dreams before explant

[Guest guest]

I know that a change in my antidepressant Rxs recently may be having

an effect with my subconscious, but I think fear of the explant

results is also present there. I've been having dreams of trying to

find my husband, not being able to get married to my husband,

fearing infidelity, and just this last night, too weird, I dreamed

he had " copied " the breasts of a friend of mine while I was away,

and had gel copies of them that I found. OK, any Freudettes out

there? I realize this is just a dream, but I've often found truths

in dreams... I fear losing my husband's attention and love by having

the " copies " removed...I'll no longer look like the other

women " breasts of a friend " who have large breasts. Another

instance in which I can embrace fear, or I can embrace God. I think

God is the sure bet....will continue to share the quirkey stuff like

this, for I've never been down this path less traveled.

[Guest guest]

When did you change your medication and what are you taking now? I take a small dose of effexor but it used to be higher, and at one time I was on more than one anti depressant and my dreams were very crazy, vivid and real. I hate that feeling but, it does go away in time. I hope you get through it ok.

Anniecrazycanoe1 <crazycanoe1@...> wrote:

I know that a change in my antidepressant Rxs recently may be having an effect with my subconscious, but I think fear of the explant results is also present there. I've been having dreams of trying to find my husband, not being able to get married to my husband, fearing infidelity, and just this last night, too weird, I dreamed he had "copied" the breasts of a friend of mine while I was away, and had gel copies of them that I found. OK, any Freudettes out there? I realize this is just a dream, but I've often found truths in dreams... I fear losing my husband's attention and love by having the "copies" removed...I'll no longer look like the other women "breasts of a friend" who have large breasts. Another instance in which I can embrace fear, or I can embrace God. I think God is the

sure bet....will continue to share the quirkey stuff like this, for I've never been down this path less traveled.Opinions expressed are NOT meant to take the place of advice given by licensed health care professionals. Consult your physician or licensed health care professional before commencing any medical treatment. "Do not let either the medical authorities or the politicians mislead you. Find out what the facts are, and make your own decisions about how to live a happy life and how to work for a better world." - Linus ing, two-time Nobel Prize Winner (1954, Chemistry; 1963, Peace)

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

There are a lot of emotions that go with giving up

part of your breasts, even if they are fake. It's

normal to have strange thoughts about it all.

Men's reactions to implants, and dealing with women

after they get sick from implants are all over the

place. Interestingly enough, most men don't want their

wives/girlfriends to get implants!

It seems that the general nature of men is to want to

fix things. . . women talk about things before making

decisions. . . Many men feel impotent when they can't

fix things, and don't know how to deal with something

they don't understand and can't fix.

It sounds like your hubby is going to need some tender

handling . . .

One way to break a bad mood/attitude is by unexpected

humor. One course I took called it " punch reframe " . .

.. Taking a negative message and turning it quickly

into something funny. One has to do it off the cuff

though . . . And it's tough when one doesn't feel

well!

Rochelle has some great ideas for preparing mentally

for surgery . . . beautiful, positive imagery! . . .

Maybe she'll be able to offer some suggestions.

Hugs and prayers,

Rogene