Guest guest Posted September 5, 2005 Report Share Posted September 5, 2005 J. Hi I am looking for the right word And I am speachless. What to came to my mind was: A-L-E-X-A-N-D-E-R I just want to hear 's opinion on that matter. , Are you following this discation? Where do you stand? I love hearing 's thoughts I love his clarity Love Tami > > No personal responsibility. > > > > You forgot to add to your post in defense of stealing: > > > > writes: " I would seek the owners out to make it right as soon as > > possible " > > > > Are you willing to look face to face and tell her that you are > > posting the Parlor newsletter and be willing to pay $35 for each of > > members of this yahoo group? > > > > As Love, Marla > > Hi Marla, > > Has lost $35 per user in the group? Is it true? Can you prove > that lost $35 per member of this group, as a result of my actions? > > And as Debra said, > > " If J had enabled people to receive monthly Parlor newsletters and to > have access to the archived material in the Parlor, then it would seem > to me he would have gone against 's request. However, he > published a small sample of one of her newsletters which could well > result in an increased subscriptions because people's interest had > been piqued. For what it is worth, I viewed what he did as a form of > advertising (much like Amazon makes portions of books it is selling > accessible for free online), one which I cannot see has hurt in > any way. I am a subscriber to the Parlor and I did not feel cheated > or feel that now I could unsubscribe because someone posted an excerpt > from one of the newsletters. " > > I didn't post the whole Parlour - I haven't posted $35 worth (a year's > membership). Have you got 's opinion on it? Do you think she > would want $35 per member of this group because of my actions? I don't > know. > > And if she did, I would not pay it because I do not believe that my > actions caused her this loss. And where has she actually LOST > anything? In the stealing example, the shop owner would have lost a > physical item, which they would no long own to sell on to another > person. This group currently has 2087 members, at $35 each, it would > cost $73045 to reimburse . I steal food at water from a shop, > which costs them $50. They have lost $50 worth of goods. I will pay > them $50 - I am reimbursing $50. I post part of one Parlour to the > group, has lost what, exactly? $73045? > > If I had intercepted 2087 people as they were signing up to join the > Parlour, and said, " DUDE, don't pay for that, I will give you a year's > membership for FREE, " and then proceeded to do that, you MAY be right. > may have lost $73045. > > So again, the answer is no. I am not willing to pay $35 for every > member of the group, because I do not believe that my actions were > analogous to stealing $35 from . And if they were, YES I am > willing to do that. > > If I sound defensive, its because I am! One of my stories is about > people using " false logic " in an arguement/debate... Yes, I'm working > on it. Actually, I'm going to do the work on that today. Seriously, > I'm super-pissed off here, haha! > > As with everything, its nothing personal > > Thanks, > > J Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2005 Report Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dear Tami, yes, I followed the discussion. A discussion I see no point in participating. But you asked for my opinion. On what, exactly? -Whether J should or should not post excerpts from " the parlor " ? He should, since that is what happened. -Whether he should give 35$ for every potential reader of what he posted? He shouldn't, as that's what he seems to be doing. -Whether lost $73045, because of J's actions? How would I know? -Whether I want to read more excerpts from the parlor, without having to join? Yes, I would. As I like to read almost everything else in this group. -Whether it is ok to take advantage on backdoors of one's agreements? If I have an agreement, and I break it, even if no one ever takes notice of it, I do take notice. If I use a backdoor, I feel it. If I don't see how my action regards the agreement (if I don't see it as a violation), my thoughts would not trouble me. If I cheat on you, I notice. It's not about you who blames me for not sticking to my agreement. Just about me. Because I do notice. And a feeling will let me know. And if someone does blame me, and I feel any urge to defend myself, or anything but a: " could she be right, can I find it? " that person may be right. From MY point of view. Love, Am 05.09.2005 um 11:34 schrieb Tami: > J. Hi > I am looking for the right word > And I am speachless. > What to came to my mind was: > A-L-E-X-A-N-D-E-R > > I just want to hear > 's opinion on that matter. > > , Are you following this discation? > Where do you stand? > > I love hearing 's thoughts > I love his clarity > > Love Tami > > > >>> No personal responsibility. >>> >>> You forgot to add to your post in defense of stealing: >>> >>> writes: " I would seek the owners out to make it right as >>> > soon as > >>> possible " >>> >>> Are you willing to look face to face and tell her that you >>> > are > >>> posting the Parlor newsletter and be willing to pay $35 for each >>> > of > >>> members of this yahoo group? >>> >>> As Love, Marla >>> >> >> Hi Marla, >> >> Has lost $35 per user in the group? Is it true? Can you prove >> that lost $35 per member of this group, as a result of my >> > actions? > >> >> And as Debra said, >> >> " If J had enabled people to receive monthly Parlor newsletters and >> > to > >> have access to the archived material in the Parlor, then it would >> > seem > >> to me he would have gone against 's request. However, he >> published a small sample of one of her newsletters which could well >> result in an increased subscriptions because people's interest had >> been piqued. For what it is worth, I viewed what he did as a form >> > of > >> advertising (much like Amazon makes portions of books it is selling >> accessible for free online), one which I cannot see has hurt >> > in > >> any way. I am a subscriber to the Parlor and I did not feel cheated >> or feel that now I could unsubscribe because someone posted an >> > excerpt > >> from one of the newsletters. " >> >> I didn't post the whole Parlour - I haven't posted $35 worth (a >> > year's > >> membership). Have you got 's opinion on it? Do you think she >> would want $35 per member of this group because of my actions? I >> > don't > >> know. >> >> And if she did, I would not pay it because I do not believe that my >> actions caused her this loss. And where has she actually LOST >> anything? In the stealing example, the shop owner would have lost a >> physical item, which they would no long own to sell on to another >> person. This group currently has 2087 members, at $35 each, it would >> cost $73045 to reimburse . I steal food at water from a shop, >> which costs them $50. They have lost $50 worth of goods. I will pay >> them $50 - I am reimbursing $50. I post part of one Parlour to the >> group, has lost what, exactly? $73045? >> >> If I had intercepted 2087 people as they were signing up to join the >> Parlour, and said, " DUDE, don't pay for that, I will give you a >> > year's > >> membership for FREE, " and then proceeded to do that, you MAY be >> > right. > >> may have lost $73045. >> >> So again, the answer is no. I am not willing to pay $35 for every >> member of the group, because I do not believe that my actions were >> analogous to stealing $35 from . And if they were, YES I am >> willing to do that. >> >> If I sound defensive, its because I am! One of my stories is about >> people using " false logic " in an arguement/debate... Yes, I'm >> > working > >> on it. Actually, I'm going to do the work on that today. Seriously, >> I'm super-pissed off here, haha! >> >> As with everything, its nothing personal >> >> Thanks, >> >> J >> ___________________________________________________________ Gesendet von Yahoo! Mail - Jetzt mit 1GB Speicher kostenlos - Hier anmelden: http://mail.yahoo.de Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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