Guest guest Posted June 17, 2003 Report Share Posted June 17, 2003 Moderator's note: Content of previous message edited. , My boyfriend is very much like yours in determining for me whether I belong in certain groups or not. I have decided it is not his life but mine and if I am finding joy and comfort from these groups and gaining understanding and respect, then by golly they are exactly where I belong. We are not here to judge how much pain you have determines the credibility to your eligibility. If you are suffering pain as you say you are you are, then it is chronic pain and you have every right to be here and and find ways to deal with it. God forbid that we didn't have good days once in awhile . That is what keeps us sane and keeps giving us hope that it can and will get better. The one common thing about all of us that I have noticed is that we are not big complainers and will not let everyone see us in pain every single second of the day when we are. So do not let that rule your decision making about whether it proves anything. If we could only let these disbelieving people to live in our bodies for 24 hours just one day. They would certainly never question us again would they? Don't worry about ever being a downer. I am glad that you are comfortable enough with us to share and that you feel you have a place to come for venting and sharing. That is what we are here for right? So you hang in there girl and we will get through this RSD friends Dori ----- Original Message ----- From: Pavlik Anyway, another reason I'm feeling bad is because yesterday my boyfriend found out that I belong to this email group and he told me I don't belong in it, its for people debilatating pain. Just more proof that no one believes me. Sigh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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