Re: hubby-you'reobsessed w explant

[Guest guest]

J,

You probably don't feel too reassured right now, but

his response really was as good a sign as you're going

to get from your hubby.

I'm confident he will come around when he sees you

feeling better! . . . And you will!

He sounds like the kind of guy who needs to see it to

believe it! He's a lot better than some of the hubbies

we see! They are long gone!

After you start feeling better, he'll see doctors in a

whole new light!

Hugs and prayers,

Rogene

[Guest guest]

Oh Jackie, I know exactly what you are talking about! My dear Mark

went through the same questions. He was so tired of me being sick

all those months, but he just wanted to listen to the doctors, even

after I told him that they were wrong.

Right before I was went in to have them removed, we began

counceling. I found that this helped tremendously, and we are still

going almost 3 months after explant. It made me feel so good last

month when the councilor asked him what he thought now that I have

had the implants removed and am better and able to once again work

full time, climb stairs, make love without saying ouch, bounce out of

bed in the morning, etc. He said it was wonderful to have his wife

back again, and he respected the fact that I didn't listen to the

doctors, but stepped out and did what I thought was right for

me...... you can imagine how hard it was not to bust out of my skin

with happiness.

Follow your heart, the counceling of these wonderful women who have

traveled your path, and rely on the Lord to give you a peace about

it, even though others around you may not.

Love and hugs,

Tammy (a)

>

> My dear husband...I've mentioned the explant gently about 4 times

in

> the last week, if that many. Last night I discussed with him the

> loan I will get to cover the surgery, etc. He said he didn't think

> the implants made me ill; he said ever since I'd decided to

explant,

> that I'd been totally obsessed by it. He said his fear was that my

> health issues, which he recognizes, will not get better after the

> explant. I'm not being a victim; I just needed to share this

> reality with women who understand. I know I've not been obsessing,

> because I know from the past what obsessing is...I can forgive him

> for over-reacting; he loves me, and his reaction is just fear-

> based...but it doesn't make it easier.....J