getting the change to pay her back in kind.

Her

> doctors have recently told her that she might have breast

cancer. :| :S

> Will know more later, but I learned how to be a pillar of support

> largely through being helped by her, I can only hope I'm as good as

she

> is at it. We're two of a kind and cannot ever see it as that. it'd

be

> like a one-wheeled motorcycle. Prize every relationship in your

life,

> and that's me stating the obvious and being cliche' heh. hmmm.}

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

I can only give you my own experience about getting married, and

that is that being married brings the reltionship to a higher level.

We lived together for 11 1/2 yrs. and thought we were committed, but

once we were married legally, it was even more spiritual and

wonderful. Steve is like Jeff. I get total support from him. He has

never complained once about my EN or anything. We took " est " (Erhart

Seminar Trainings) together and it teaches you to fully accept the way

a person is and the way they are NOT. We brought that understanding

into our relationship. There are many lessons I need to learn in this

life, but I was lucky that I learned about Committment and Love at an

early age--like you!

Love,