Guest guest Posted October 12, 2005 Report Share Posted October 12, 2005 Steve you wrote: " Thank you Tami and for helping me to see my own stories about all of this. I am appreciating you both more and more. " You are welcome sweety you talk too much it is time for your practical lesson meet me on the messenger I want to show you something! Love you Tami -- Re: my judgements about tami and maria/myself dear , Yeah for . My judgmetal mind found this post to be very wise and it sounded like it was pulled right out of my mind. Especially when you said: " For me this means being more direct, open, and honest. About my sexuality, and everything else for that matter. Thank you Tami and for helping me to see my own stories about all of this. I am appreciating you both more and more. " Love, Steve D. > > I am so sick of Tami and flirting and using their sexuality to get attention ... and I am so sick of the men on this list actually going for it and responding to it rather than helping these women question the thoughts that lead them to believe that they have to behave this way in order to have their needs met...gggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!! > > > > Below is the real version...or the version that feels truer for me after working on these judgements: > > > I am so sick of ME flirting and using my own sexuality to get attention...and I am so sick of the way that I actually go for it and continue to respond this way rather than helping myself question the thoughts I have that lead me to believe that I have to behave this way in order to get MY needs met...... > > Yes. Except I feel gentler about this. I feel I want to question these things and find a better way for myself, a way that feels kinder and more loving to myself. I want to learn to have my needs met in a way that feels closer to my own integrity. For me this means being more direct, open, and honest. About my sexuality, and everything else for that matter. > > Thank you Tami and for helping me to see my own stories about all of this. I am appreciating you both more and more. > > Love > > > > --------------------------------- > Find your next car at Yahoo! Canada Autos > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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