on appropriate behaviour :)

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Following is a question and answer from , which eloquently

explains why we are NEVER free to say anything we like.

Enjoy

Q: Is it true that I can't hurt another person?

BK: For me it's true. I can't hurt anything or anyone. It's not

possible. However, if I project that I could hurt you in any way by

any thought, word, or act, I notice that I am about to go past my

boundary of what is harm for me in the moment. Let me examine my own

morality - not the world's. I can't be unkind to you, and be

comfortable within myself. I am my own suffering, and I move back

for my own sake. I take care of myself and in that you too are also

taken care of. My kindness ultimately has nothing to do with you.

Unconditional love is self-love.

" Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron