Re: I don´t make any decisions - delicious!

November 2, 2005

, if you don't change things up, things tend to get boring after

a while. So, to prevent that, you could have some days that are

filled with nothing but decisions-- morning to night - hundreds of

decisions. That could be exciting and adventurous. For example, any

day of the month that is evenly divisible by five could be a decision

day. So November 5 would be decision day. How would I plan for that,

when I couldn't make any decisions on November 1, 2, 3, or 4? Just

thinking about it is so exciting I am almost pooping in my pants. Doug

>

> I have discovered a new favorite occupation. I don´t make any

> decisions (as if I ever did, right?), I just sit and wait for them

> to be made. It is so much fun! I might have a plan, a thought to do

> this or that, and then I just leave it and wait with excitment and

> butterflies in my stomach and a mischievous laughter porling inside

> of me. What is going to happen? Will I do this or not, or something

> completely different? Not knowing but just be safe in the knowledge

> that all will be taken care of fills me with such happiness, and

> freedom, and THRILL!

>

> I had an appointment today with my health coach at 10.30. This

> morning I was sitting here with you writing posts. The clock was

> ticking. It got closer and closer to 10.30, and I noticed that no

> decision was made to jump in the shower, get dressed, jump on my

> bicycle and go to the meeting. How excithing! Not even a decision

> was made to cansel the appointment. I just sat calmly by my

computer

> and wrote peacefully.

>

> After a while, my coach called me and wondered what happened. I

told

> her that I didn´t think this was something for me. She still wanted

> to see me on Monday and I said I maybe would show up. And I have no

> idea what decision that will be made for me until Moday. I love it!

>

> After that a decision was made for me to open my mail and there was

> some really happy news from the Patent -and registration authority.

> They have approved of me changing my last name from Bergström to

> Engelwinge. This will be my official name in about a month or so.

>

> And then a decision was made to take Ozzy for a walk, and we had as

> much fun as always. Without the though that I need to make a

> decision I see that things happen anyway, teeth get brushed, dogs

> get walked, dinner are being made and so on. But without the

thought

> there is no stress. Just happiness and a lot of excitement. Life is

> an adventure all of a sudden!

>

> Love,

>

November 2, 2005

COOL,

And if your therapist thinks you should come to the meeting like planned

or at list to call

She can do the work.

T

-- I don´t make any decisions - delicious!

I have discovered a new favorite occupation. I don´t make any

decisions (as if I ever did, right?), I just sit and wait for them

to be made. It is so much fun! I might have a plan, a thought to do

this or that, and then I just leave it and wait with excitment and

butterflies in my stomach and a mischievous laughter porling inside

of me. What is going to happen? Will I do this or not, or something

completely different? Not knowing but just be safe in the knowledge

that all will be taken care of fills me with such happiness, and

freedom, and THRILL!

I had an appointment today with my health coach at 10.30. This

morning I was sitting here with you writing posts. The clock was

ticking. It got closer and closer to 10.30, and I noticed that no

decision was made to jump in the shower, get dressed, jump on my

bicycle and go to the meeting. How excithing! Not even a decision

was made to cansel the appointment. I just sat calmly by my computer

and wrote peacefully.

After a while, my coach called me and wondered what happened. I told

her that I didn´t think this was something for me. She still wanted

to see me on Monday and I said I maybe would show up. And I have no

idea what decision that will be made for me until Moday. I love it!

After that a decision was made for me to open my mail and there was

some really happy news from the Patent -and registration authority.

They have approved of me changing my last name from Bergström to

Engelwinge. This will be my official name in about a month or so.

And then a decision was made to take Ozzy for a walk, and we had as

much fun as always. Without the though that I need to make a

decision I see that things happen anyway, teeth get brushed, dogs

get walked, dinner are being made and so on. But without the thought

there is no stress. Just happiness and a lot of excitement. Life is

an adventure all of a sudden!

Love,

November 2, 2005

If my therapist, or anyone else, told me that she think that I

should come to our meetings if I didn´t show up, or at least cansel

them, I would most certainly not tell her to do the Work, or even

think she should do the Work.

There was a time when I actually had thoughts like that. If someone

was dissapointed or sad or angry at me, I could think: well, it´s

just their story anyway, they really need to question their thoughts

poor, confused people. I used the Work to defend and protect myself

from their reactions, because I was so afraid. Did it work? Noooo.

It was most painful.

If someone think that I should show up when I have said so or at

least call, I can really understand that. I have reacted the same

way hundreds of times myself, so what is not to understand?

Love,

>

> COOL,

>

> And if your therapist thinks you should come to the meeting like

planned

> or at list to call

> She can do the work.

>

> T

>

> -- I don´t make any decisions - delicious!

>

> I have discovered a new favorite occupation. I don´t make any

> decisions (as if I ever did, right?), I just sit and wait for them

> to be made. It is so much fun! I might have a plan, a thought to

do

> this or that, and then I just leave it and wait with excitment and

> butterflies in my stomach and a mischievous laughter porling

inside

> of me. What is going to happen? Will I do this or not, or

something

> completely different? Not knowing but just be safe in the

knowledge

> that all will be taken care of fills me with such happiness, and

> freedom, and THRILL!

>

> I had an appointment today with my health coach at 10.30. This

> morning I was sitting here with you writing posts. The clock was

> ticking. It got closer and closer to 10.30, and I noticed that no

> decision was made to jump in the shower, get dressed, jump on my

> bicycle and go to the meeting. How excithing! Not even a decision

> was made to cansel the appointment. I just sat calmly by my

computer

> and wrote peacefully.

>

> After a while, my coach called me and wondered what happened. I

told

> her that I didn´t think this was something for me. She still

wanted

> to see me on Monday and I said I maybe would show up. And I have

no

> idea what decision that will be made for me until Moday. I love it!

>

> After that a decision was made for me to open my mail and there

was

> some really happy news from the Patent -and registration

authority.

> They have approved of me changing my last name from Bergström to

> Engelwinge. This will be my official name in about a month or so.

>

> And then a decision was made to take Ozzy for a walk, and we had

as

> much fun as always. Without the though that I need to make a

> decision I see that things happen anyway, teeth get brushed, dogs

> get walked, dinner are being made and so on. But without the

thought

> there is no stress. Just happiness and a lot of excitement. Life

is

> an adventure all of a sudden!

>

> Love,

>

November 2, 2005

> >

> > I have discovered a new favorite occupation. I don´t make any

> > decisions (as if I ever did, right?), I just sit and wait for

them

> > to be made. It is so much fun! I might have a plan, a thought to

do

> > this or that, and then I just leave it and wait with excitment

and

> > butterflies in my stomach and a mischievous laughter porling

inside

> > of me. What is going to happen? Will I do this or not, or

something

> > completely different? Not knowing but just be safe in the

knowledge

> > that all will be taken care of fills me with such happiness, and

> > freedom, and THRILL!

> >

> > I had an appointment today with my health coach at 10.30. This

> > morning I was sitting here with you writing posts. The clock was

> > ticking. It got closer and closer to 10.30, and I noticed that

no

> > decision was made to jump in the shower, get dressed, jump on my

> > bicycle and go to the meeting. How excithing! Not even a

decision

> > was made to cansel the appointment. I just sat calmly by my

> computer

> > and wrote peacefully.

> >

> > After a while, my coach called me and wondered what happened. I

> told

> > her that I didn´t think this was something for me. She still

wanted

> > to see me on Monday and I said I maybe would show up. And I have

no

> > idea what decision that will be made for me until Moday. I love

it!

> >

> > After that a decision was made for me to open my mail and there

was

> > some really happy news from the Patent -and registration

authority.

> > They have approved of me changing my last name from Bergström to

> > Engelwinge. This will be my official name in about a month or so.

> >

> > And then a decision was made to take Ozzy for a walk, and we had

as

> > much fun as always. Without the though that I need to make a

> > decision I see that things happen anyway, teeth get brushed,

dogs

> > get walked, dinner are being made and so on. But without the

> thought

> > there is no stress. Just happiness and a lot of excitement. Life

is

> > an adventure all of a sudden!

> >

> > Love,

> >

>

November 2, 2005

Heisan og hopsan .

Can you see what`s happening? You`re thinking like Ozzy!

Klem

Sverre

> From:

> Date: 11/02/05 17:16:27

> To: Loving-what-is

> Subject: I don´t make any decisions - delicious!

>

> I have discovered a new favorite occupation. I don´t make any

> decisions (as if I ever did, right?), I just sit and wait for them

> to be made. It is so much fun! I might have a plan, a thought to

do

> this or that, and then I just leave it and wait with excitment and

> butterflies in my stomach and a mischievous laughter porling

inside

> of me. What is going to happen? Will I do this or not, or

something

> completely different? Not knowing but just be safe in the

knowledge

> that all will be taken care of fills me with such happiness, and

> freedom, and THRILL!

>

> I had an appointment today with my health coach at 10.30. This

> morning I was sitting here with you writing posts. The clock was

> ticking. It got closer and closer to 10.30, and I noticed that no

> decision was made to jump in the shower, get dressed, jump on my

> bicycle and go to the meeting. How excithing! Not even a decision

> was made to cansel the appointment. I just sat calmly by my

computer

> and wrote peacefully.

>

> After a while, my coach called me and wondered what happened. I

told

> her that I didn´t think this was something for me. She still

wanted

> to see me on Monday and I said I maybe would show up. And I have

no

> idea what decision that will be made for me until Moday. I love it!

>

> After that a decision was made for me to open my mail and there

was

> some really happy news from the Patent -and registration

authority.

> They have approved of me changing my last name from Bergström to

> Engelwinge. This will be my official name in about a month or so.

>

> And then a decision was made to take Ozzy for a walk, and we had

as

> much fun as always. Without the though that I need to make a

> decision I see that things happen anyway, teeth get brushed, dogs

> get walked, dinner are being made and so on. But without the

thought

> there is no stress. Just happiness and a lot of excitement. Life

is

> an adventure all of a sudden!

>

> Love,

>

November 2, 2005

Variety is the spice of life. Walk the dog-today this direction,

tomorrow that direction. Then skip with the dog this way. Then run

with the dog that way.

Or, never ever make even one decision. Then.......make decisions.

Notice all the patterns in life. Change them and see what happens.

Doug

> > >

> > > I have discovered a new favorite occupation. I don´t make any

> > > decisions (as if I ever did, right?), I just sit and wait for

> them

> > > to be made. It is so much fun! I might have a plan, a thought

to

> do

> > > this or that, and then I just leave it and wait with excitment

> and

> > > butterflies in my stomach and a mischievous laughter porling

> inside

> > > of me. What is going to happen? Will I do this or not, or

> something

> > > completely different? Not knowing but just be safe in the

> knowledge

> > > that all will be taken care of fills me with such happiness,

and

> > > freedom, and THRILL!

> > >

> > > I had an appointment today with my health coach at 10.30. This

> > > morning I was sitting here with you writing posts. The clock

was

> > > ticking. It got closer and closer to 10.30, and I noticed that

> no

> > > decision was made to jump in the shower, get dressed, jump on

my

> > > bicycle and go to the meeting. How excithing! Not even a

> decision

> > > was made to cansel the appointment. I just sat calmly by my

> > computer

> > > and wrote peacefully.

> > >

> > > After a while, my coach called me and wondered what happened. I

> > told

> > > her that I didn´t think this was something for me. She still

> wanted

> > > to see me on Monday and I said I maybe would show up. And I

have

> no

> > > idea what decision that will be made for me until Moday. I love

> it!

> > >

> > > After that a decision was made for me to open my mail and there

> was

> > > some really happy news from the Patent -and registration

> authority.

> > > They have approved of me changing my last name from Bergström

to

> > > Engelwinge. This will be my official name in about a month or

so.

> > >

> > > And then a decision was made to take Ozzy for a walk, and we

had

> as

> > > much fun as always. Without the though that I need to make a

> > > decision I see that things happen anyway, teeth get brushed,

> dogs

> > > get walked, dinner are being made and so on. But without the

> > thought

> > > there is no stress. Just happiness and a lot of excitement.

Life

> is

> > > an adventure all of a sudden!

> > >

> > > Love,

> > >

> >

>

November 2, 2005

.. I needed to read this today.. I have a friend who is having a

bithday and i have been thinking i would like to give her a surprise

party but i stress out on everything so i am not making a decision

yet.. anyway my hours of work change every week..

I guess i will wait and see what happens.

love, roslyn

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