Re: Soul-mates and being complete -

[Guest guest]

> Hellow

>

> I am working on my need to be in a relationship.

>

> I have discovered that I believed that:

>

> If I will feel that something is wrong with me, or that something is

> missing, that would increase my will to find my soulmate,

> and ofcourse it would increase my chances to find one.

responded- (snip)

> You might inquire into " There is something missing in my life. " Is

it true?

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Good heavens - what thread are you replying to? This message is

so old the person who wrote it has a new job, is married and has three

children....

Soulmates exist - is it true? Everyone I meet is my soulmate....

Yahoo - works for me...

Blessings - Jan

[Guest guest]

> > Hellow

> >

> > I am working on my need to be in a relationship.

> >

> > I have discovered that I believed that:

> >

> > If I will feel that something is wrong with me, or that

something is

> > missing, that would increase my will to find my soulmate,

> > and ofcourse it would increase my chances to find one.

>

> responded- (snip)

> > You might inquire into " There is something missing in my life. "

Is

> it true?

>

> -

>

> Good heavens - what thread are you replying to? This

message is

> so old the person who wrote it has a new job, is married and has

three

> children....

>

> Soulmates exist - is it true? Everyone I meet is my soulmate....

>

> Yahoo - works for me...

>

> Blessings - Jan

Am I missing something here? Wasn't this thread started today?

, nice job on the response. I do agree with jan on the

soulmate thing. Our soulmates are the people we are pulling into

The Work. I believe, the whole idea that there is a single soulmate

out there for each of us is a bunch of New Age magical thinking

hogwash. Like Carolyn Myss says " your soulmate is the person you

just can't stand "

Hence the need to do The Work

Best always,

[Guest guest]

" Boyd " wrote:

From over here you seem to still have a particular listening for me

as someone you want to invalidate.

Turnaround - From inside , still has a particular listening

to as someone he wishes to invalidate.

Then again - you could be right. I do have " men " issues and am still

working on them. However, I'm not aware of targeting you with this

post - just playing - guess I play a little rough still.

I wonder if

> it's true.

Please tell me what specifically was said to invalidate you?

It does seem that you assumed you knew what I was saying and

> where I was coming from then chose to give me a little slap for being so

> behind the times.

Is that what is invalidating to you? I look at the turnaround and it

is assumed he knew what was saying and chose to give

himself a little slap for being so behind the times. or

assumed he knew what Jan was saying and chose to give Jan a little slap.

>

> My love to you Jan. I'm certain that if I knew you better I would

appreciate

> you even more than I do.

Gosh - you couldn't be more right - I'm certain that if I knew

myself better I would appreciate me even more than you do too!!!!!

Thanks for playing (Heck one person's play is another person's work I

guess) - Jan

[Guest guest]

" Boyd " wrote:

> said. My love to you Jan. I'm certain that if I knew you better I

> would

> appreciate you even more than I do.

>

> Gosh - you couldn't be more right - I'm certain that if I knew

> myself better I would appreciate me even more than you do too!!!!!

>

> [FB] There's another turn around here. Can you find it?

Of course I can - stop being so serious - stop being so serious now -

hopeless!

Hey - I LOVED that story you sent me offline. Love to hear about

people visiting the " other " side and coming back with fabulous stories

that somewhere inside me - deep inside me - a part of me goes - yeah -

I kinda remember all that....Did you ever see the movie Saved by the

Light? Another excellent visual trip with a man who died and came

back three times and went from bully to evangelical

psychic....Fabulous pics of the other side - gotta love special

effects....Thanks for sending me the that man's story - the truth is

so uplifting isn't it? Blessings - Jan