Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 *I find now that I'm overthinking this all... trying to say the right thing because if I don't, you'll misinterpret me...* Can you find any judge your neighbors in this line? love y'all, nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 Dear nne, Am 09.10.2004 um 15:34 schrieb nne: > > *I find now that I'm overthinking this all... trying to say the right > thing because if I don't, you'll misinterpret me...* > > Can you find any judge your neighbors in this line? I go to: You should not misinterpret me. And: I need to explain myself. > love y'all, nne Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2004 Report Share Posted October 9, 2004 Thank you , Yes, and with those thoughts, I feel a lot of stress and guilt...as if it's possible that I could do something wrong, say something wrong and feel that it's possible to upset *you*. Also anger, if I don't think that you are hearing me (the way I want you to hear me). nne > Dear nne, > > Am 09.10.2004 um 15:34 schrieb nne: > > > > > *I find now that I'm overthinking this all... trying to say the right > > thing because if I don't, you'll misinterpret me...* > > > > Can you find any judge your neighbors in this line? > I go to: You should not misinterpret me. > And: I need to explain myself. > > > love y'all, nne > Love, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2004 Report Share Posted October 11, 2004 > How do you treat me when I tell you that you upset me? > And who would you be if I tell you how you do upset me, and you don't > have the thought that I should understand you? > > Love, > Now when I hear you tell me that I upset you, I'm there, I'm listening. I'm starting to see that ther is a possibility to join with you, understand you while having my own opinion of the situation. I'm learning how to join with you someone while listening to the upset AND feel some calmness about it too...kinda like holding a screaming kid who is having a nightmare while I see pretty clearly that there is no monster under the bed.....just a teddy bear. But to tell the kid there is no monster! Doesn't work! Better to say, I understand you see a monster... love you, nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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