I should have bought my plane ticket last week!

[Guest guest]

I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and the

fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already, for 2

months from now!

I should have booked it last week!

Is that true

Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight right

now.

What is the reality? I didnt book it.

Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

No

How do I react

VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I had a

chance and procrastinated

Would be I be without this belief?

Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in the

abundance of the universe,

I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

[Guest guest]

The airline company and its employees are very happy you didnt book

your flight.

apparently they need your money.

You should pay more for a flight to help out the airline industry.

is that true?

I feel for you i have done things like that also.

Money is a flow let it go. easier said than done.

You have my sympathy, roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , " " <Initiate2@m...> wrote:

>

> I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and the

> fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already, for 2

> months from now!

> I should have booked it last week!

> Is that true

> Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight right

> now.

> What is the reality? I didnt book it.

> Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

> No

> How do I react

> VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I had a

> chance and procrastinated

> Would be I be without this belief?

> Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in the

> abundance of the universe,

> I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

>

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

thank you for your work.

Am 01.02.2006 um 03:59 schrieb :

> I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and the

> fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already, for 2

> months from now!

> I should have booked it last week!

> Is that true

> Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight right

> now.

So, you should have saved a lot of money. What for? How would your

life improve if you had more money, now?

> What is the reality? I didnt book it.

> Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

> No

Good to know. It MAY have been better. And maybe not.

> How do I react

> VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I had a

> chance and procrastinated

When you get back to the point where you now think you should have

booked. Did you know the prices at that time? You had a reason for

not booking earlier. What was it?

> Would be I be without this belief?

> Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in the

> abundance of the universe,

How would you feel, if you did not know that the prices went up?

> I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

As true?

Love,

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[Guest guest]

,

Maybe this isn't a particularly heavy topic for you anymore. I just

wanted to say my main suggestion in doing the Work would be to spend

more time with the TAs. Mainly where is your proof that the TAs are

as true or truer?

*I shouldn't have bought my plane ticket last week.

1. because....

2. because....

3. because....

*I should have bought me last week.

(What might that mean?)

1.

2.

3.

With the " my thinking " TA you can try moving it around to different

places in the sentence. Eg.:

*My thinking should have bought my plane ticket last week.

or perhaps more interesting:

*I should have bought my thinking last week.

1. in the sense that....

2.

3.

Hope this helps,

Dwight

[Guest guest]

>

> Dear ,

>

> thank you for your work.

>

> Am 01.02.2006 um 03:59 schrieb :

>

> > I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and

the

> > fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already,

for 2

> > months from now!

> > I should have booked it last week!

> > Is that true

> > Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight

right

> > now.

> So, you should have saved a lot of money. What for? How would your

Less stress, better able to pay my bills. I should do the work on my

fear of being broke.

> life improve if you had more money, now?

>

> > What is the reality? I didnt book it.

> > Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

> > No

> Good to know. It MAY have been better. And maybe not.

Yes, I have told myself that this will somehow be better, I just

dont know how yet.

>

> > How do I react

> > VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I

had a

> > chance and procrastinated

> When you get back to the point where you now think you should

have

> booked. Did you know the prices at that time? You had a reason

for

> not booking earlier. What was it?

My reason for not booking was that I had plenty of time, and I

wanted to be sure there werent any better prices available. I never

thought it could change so fast

>

> > Would be I be without this belief?

> > Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in

the

> > abundance of the universe,

> How would you feel, if you did not know that the prices went up?

Thanks, that is a great question. I would be very content. No

thought of prices rising, no stress!!

>

> > I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

> As true?

I like to think it is as true, but it's a little hard to appreciate

right this moment.

>

> Love,

>

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Thanks Dwight, Yes, I need more turnarounds.

>

> ,

>

> Maybe this isn't a particularly heavy topic for you anymore. I

just

> wanted to say my main suggestion in doing the Work would be to

spend

> more time with the TAs. Mainly where is your proof that the TAs

are

> as true or truer?

>

> *I shouldn't have bought my plane ticket last week.

> 1. because....

I had no way of knowing the prices would change so fast

> 2. because....

I still wanted to see if I could get a better deal

> 3. because....

It's not possible to make a wrong decision. I just get a different

story depending on what I choose.

>

> *I should have bought me last week.

> (What might that mean?)

> 1.

> 2.

> 3.

>

> With the " my thinking " TA you can try moving it around to

different

> places in the sentence. Eg.:

>

> *My thinking should have bought my plane ticket last week.

>

> or perhaps more interesting:

>

> *I should have bought my thinking last week.

Yes, my whole stress actually comes from regretting that I didnt buy

my thinking, so maybe this would not be a good turnaround, I am not

sure.

> 1. in the sense that....

I would have been more trusting of my intuition, and not bought into

my confused thoughts.

Not sure what 2 and 3 would look like.

thanks Dwight

> 2.

> 3.

>

> Hope this helps,

> Dwight

>

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

You said: " I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh. "

My thought on this is:

What is the reality of it? What is the truth? Did you book your

flight last week?

Have you considered that you may have been spared?

Is God = Love?

What is, is. It is either for our highest good or else we live in

chaos. The choice is yours my friend.

Love, Steve D.

>

> Dear ,

>

> thank you for your work.

>

> Am 01.02.2006 um 03:59 schrieb :

>

> > I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and

the

> > fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already,

for 2

> > months from now!

> > I should have booked it last week!

> > Is that true

> > Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight

right

> > now.

> So, you should have saved a lot of money. What for? How would your

> life improve if you had more money, now?

>

> > What is the reality? I didnt book it.

> > Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

> > No

> Good to know. It MAY have been better. And maybe not.

>

> > How do I react

> > VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I

had a

> > chance and procrastinated

> When you get back to the point where you now think you should have

> booked. Did you know the prices at that time? You had a reason for

> not booking earlier. What was it?

>

> > Would be I be without this belief?

> > Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in

the

> > abundance of the universe,

> How would you feel, if you did not know that the prices went up?

>

> > I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

> As true?

>

> Love,

>

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Thanks Steve, I have been spared. I forgot that one! Reality is God

is Love. So nice, thank you.

> >

> > Dear ,

> >

> > thank you for your work.

> >

> > Am 01.02.2006 um 03:59 schrieb :

> >

> > > I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive,

and

> the

> > > fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked

already,

> for 2

> > > months from now!

> > > I should have booked it last week!

> > > Is that true

> > > Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight

> right

> > > now.

> > So, you should have saved a lot of money. What for? How would

your

> > life improve if you had more money, now?

> >

> > > What is the reality? I didnt book it.

> > > Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

> > > No

> > Good to know. It MAY have been better. And maybe not.

> >

> > > How do I react

> > > VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that

I

> had a

> > > chance and procrastinated

> > When you get back to the point where you now think you should

have

> > booked. Did you know the prices at that time? You had a reason

for

> > not booking earlier. What was it?

> >

> > > Would be I be without this belief?

> > > Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting

in

> the

> > > abundance of the universe,

> > How would you feel, if you did not know that the prices went up?

> >

> > > I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

> > As true?

> >

> > Love,

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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[Guest guest]

Arn't you tried from asking this question:

" and what is the reality of it " ?

been there

done that

Next

Love and joy

T

-- Re: I should have bought my plane ticket last

week!

Dear ,

You said: " I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh. "

My thought on this is:

What is the reality of it? What is the truth? Did you book your

flight last week?

Have you considered that you may have been spared?

Is God = Love?

What is, is. It is either for our highest good or else we live in

chaos. The choice is yours my friend.

Love, Steve D.

>

> Dear ,

>

> thank you for your work.

>

> Am 01.02.2006 um 03:59 schrieb :

>

> > I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and

the

> > fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already,

for 2

> > months from now!

> > I should have booked it last week!

> > Is that true

> > Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight

right

> > now.

> So, you should have saved a lot of money. What for? How would your

> life improve if you had more money, now?

>

> > What is the reality? I didnt book it.

> > Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

> > No

> Good to know. It MAY have been better. And maybe not.

>

> > How do I react

> > VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I

had a

> > chance and procrastinated

> When you get back to the point where you now think you should have

> booked. Did you know the prices at that time? You had a reason for

> not booking earlier. What was it?

>

> > Would be I be without this belief?

> > Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in

the

> > abundance of the universe,

> How would you feel, if you did not know that the prices went up?

>

> > I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

> As true?

>

> Love,

>

>

>

>

>

>

> ___________________________________________________________

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>

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

>>> I was slow booking my airfare to Washingto for the intesive, and

>>> the

>>> fares shot up $150, and many of the flights are booked already,

>>> for 2

>>> months from now!

>>> I should have booked it last week!

>>> Is that true

>>> Yes, I would have saved alot of money, and money is very tight

>>> right

>>> now.

>> So, you should have saved a lot of money. What for? How would your

>> life improve if you had more money, now?

> Less stress, better able to pay my bills.

With more money you have less stress. I understand how it can feel

that way. And can you absolutely know that?

We are still talking about 150,-$, right?

> I should do the work on my fear of being broke.

If you think that would serve you...

>>> What is the reality? I didnt book it.

>>> Can I absolutely know it is true, that I should have done it?

>>> No

>> Good to know. It MAY have been better. And maybe not.

> Yes, I have told myself that this will somehow be better, I just

> dont know how yet.

Well, you believe it. So you probably have proofs. You need to look

at them, to find whether these proofs withold you investigation.

>>> How do I react

>>> VEry very , stressed, angry at myself, really frustrated, that I

>>> had a

>>> chance and procrastinated

>> When you get back to the point where you now think you should

>> have

>> booked. Did you know the prices at that time? You had a reason

>> for

>> not booking earlier. What was it?

> My reason for not booking was that I had plenty of time, and I

> wanted to be sure there werent any better prices available. I never

> thought it could change so fast

Ok! You wanted cheaper prices. You didn't get them. Why do you still

pay them?

>>> Would be I be without this belief?

>>> Peaceful, calmer, aware there are no mistakes. more trusting in

>>> the

>>> abundance of the universe,

>> How would you feel, if you did not know that the prices went up?

> Thanks, that is a great question. I would be very content. No

> thought of prices rising, no stress!!

You know, that is my experience, as well.

And I still get angry about higher bills!

>>> I shouldnt have booked my flight last week, sigh.

>> As true?

> I like to think it is as true, but it's a little hard to appreciate

> right this moment.

Well, you have. And without the story that you should have 150,-$ in

your pocket, there's nothing wrong with booking this week, is it?

Let me tell you a little story:

My parents have a little property. Next to last summer I planted some

young chestnut (I think) trees there. I thought about how to plant

them, for days, always considering how they would look in the years

to come. I had planned the next 50 years of their life.

After I left, my father didn't know about them, and did not water them.

They all dried, my mother told me of that.

When I got there last summer, I saw how there were no trees, and I

was a little sad. All of a sudden I had this vision, of little boy

alex (maybe 6 yo) standing there, sadly looking at the same spot. His

mother came up from behind, asking: " hey, what is it? Why do you look

so sad, what happened? " . Little responded: " There should be a

tree over there! " .

Having this picture in my mind I could see how that sentence would

feel for someone who did not know that someone had planted a tree

there, and how ridiculous this sentence would be. But especially:

free of any charge. That got me laughing, and I could not believe

again, that anywhere on that property should be a tree that had dried.

So, without the story, that I should have more money in my pocket

than there is, I get a free mind. And a free mind is much more

helpful to think about new strategies on how to fill that pocket, or

how to wisely spend what is inside. Because all the anger,

frustration and blaming does make me feel justified, a little. But it

never filled my pockets.

Love,

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