Re: How DO you LOVE-WHAT-IS ?

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> Hello Folks :

Hello, .

> Im New in the FORUM .

Welcome!

> Could someone provide a DAILY DRILL , TECHNIQUES , PROCEDUCRE .

Here's the path I've followed:

- Read the book Loving What Is, by Byron Kathleen . It's

available from most book outlets (amazon.com, Borders, &

Noble, etc.)

- Discover my uninvestigated stories by writing Judge Your Neighbor

worksheets and writing down random judgements I've believed.

- Investigate my stories using the four questions.

- Post my Work here on the list for feedback and encouragement.

- Attend a Weekend Intensive with .

- In June, I'm planning to attend the School for the Work in

Stamford, Connecticut, US. also conducts the School on the

US west coast and in Europe.

> SO I may achieve ....uncomditional love a wonderful notion HOWEVER

> hard to practice .

What I've noticed is that unconditional love is not something I can

achieve once and for all. I experience moments of unconditional love,

moments of fear, moments of anger, moments of peace, moments of joy. I

seem to be experiencing more moments of peace and love lately, which

is wonderful, as you say.

> How can I integrate ...this BELIEFS in my daily existance ?

See above.

> ...HOW CAN love ...deception , lies ? Although painful BUT TRUE !

I'm not understanding your question. Could you ask it again in

different words?

> I look forward a some wonderful feedback .

I'm glad you're here, . I trust that you'll find everything

you're looking for.

Tom

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

You asked " ...HOW CAN love ...deception , lies ? Although painful BUT

TRUE ! "

Why is your thinking lying and deceiving yourself that other people

should not lie to you or attempt to deceive you? Sounds as if you

have everything in common with them. They lie to you and then you

lie to yourself and say that " people should not lie " .

As always, " the first lier does not have a chance. "

, The Work is never about changing what other people do, but

only about how you react to what they appear to do and noticing what

is the cause of your pain. If you do what Tom suggested to you in

his post, you may become more aware that it is your reaction to

deceit and lies that is the cause of your suffering.

When you ask the first two questions of The Work - Is it true? and

Can I really know that it is true? - there are always 3 possible

correct answers (Yes, No or I don't know). The Work does not require

a " no " , The Work wants you to become aware of how it feels when you

believe that it is true and who you would be without that belief -

whatever the belief is and whether or not it is true. And then to

experieince through the Turn Around how the opposite is just as

true. In other words, " People should not lie to me. " could turn

around to " I should not lie to me and say people should not lie to me

when, of course, they do and will. " Lying is our job and we will

continue to lie until you are no longer being upset by believing that

we should not lie.

I hope that this is helpful.

Cheers, Steve D.

> > Hello Folks :

>

> Hello, .

>

> > Im New in the FORUM .

>

> Welcome!

>

> > Could someone provide a DAILY DRILL , TECHNIQUES , PROCEDUCRE .

>

> Here's the path I've followed:

>

> - Read the book Loving What Is, by Byron Kathleen . It's

> available from most book outlets (amazon.com, Borders, &

> Noble, etc.)

>

> - Discover my uninvestigated stories by writing Judge Your Neighbor

> worksheets and writing down random judgements I've believed.

>

> - Investigate my stories using the four questions.

>

> - Post my Work here on the list for feedback and encouragement.

>

> - Attend a Weekend Intensive with .

>

> - In June, I'm planning to attend the School for the Work in

> Stamford, Connecticut, US. also conducts the School on the

> US west coast and in Europe.

>

> > SO I may achieve ....uncomditional love a wonderful notion

HOWEVER

> > hard to practice .

>

> What I've noticed is that unconditional love is not something I can

> achieve once and for all. I experience moments of unconditional

love,

> moments of fear, moments of anger, moments of peace, moments of

joy. I

> seem to be experiencing more moments of peace and love lately, which

> is wonderful, as you say.

>

> > How can I integrate ...this BELIEFS in my daily existance ?

>

> See above.

>

> > ...HOW CAN love ...deception , lies ? Although painful BUT TRUE !

>

> I'm not understanding your question. Could you ask it again in

> different words?

>

> > I look forward a some wonderful feedback .

>

> I'm glad you're here, . I trust that you'll find everything

> you're looking for.

>

> Tom

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

here are some things you might want to do to learn more about the

work, which has been helpful to me:

Visit www.thework.org where you can find information, articles and

samples of the work

Looking at " Files " to the left on this page. More aticles and

samples of the work.

Order videotapes and cd:s of doing the work with people. You

can order them on www.thework.org and also from a member of this

group that you can find at " Files " .

Glad if I could be at help,

> Hello Folks :

>

> Im New in the FORUM .

>

> Could someone provide a DAILY DRILL , TECHNIQUES , PROCEDUCRE .

>

> SO I may achieve ....uncomditional love a wonderful notion HOWEVER

> hard to practice .

>

> How can I integrate ...this BELIEFS in my daily existance ?

>

> ...HOW CAN love ...deception , lies ? Although painful BUT TRUE !

>

> I look forward a some wonderful feedback .

>

> Blessings ,

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

as others probably answered already, our technique is to judge a

neighbour, ask four questions, and turn it around.

What you will eventually experience, is that there are no problems, but

for your stories, that you have everything that you want, but for your

stories, and that you can experience peace from your chair.

You don't create beliefs, you just undo the ones that arise. That's all

there is to do, anyway: to believe them or to undo them. If you shut

them up, they will come back.

Love,

Am 15.05.2004 um 04:29 schrieb bo999ca:

> Hello Folks  :

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> Im New in the FORUM .

>

> Could someone provide a DAILY DRILL , TECHNIQUES , PROCEDUCRE .

>

> SO I may achieve ....uncomditional love a wonderful notion HOWEVER

> hard to practice .

>

> How can I integrate ...this BELIEFS in my daily existance ?

>

> ...HOW CAN love ...deception , lies ? Although painful BUT TRUE !

>

> I look forward a some wonderful feedback .

>

> Blessings ,

>

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[Guest guest]

Very nice, ! I like what you wrote here, as always...

Love,

> Dear ,

>

> as others probably answered already, our technique is to judge a

> neighbour, ask four questions, and turn it around.

>

> What you will eventually experience, is that there are no

problems, but

> for your stories, that you have everything that you want, but for

your

> stories, and that you can experience peace from your chair.

>

> You don't create beliefs, you just undo the ones that arise.

That's all

> there is to do, anyway: to believe them or to undo them. If you

shut

> them up, they will come back.

>

> Love,

>

>

> Am 15.05.2004 um 04:29 schrieb bo999ca:

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> > Hello Folks  :

> >

> > Im New in the FORUM .

> >

> > Could someone provide a DAILY DRILL , TECHNIQUES , PROCEDUCRE .

> >

> > SO I may achieve ....uncomditional love a wonderful notion

HOWEVER

> > hard to practice .

> >

> > How can I integrate ...this BELIEFS in my daily existance ?

> >

> > ...HOW CAN love ...deception , lies ? Although painful BUT TRUE !

> >

> > I look forward a some wonderful feedback .

> >

> > Blessings ,

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