[Modoasis] need help understanding fleas

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Hi, all

I know I have read about fleas before. Is that in SWOE or somewhere

else? So, is a flea when you react to something or someone as if it

is coming from your borderline parent or is a flea when you kind of

act like a borderline yourself? I wanted to get that straight.

Earlier today someone threatened me in a borderline parent nada way

and I had a major flea. I had to figure out how to stop playing the

incident over and over in my head and stop dwelling on it. My

therapist said she has some ideas on how to distract from being

exhausted by nada stress, but I don't see her until the 26th. I

really need this technique b/c it really can mess up my work schedule;

I get paid by production instead of by the hour, so when I am over

stressed, my production goes down.

Daughter's confirmation sponsor has been sucked in by all the " poor

granny " stories from nada herself, so I did have to let him in on info

that I otherwise had not. I told him I don't go around telling people

about my family problems b/c it'snot proper. hint hint for when nada

goes around telling her family problems to them; they should see

something weird about that.

Know what? If they thought nada really cared about my daughter, they

should know that if nada were in trouble money wise or health wise or

needing her yard done or whatever, the first place nada should go is

to her church. At least all Catholic churches are set up in a way to

help people with needs if they really need it. That way there is no

risk of putting a negative light on me or daughter and such by going

to the homeschool group. I guess they just ain't that bright or

somethin' , huh? Nada really gets to the kind of ignorant ones or

the ones who have a dreamy family life and can't imagine anyone could

be like nada.

Theresa