hubby-you'reobsessed w explant

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My dear husband...I've mentioned the explant gently about 4 times in

the last week, if that many. Last night I discussed with him the

loan I will get to cover the surgery, etc. He said he didn't think

the implants made me ill; he said ever since I'd decided to explant,

that I'd been totally obsessed by it. He said his fear was that my

health issues, which he recognizes, will not get better after the

explant. I'm not being a victim; I just needed to share this

reality with women who understand. I know I've not been obsessing,

because I know from the past what obsessing is...I can forgive him

for over-reacting; he loves me, and his reaction is just fear-

based...but it doesn't make it easier.....J