Well, maybe I just don't do the work, to be honest with you.

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I didn't need the book I guess...

Only the 4 questions and the turn around, does it makes sense?

And even the 4 question I rarely use.

Well, maybe I just don't do the work, to be honest with you.

I am connected to 's philosophy a lot

and I do the work in a deferent way I guess

T

-- Re: Plain Old Ugly --

Hi Tami, you amaze me too! How can you know how to do the work, if

you gave away the book!! There is so much in there to absorb, I have

listened to the cd's many times so I can take in in deeply.

Love

> > > > > > > >> Whose business is it if I use technology to enhance

> my

> > > > face?

> > > > > > Still

> > > > > > > >> mine.

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > Definitely your business, . I still ponder

this,

> > > though.

> > > > > > > > You use the word " enhance. " That implies that that

you

> > > feel

> > > > > that

> > > > > > > > having fewer wrinkles is better, no? I am guessing

it

> > > > wouldn't

> > > > > > FEEL

> > > > > > > > any better. Like if you were lying in the dark,

would

> > your

> > > > > face

> > > > > > feel

> > > > > > > > any better without wrinkles? So how is it better? It

> > LOOKS

> > > > > better,

> > > > > > > > right? To other people?

> > > > > > > No.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > And you know that.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > What is saying, is that there is action without

> > > motives.

> > > > > > > Action without thought.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Sometimes we forget that. We can even go as far as to

> > > > believing

> > > > > > that

> > > > > > > there would be NO action WITHOUT motives.

> > > > > > > When actually it is the other way around: there is no

> > action

> > > > > WITH

> > > > > > > motives. Motives... don't do action. They don't do

> > anything.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > They are just thoughts. Come to pass. Don't MAKE

> anything

> > > > happen.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Don't TRY to go there. If you really want to ponder

> about

> > > it,

> > > > > ask

> > > > > > > yourself if you can find ANYTHING you have ever done

> > without

> > > a

> > > > > > motive.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Then you may have a place to start from.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > If you were stranded on a desert island for the rest

> of

> > > your

> > > > > life,

> > > > > > > > with only you and a plastic surgeon, would you have

> the

> > > > > surgery?

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > None of my business, but I'm asking anyhow.

> > > > > > > Yes, but you are asking the wrong person.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > And it even is the " wrong " question!

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > When I read about wanting to get surgery

because

> > she

> > > > > lost

> > > > > > 100

> > > > > > > > pounds and had lots of excess skin hanging from her

> > neck,

> > > I

> > > > can

> > > > > > > > imagine that would FEEL uncomfortable, swinging

around

> > > when

> > > > > she

> > > > > > moved.

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > I see your point in the ordering in a restaurant

> story,

> > > but

> > > > > that

> > > > > > one

> > > > > > > > has nothing to do with how you appear to other

people.

> I

> > > > guess

> > > > > > what I

> > > > > > > > am getting at is, is there a reason that has nothing

> to

> > do

> > > > > with

> > > > > > how

> > > > > > > > you appear to others, that you would have cosmetic

> > > surgery?

> > > > If

> > > > > > not,

> > > > > > > > why not just say that you want to look better to

other

> > > > people?

> > > > > > More

> > > > > > > > refreshed, less tired, younger, whatever?

> > > > > > > Karin, if you are really interested in this:

> > > > > > > What do you see when you look in the mirror?

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Who are you around ugly people?

> > > > > > > - How do you feel?

> > > > > > > - What do you think of them?

> > > > > > > - What advice do you have for them?

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > I'm imagining I would find it refreshing if

> > > said, " I'd

> > > > > like

> > > > > > to

> > > > > > > > reach more people with The Work, and having surgery

> > would

> > > > make

> > > > > me

> > > > > > > > look better on TV and at workshops, and/or I like

> > feeling

> > > > > pretty

> > > > > > to

> > > > > > > > other people, so I decided to do it. "

> > > > > > > >

> > > > > > > > Personally I find this subject interesting, and

> perhaps

> > I

> > > > will

> > > > > > never

> > > > > > > > be enlightened enough to not find it so.

> > > > > > > Well, keep on running, then!

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Take care.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Love,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > >

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