Re: Work and Asthma

[Guest guest]

He should not be a boss. He is a terrible person. This is nothing but harrassment. It is illegal. As for Asthma, I have said it many times here in the last month. The last 9 months I was working 10 hours a day, and coming home to a disabled husband. I was so stressed out and over tired from all this. My asthma was horrible. A month ago, my husband died. Sad to say, but my asthma has been so much better.

Cheryl Burton ncicheryl@...

To: asthma Sent: Thursday, February 12, 2009 7:27:50 PMSubject: Re: Work and Asthma

Well no one should be treated like that it's not right. No one can tell you who you can or can not talk to you. If you have an HR department I'd talk to them. Stress can make your asthma worse or even bring it on. I'm sure you need a job sounds like this person is a control freak. I'd start looking for another job, until then learn everything you can and be excited about it. Don't let some bully make your life miserable. As for the asthma I'd talk to your Doctor and see what they say. This time of year is terrible at least where I live.

From: <luvbooks1cox (DOT) net>To: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) comSent: Thursday, February 12, 2009 9:14:20 PMSubject: Work and Asthma

 My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept saying things about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,and he didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, and I feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peace now that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course to protect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling me that I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do, in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probably shouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman how she was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed to talk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is suppose to gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk to anyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even go through all the

details of the things that he said about me, but from being insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am not technically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need a book to learn software that I have never even seen before. It is really discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learn C#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keep this job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please this egomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawling her eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?

[Guest guest]

i know how you feel a few years ago i had a boss who bullied me and my friends people would be coming out of the office in tears however she would pick on me cos of my eczema there were other issues to but YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THIS..... THIS IS BULLYING IN THE WORK PLACE. is there anyone else you can talk to about this ie his manager?

Subject: Work and AsthmaTo: asthma Date: Friday, 13 February, 2009, 3:14 AM

 My boss is giving me even more grief. Today he kept saying things about my personality I talk too much, I don't talk enough,and he didn't stop putting me down until I started crying my eyes out, and I feel terrible today as usual. Hopefully he will give me some peace now that I have bawled my eyes out in front of him and of course to protect my job, I had to say thank you for abusing me, and telling me that I talked about being sick too much. Etc. Which I don't feel I do, in fact, I know things about people in the company that I probably shouldn't know becuase I listen so much. I even asked a sick woman how she was doing and I got in trouble for it. I am now not allowed to talk to anyone in the company except him. Everything I do is suppose to gol through him. So, basically I am suppose to not to talk to anyone, and I am suppose to get my job done anyway. I can't even go through all the

details of the things that he said about me, but from being insecure to being too talkative. He told me that I am not technically inclined, and he couldn't understand why I would need a book to learn software that I have never even seen before. It is really discouraging becuase I was so excited about starting to learn C#. So, somehow I need to stop being sick enough, so that I can keep this job long enough to get through the bad economy, and please this egomanical man. I mean who browbeats an employee until she is bawling her eyes out, and it takes a heck of a lot to make me cry. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this alolng with my asthma?