Guest guest Posted September 27, 2005 Report Share Posted September 27, 2005 IT DOES!!! I thought about that too But I was too tried to write it I think you have a point. Some things we do and we don't analyze - WHY we did them. Other things, we have stories... WHY? because we belive that smoking is " bad " for us so we need to analyze it. to get to the button of it Bool Ship We breathe Why? Because we do! We smoke WHY ? Because we do! No more stories for me, Thank you Love Tami > > Perfect sence! Just one little but... > > " My experience is, that only the attachement to a thought would > lead > me to smoking. " > > I hear that this is your experience. I am however starting to > question that story too. The story of: It´s my attachment to > stressful thoughts that makes me smoke. It´s a good one. But is it > true, for ME? I raised my hand because of a stressful story. Then I > picked up a cigarette because of a stressful story. Then I lightned > it because of a stressful story. And finally I put the cigarette to > my mouth and took a deep breath, because of a stressful story. And > you can change " cigarette " to anything you want and see if it is > true for you. I raised my hand and draw Hans closer to me. Then I > looked into his eyes. And finally I put my mouth over his and gave > him a deep kiss. Because of a tressful story? > > For me there are no more stressful thoughts behind the smoke-story > than it is behind the kiss-story. It is just a story of why we act > as we do. We act, the rest is a story. (or any other name you > would like to put there instead) smokes and that means....she is > attached to a thought that will lead her to smoking? > > Just not true for me. And I´m not trying to take your story away > from you or anyone else. I just do things. Who knows why? I am not > the doer anyway. Sometimes there is a stressful thinking behind my > action and sometimes it´s not. Sometimes it´s just an action or a > thought, no more, no less. Like: I like the coulor red, I will buy > that top. That was a beautiful flower, I will pick it and put it an > a vase. Or: That cigarette looks good,I will smoke that one. > > Does THIS make sence to anyone else but me? lol > > Love, > > > > > Dear Love, > > > > you could be so right about how smoking damages the body. > > > > And has this knowledge ever kept ANYONE from smoking? It may. Has > it > > ever kept you from smoking? Or ? > > > > I am not saying: Smoke, if you want!! It won't harm you if you > don't > > believe in it! > > > > What does your truth, or 's or my doctor's serve me? > > > > My experience is, that only the attachement to a thought would > lead > > me to smoking. > > And another one would give me pain on top of that. > > > > And what I am saying is: undo the pain first. Eventually you will > > even let the thoughts about " I am a smoker " go. > > > > Because if I don't, I may as well stop smoking, and still feel > pain > > for all of the years I did smoke. > > > > Does that make sense? > > > > Love, > > > > > > Am 27.09.2005 um 08:33 schrieb lovetheworkofbk: > > > > > > > > > > >> > > >> Wow, this was great ! > > >> I never thought of it that way. My experience, my reality, is > that > > >> my smoking does NOT affect my lungs and my heart. I have never > > >> noticed anything of that kind. I have only heard a lot of > stories > > >> that it does. And they can very well be true. But if you ask me > for > > >> MY reality, no affect whatsoever. > > >> > > > > > > > > > Have you asked your doctor if smoking has affected your lungs and > > > heart? Actually you don't even need a doctor, just run up and > down > > > some stairs a few times and see how out of breath you are > because of > > > the diminished lung capacity caused by smoking. > > > > > > The reality is that smoking collapses the fine oxygen echanging > > > tissues of the lung, and you could even ask your doctor to > perform a > > > small lung biopsy to prove that this is true. There is also ample > > > medical evidence to prove that smoking is a contributing factor > to > > > many damaging diseases of the heart and lungs. > > > > > > Your story that " smoking does NOT affect my lungs and my heart " > is a > > > good one, but it's just not true. Don't believe me, ask your > doctor if > > > you are interested in the truth. > > > > > > Just some thoughts > > > > > > > > > " There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. " > > > Byron > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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