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> Is katie's book helpful? Yes! Then I would consider that she is

> helping people.

>

> Do participants improve after attending her workshops? Yes! She must

> be facilitating some HELP for them.

>

> Is it helpful to receive clarity about a problem? Yes! Therefore

> everyone who provides clarity in this group by sharing their stories

> and inquiries is helping other group members!

>

> Semantics is such a STUPID thing to argue about!

Hello, KS. I would agree with what you say, and I've noticed that when

I set out to be helpful, I'm usually not successful. When I focus on

helping myself by doing The Work for me, I get lots of feedback about

how helpful and fun and clear I am in what I say and do.

It seems that I can be helpful, but only if I'm willing to not be

helpful. :) From my point of view, it's not a semantic distinction,

but one of intention.

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If you need help , help others . To best help others , let them help

you .

Wisdom cries out in the street and no man regards it .

One cannot shake hands with a clenched fist .

Let other people have it your way !

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>> Is katie's book helpful? Yes! Then I would consider that she is

>> helping people.

>>

>> Do participants improve after attending her workshops? Yes! She must

>> be facilitating some HELP for them.

>>

>> Is it helpful to receive clarity about a problem? Yes! Therefore

>> everyone who provides clarity in this group by sharing their stories

>> and inquiries is helping other group members!

>>

>> Semantics is such a STUPID thing to argue about!

>

> Hello, KS. I would agree with what you say, and I've noticed that when

> I set out to be helpful, I'm usually not successful. When I focus on

> helping myself by doing The Work for me, I get lots of feedback about

> how helpful and fun and clear I am in what I say and do.

>

> It seems that I can be helpful, but only if I'm willing to not be

> helpful. :) From my point of view, it's not a semantic distinction,

> but one of intention.

>

> Tom

>

>

>

>

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This sounds like very good advice.

Cardinal

In Loving-what-is , knight of the woeful countenance

<windowpanetest@m...> wrote:

> If you need help , help others . To best help others , let them

help

> you .

>

>

>

> Wisdom cries out in the street and no man regards it .

>

>

>

> One cannot shake hands with a clenched fist .

>

> Let other people have it your way !

>

>

> >

> >> Is katie's book helpful? Yes! Then I would consider that she is

> >> helping people.

> >>

> >> Do participants improve after attending her workshops? Yes! She

must

> >> be facilitating some HELP for them.

> >>

> >> Is it helpful to receive clarity about a problem? Yes! Therefore

> >> everyone who provides clarity in this group by sharing their

stories

> >> and inquiries is helping other group members!

> >>

> >> Semantics is such a STUPID thing to argue about!

> >

> > Hello, KS. I would agree with what you say, and I've noticed that

when

> > I set out to be helpful, I'm usually not successful. When I focus

on

> > helping myself by doing The Work for me, I get lots of feedback

about

> > how helpful and fun and clear I am in what I say and do.

> >

> > It seems that I can be helpful, but only if I'm willing to not be

> > helpful. :) From my point of view, it's not a semantic

distinction,

> > but one of intention.

> >

> > Tom

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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> Is katie's book helpful? Yes! Then I would consider that she is

> helping people.

>

> Do participants improve after attending her workshops? Yes! She

> must be facilitating some HELP for them.

>

Hi KS,

Ten people attend a workshop. Five may find it a life changing

experience. Two may find amusing. Another three may just be

bored.

Everyone gets the same sensory input from . How do you explain

the different reactions, if s presence and words are

so " helpful " ?

In my opinion the experience in a worshop has NOTHING to do

with , it is determined SOLELY by the THOUGHTS each person in

the room is thinking. It can be very difficult to see this because we

always look outside ourselves for causes, but the only cause that can

effect me is my THINKING.

Awakening is purely internal. awoke without being " helped " by

anyone. Maybe awakening simply happens, and then I get to tell the

story about how helped me.

Just some thoughts :)

Loving what is, angel, and that would be you.

Neo

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> > Is katie's book helpful? Yes! Then I would consider that she is

> > helping people.

> >

> > Do participants improve after attending her workshops? Yes! She

> > must be facilitating some HELP for them.

> >

>

> Hi KS,

>

> Ten people attend a workshop. Five may find it a life

changing

> experience. Two may find amusing. Another three may just be

> bored.

>

> Everyone gets the same sensory input from . How do you explain

> the different reactions, if s presence and words are

> so " helpful " ?

>

> In my opinion the experience in a worshop has NOTHING to do

> with , it is determined SOLELY by the THOUGHTS each person in

> the room is thinking. It can be very difficult to see this because

we

> always look outside ourselves for causes, but the only cause that

can

> effect me is my THINKING.

>

> Awakening is purely internal. awoke without being " helped " by

> anyone. Maybe awakening simply happens, and then I get to tell the

> story about how helped me.

>

> Just some thoughts :)

>

> Loving what is, angel, and that would be you.

>

>

> Neo

Hey Neo!

How do you know was not helped by a book she read or something

someone said when she was in treatment for her addictions?

Nothing she came up with is new...so she must have gotten the

information from somewhere and I call that HELPFUL!

KS

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" Maybe I used to believe that the world out there was the source of my

suffering. Now I am supposed to believe that it is my thinking that

the world out there is the cause of my suffering which is actually

the cause of my suffering. I have evidently been wrong in this whole

suffering thing before, why should I accept this new doctrine, just

because I now say this is right? " Steve

You raised some good points. What is often overlooked is that Kt is

in a different state of consciousness from the norm. She woke up that

way one morning, then created the work. So when she asks the

questions it's from a different place than the rest of us. Her lack

of clarity on this point leads to a lot of confusion amongst those

who would like to follow her. That's my story, and I like it ;-)

Tim

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" Tim, You have realized that the source of your suffering is not " out

there " but neither is the source of your bliss and wisdom--it's not

in following Kt's example or doctrine--it's by contacting that divine

place within you that holds the wisdom and peace you desire.

(reconnecting to your Source) " Love, Eddie

For me the most valuable thing about Kt is that she exists, thereby

proving that a different way of being is possible for anyone who

wants it - and the " path " to that state is...... I love looking

within and finding the source/s of all those 'different voices'. One

inner voice, the loneliest, the most terrified, the crucified one is

he who thinks he has to judge it all, to judge everything except his

own consciousness. The other inner selves wait patiently, lovingly,

for the Judge to give birth to a new life at last, love

Tim

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dear Tim:

You said: " What is often overlooked is that Kt is

>in a different state of consciousness from the norm. She woke up that

>way one morning, then created the work. So when she asks the

>questions it's from a different place than the rest of us. Her lack

>of clarity on this point leads to a lot of confusion amongst those

>who would like to follow her. That's my story, and I like it ;-)

>Tim "

I have a different story. Mine says that KT does not lack any

clarity regarding how she perceives vs how " we " perceive. She is

totally clear that you/we are The One, and she reealizes that you/we

may forget that on occasion. :-) Steve D.

> Tim,

> You have realized that the source of your suffering is not " out

there " but

> neither is the source of your bliss and wisdom--it's not in

following Kt's

> example or doctrine--it's by contacting that divine place within

you that

> holds the wisdom and peace you desire. (reconnecting to your Source)

>

> Love,

> Eddie

>

>

> >From: " timitisi " <timitisi@y...>

> >Reply-To: Loving-what-is

> >To: Loving-what-is

> >Subject: Re: What is help?

> >Date: Wed, 03 Mar 2004 14:38:10 -0000

> >

> > " Maybe I used to believe that the world out there was the source

of my

> >suffering. Now I am supposed to believe that it is my thinking that

> >the world out there is the cause of my suffering which is actually

> >the cause of my suffering. I have evidently been wrong in this

whole

> >suffering thing before, why should I accept this new doctrine, just

> >because I now say this is right? " Steve

> >

> >You raised some good points. What is often overlooked is that Kt is

> >in a different state of consciousness from the norm. She woke up

that

> >way one morning, then created the work. So when she asks the

> >questions it's from a different place than the rest of us. Her lack

> >of clarity on this point leads to a lot of confusion amongst those

> >who would like to follow her. That's my story, and I like it ;-)

> >Tim

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

>

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" Her lack of clarity on this point leads to a lot of confusion

amongst those who would like to follow her. That's my story, and I

like it " ;-) >Tim

" I have a different story. Mine says that KT does not lack any

clarity regarding how she perceives vs how " we " perceive. She is

totally clear that you/we are The One, and she reealizes that you/we

may forget that on occasion " . :-) Steve D.

Ah, the perils of the English language, turkeys not withstanding. I

meant that Kt does not make it clear to her audience that the

metanoia came before the work; and that she has always done the work

in a different state of being than everyone else, which has got to

alter the quality of it, surely? Altho her statement that the work

leads to this state belies my theory <g> Nobody's given me any

evidence of someone who became One thru the work, I'd love some,

cheers, Tim

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" That's my story, and I like it " ;-) Tim

" Yes, it gives you a reason to stay where you are " .

I'm perplexed you differ with my brief chronology of Kt's awakening

and the work, I got it from the book!

How could I possibly be anywhere other than where I am? Kt rejoices

that we are where we are, is that what you had in mind? Tim

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