Re: Unconditional love ...

[Guest guest]

Thank you for sharing this, Neo.

Yes, it's my experience too, it is all-pervasive, this judging.

And as far as I have noticed it is always about better or worse.

Noticing the judging happening and the folly of it seems to have

brought clarity with you, isn't that great, these discoveries?

It's such a folly because we just see projections, it has nothing to

do with the man in front of us. He's simply there to bring us

clarity, and it was a happy moment that he did too!

Love,

Eva

>

> Today I have been looking at how I use my judgements to separate me

> from others. I see others as better or worse than myself, and I try

> my hardest to justify those stories.

>

> A co-worker came to speak to me this morning. I noticed how before

he

> even began to speak I was trashing him in my mind with my

judgemental

> thoughts. He just wanted to be friends, but did I extend him

> unconditional love? Oh ... no I was his judge, jury and exectioner.

> He was not spiritual. He couldn't express any emotion. He always

> wears the same jacket. He is a stingy bastard, never spends a cent.

> LOL ...

>

> Something clicked in me and I had a brief moment of clarity, when I

> could see that none of my judgements were true. Here was this

> beautiful man just trying to be friends with me, while I was busy

> trying my best to push him away. I could have persued more of the

> Work, but whatever I " got " took me to a place of unconditional

love,

> so I decided to just enjoy being there.

>

> Hmmm ... the one thing I love about the Work is that it can take me

> to unconditional acceptance of what is (co-worker/partner/friend)

and

> the unconditional love that is there.

>

> Loving what is, angels, and that would be you.

>

>

> Neo

[Guest guest]

This is beautiful Neo, thank you. I see this in myself, how I in my

mind have pushed people away, because I didn´t like the way they

showed up. When all there was, was someone showing up. And whatever

I chose to do with his or her appearence, it has nothing to do with

them. My thinking of them make me suffer, what has it got to do with

them? My thinking of them make me feel peace, what has it got to do

with them? Nothing, nothing. It´s all me, and I am as innocent as a

newborn child. All there is is some innocent thoughts.

Love that you show up, Neo,

>

> Today I have been looking at how I use my judgements to separate

me

> from others. I see others as better or worse than myself, and I

try

> my hardest to justify those stories.

>

> A co-worker came to speak to me this morning. I noticed how before

he

> even began to speak I was trashing him in my mind with my

judgemental

> thoughts. He just wanted to be friends, but did I extend him

> unconditional love? Oh ... no I was his judge, jury and

exectioner.

> He was not spiritual. He couldn't express any emotion. He always

> wears the same jacket. He is a stingy bastard, never spends a

cent.

> LOL ...

>

> Something clicked in me and I had a brief moment of clarity, when

I

> could see that none of my judgements were true. Here was this

> beautiful man just trying to be friends with me, while I was busy

> trying my best to push him away. I could have persued more of the

> Work, but whatever I " got " took me to a place of unconditional

love,

> so I decided to just enjoy being there.

>

> Hmmm ... the one thing I love about the Work is that it can take

me

> to unconditional acceptance of what is (co-worker/partner/friend)

and

> the unconditional love that is there.

>

> Loving what is, angels, and that would be you.

>

>

> Neo

[Guest guest]

> >

> > Today I have been looking at how I use my judgements to separate

me

> > from others. I see others as better or worse than myself, and I

try

> > my hardest to justify those stories.

> >

> > A co-worker came to speak to me this morning. I noticed how

before

> he

> > even began to speak I was trashing him in my mind with my

> judgemental

> > thoughts. He just wanted to be friends, but did I extend him

> > unconditional love? Oh ... no I was his judge, jury and

exectioner.

> > He was not spiritual. He couldn't express any emotion. He always

> > wears the same jacket. He is a stingy bastard, never spends a

cent.

> > LOL ...

> >

> > Something clicked in me and I had a brief moment of clarity,

when I

> > could see that none of my judgements were true. Here was this

> > beautiful man just trying to be friends with me, while I was

busy

> > trying my best to push him away. I could have persued more of

the

> > Work, but whatever I " got " took me to a place of unconditional

> love,

> > so I decided to just enjoy being there.

> >

> > Hmmm ... the one thing I love about the Work is that it can take

me

> > to unconditional acceptance of what is (co-

worker/partner/friend)

> and

> > the unconditional love that is there.

> >

> > Loving what is, angels, and that would be you.

> >

> >

> > Neo

[Guest guest]

Dear Neo,

Thanks for sharing this: " Something clicked in me and I had a brief

moment of clarity, when I could see that none of my judgements were

true. Here was this beautiful man just trying to be friends with me,

while I was busy trying my best to push him away. "

Sounded like a very good definition of the difference between

a " Special Relationship " vs " A Holy Instant " .

Cheers, Steve D.

>

> Today I have been looking at how I use my judgements to separate me

> from others. I see others as better or worse than myself, and I try

> my hardest to justify those stories.

>

> A co-worker came to speak to me this morning. I noticed how before

he

> even began to speak I was trashing him in my mind with my

judgemental

> thoughts. He just wanted to be friends, but did I extend him

> unconditional love? Oh ... no I was his judge, jury and exectioner.

> He was not spiritual. He couldn't express any emotion. He always

> wears the same jacket. He is a stingy bastard, never spends a cent.

> LOL ...

>

> Something clicked in me and I had a brief moment of clarity, when I

> could see that none of my judgements were true. Here was this

> beautiful man just trying to be friends with me, while I was busy

> trying my best to push him away. I could have persued more of the

> Work, but whatever I " got " took me to a place of unconditional

love,

> so I decided to just enjoy being there.

>

> Hmmm ... the one thing I love about the Work is that it can take me

> to unconditional acceptance of what is (co-worker/partner/friend)

and

> the unconditional love that is there.

>

> Loving what is, angels, and that would be you.

>

>

> Neo