Re: Another Flare (Roseanne)

October 7, 2009

I just read your post and was blown away. I too, am going through an almost

identical situation with my daughter and her little boy who is two. It also

breaks my heart and keeps me in a " flare " . Some times it gets almost

overwhelming. The only thing that seems to help me is to go in my room, lock

the door and PRAY to God for a solution and to give me the strength to deal with

things. If it wasn't for the little boy, my husband and I would have kicked her

out along time ago. We just cant stand the thought of him being homeless and of

course we are attached too him and him us. I will pray for you too and hope you

find peace and health. Take care-

Kim Silvagnoli

I have such a stressful situation that has induced another flare for me and I

just got over a long 7 month flare. I don`t know what to do. I guess I need to

vent.

I have a daughter who has a beautiful 6 year old daughter. My daughter has had

drug issues and is not the best mother. No patience, and the list could go on. I

worry so much about my grandaughter. I actually had custody of the little girl

for about 9 months a couple of years ago. Them my daughter got her back. My

daughter has very little respect for me and fights with me at the drop of a hat.

I take the little girl as often as possible because I`am told by social workers

that being with me as much as possible will have a positive impact on this

child.I love this child more than I love my own life. She has been with me from

the day she was born. Anyway, at times if my daughter has aman in her life and

is happy she doesnt fight with me. But lately if I say anything she jumps down

my throat. She agreed a couple months ago to start going to meetings for

problems with alcohol recently as well. But she hasnt been going and she took my

grandaughter to aparty

and I called her on and well. She screamed at me so loud and horribly that I

have been shaken since.

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