Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 Dear Jan: I feel fine, how are you doin? " Good to hear from you. As far I am concerned, You answered your own question to me when you said: " So ...I delight in your communication, but if you wish dialog, we have to be using the same lingo... " I just flat do not understand what Stephan is talking about and can't seem to find any great desire to understand. Blessings, Steve D. > > > > Dear Mr. Baker, > > > > Please do not try to explain anymore. :-) > > > > Blessings, Mr. Daily > > Hi Steve- > > How do you feel when you write the above? > > What is it you are trying to communicate to (aka yourself)? > > Can you touch what you are resisting - if anything? > > As I read 's communication, I was touched that such a long- term > lurker risked lengthy dialog - a second time. I too sighed as I read > his post, because he is so committed to one entering his universe in > order to be understood. > > By the end of the post, I felt like - trying to understand this man is > too much work...so I just moved to the next post. I wondered if > has so beautifully set himself up for rejection by using his > own terminology to effectively exclude himself... > > Just ramblin' myself... > > I'm deepening my realization that everyone is equal, there is only > one, and how I treat those I wish to distance myself from is how I > treat fragments of my self- created personality... > > Healing is embracing it all without losing yourself in it. > > So ...I delight in your communication, but if you wish dialog, > we have to be using the same lingo... > > Blessings - Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 Thank you for being so kind to yourself, Stephan. -----Original Message----- From: STEPHAN BAKER I apologize , I believe the best explanation I can give is that there lurks a timid defiance in the author , but it is all good . Accepting faltering for a start and while improving . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 " Mona " wrote: > > Thank you for being so kind to yourself, Stephan. > > From: STEPHAN BAKER > I apologize , I believe the best explanation I can give is that there lurks > a timid defiance in the author , but it is all good . Accepting faltering > for a start and while improving . Yes, kindness is always so very lovely - and not scary at all. Blessings- Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 " SteveDaily " wrote: > > Dear Jan: > > I feel fine, how are you doin? " Good to hear from you. I'm doin' purty good, thanks. > > As far I am concerned, You answered your own question to me when you > said: > " So ...I delight in your communication, but if you wish dialog, > we have to be using the same lingo... " But what I found myself doing was judgement and then a push away instead of understanding yet maintaining my own truth. > > I just flat do not understand what Stephan is talking about and can't > seem to find any great desire to understand. That human you don't desire to understand is a human standing in front of you that you invited to a dialog and then kinda dismissed. I've noticed that I do that too and I'm seeing it differently - like a part of myself that I feel superior to and don't wish to deal with because it's painful so I just push it away. Just my own (stuff) realization from your interchange... Blessings - Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 Dear Jan: Thanks for sharing your insights. That is good realization. It is possible that I am doing the same thing that you described. You said: " I've noticed that I do that too and I'm seeing it differently - like a part of myself that I feel superior to and don't wish to deal with because it's painful so I just push it away. " I can certainly find that in myself and have done it many times. What I am able to see in regard to this dialog with Stephan is that I have never seemed to be able to understand his posts and I have assumed that I was inferior to him in intellect and I find that painful and so I push it away. Same thing as you described only like a reverse image of the same lie. Very interesting. I am glad you are purty good! Blessings, Steve D. > > > > Dear Jan: > > > > I feel fine, how are you doin? " Good to hear from you. > > I'm doin' purty good, thanks. > > > > As far I am concerned, You answered your own question to me when you > > said: > > " So ...I delight in your communication, but if you wish dialog, > > we have to be using the same lingo... " > > But what I found myself doing was judgement and then a push away > instead of understanding yet maintaining my own truth. > > > > > > I just flat do not understand what Stephan is talking about and can't > > seem to find any great desire to understand. > > That human you don't desire to understand is a human standing in front > of you that you invited to a dialog and then kinda dismissed. I've > noticed that I do that too and I'm seeing it differently - like a part > of myself that I feel superior to and don't wish to deal with because > it's painful so I just push it away. > > Just my own (stuff) realization from your interchange... > > Blessings - Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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