Guest guest Posted February 23, 2004 Report Share Posted February 23, 2004 I'm still in the twilight, but no fun over here?! So I go back to asking the questions; I feel disappointed that when I do the work it leaves me feeling alone...I do the work on that,but I don't get a TA... I'm not sure how to do the work when its on 'me'?? Is this the same twilight ? ) gem SteveDaily wrote: Eddie: I can relate to your " twilight zone " feeling and I know that it is still just another story. No new stories, what fun! Steve D. > Gem, > > I notice that when I'm in transition to a new way of thinking or feeling, as > I leave an old belief system and haven't quite embrassed the new one, I seem > to be in what I call " the twighlight zone. " The feelings and confusion > associated with that transition are soon transformed into a sense of > certainty that I am on the right path and a sense of clarity about what I > left behind and what I am now embracing. It's then not uncommon for me to > attract new people into my life that are mirroring a new, higher level of > consciousness for me. Hope this is helpful-- Eddie > > > >From: Gem Val <giminiagno@y...> > >Reply-To: Loving-what-is > >To: Loving-what-is > >Subject: Re: > >Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 15:12:37 +1100 (EST) > > > > > > > > > >Hello, I'm new to the group, and enjoy reading all these comments. > > I am familiar with 's work, but have problems on doing the work > >on me… Although I like my `alone' time, I love being with people, but feel > >the more I search for freedom, and do all the 'undoing' & accepting all as > >`it is what it is', it leaves me quite numb and feel I annihilate myself. > >It's a dichotomy. I know the work can clear this up for me somewhere, but I > >can't seem to grasp it…..does this make any sense to anyone??… thanks....gim > > > > > > > > > >--------------------------------- > >Try the new improved Yahoo! Australia & NZ Search > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2004 Report Share Posted February 23, 2004 ---Gem You may have to do the work on the thought that makes you feel alone. Just an example: (1) If I let go of my story, I won't have anything to talk about with my friends. (2) Is that true? Yes (3) Are you sure? No, because sometimes we talk about other things. (4) What would you be without the thought? I'd be free of my story and many other stories. I'd stop saying things just to fit in. I'd have more time to do the things I've always wanted to do. I'd be real. I'd be a compassionate listener. TA: If I let go of my story, my friends will have plenty to say to me. I'm willing to be with my friends without my story. Good Luck, openeyes In Loving-what-is , Gem Val <giminiagno@y...> wrote: > I'm still in the twilight, but no fun over here?! > So I go back to asking the questions; I feel disappointed that when I do the work it leaves me feeling alone...I do the work on that,but I don't get a TA... I'm not sure how to do the work when its on 'me'?? Is this the same twilight ? ) gem > > SteveDaily <lafdaily@a...> wrote: > Eddie: > > I can relate to your " twilight zone " feeling and I know that it is > still just another story. No new stories, what fun! > > Steve D. > > > > Gem, > > > > I notice that when I'm in transition to a new way of thinking or > feeling, as > > I leave an old belief system and haven't quite embrassed the new > one, I seem > > to be in what I call " the twighlight zone. " The feelings and > confusion > > associated with that transition are soon transformed into a sense > of > > certainty that I am on the right path and a sense of clarity about > what I > > left behind and what I am now embracing. It's then not uncommon > for me to > > attract new people into my life that are mirroring a new, higher > level of > > consciousness for me. Hope this is helpful-- Eddie > > > > > > >From: Gem Val <giminiagno@y...> > > >Reply-To: Loving-what-is > > >To: Loving-what-is > > >Subject: Re: > > >Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 15:12:37 +1100 (EST) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Hello, I'm new to the group, and enjoy reading all these > comments. > > > I am familiar with 's work, but have problems on doing > the work > > >on me… Although I like my `alone' time, I love being with people, > but feel > > >the more I search for freedom, and do all the 'undoing' & > accepting all as > > >`it is what it is', it leaves me quite numb and feel I annihilate > myself. > > >It's a dichotomy. I know the work can clear this up for me > somewhere, but I > > >can't seem to grasp it…..does this make any sense to anyone??… > thanks....gim > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >--------------------------------- > > >Try the new improved Yahoo! Australia & NZ Search > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 Dear Gem, Here are my thoughts on your question: You said: " I feel disappointed that when I do the work it leaves me feeling alone. " 1. Is that true? Yes 2. Can I really know that that is true? Yes. 3. How do I feel when I believe this thought that I am alone? I feel more alone, lonely. 3.a. Can I see a reason to drop that thought (and I am not asking you to drop it) Of course. 3.b. Can I see one peaceful reason to keep this thought? Of course not. 4. Who would I be without this thought that " when I do the work it leaves me feeling alone. " I would be just me not feeling alone. TA: " when I do the work it leaves me feeling alone. " 1. " when I do the work " my thinking " leaves me feeling alone. " 2. " when I do the work it doesn't leave me feeling alone. " I hope this is helpful. Since I do not know your life situation, I do not relate to your " feeling alone " . Are you really alone? I don't know? Let me know if you have questions. Love, Steve D. > > Gem, > > > > I notice that when I'm in transition to a new way of thinking or > feeling, as > > I leave an old belief system and haven't quite embrassed the new > one, I seem > > to be in what I call " the twighlight zone. " The feelings and > confusion > > associated with that transition are soon transformed into a sense > of > > certainty that I am on the right path and a sense of clarity about > what I > > left behind and what I am now embracing. It's then not uncommon > for me to > > attract new people into my life that are mirroring a new, higher > level of > > consciousness for me. Hope this is helpful-- Eddie > > > > > > >From: Gem Val <giminiagno@y...> > > >Reply-To: Loving-what-is > > >To: Loving-what-is > > >Subject: Re: > > >Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 15:12:37 +1100 (EST) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Hello, I'm new to the group, and enjoy reading all these > comments. > > > I am familiar with 's work, but have problems on doing > the work > > >on me… Although I like my `alone' time, I love being with people, > but feel > > >the more I search for freedom, and do all the 'undoing' & > accepting all as > > >`it is what it is', it leaves me quite numb and feel I annihilate > myself. > > >It's a dichotomy. I know the work can clear this up for me > somewhere, but I > > >can't seem to grasp it…..does this make any sense to anyone??… > thanks....gim > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >--------------------------------- > > >Try the new improved Yahoo! Australia & NZ Search > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 Dear Gem, > I'm still in the twilight, but no fun over here?! > So I go back to asking the questions; I feel disappointed that when I > do the work it leaves me feeling alone...I do the work on that,but I > don't get a TA... I'm not sure how to do the work when its on 'me'?? > Is this the same twilight ? ) gem > So you do the work on feeling alone? What belief do you pick? " I should not feel alone? " " I should not bother to feel alone? " Sometimes it turns out, it is not a belief about myself that is bothering me. Who could change something about your " feeling alone " ? What should he do? Do the work on that. Take care, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Ohhh! yes, I see now my there are more layers to 'my story'....that's so funny : )) thank you.! It's so sweet to read all these responses. openeyes4444 wrote: ---Gem You may have to do the work on the thought that makes you feel alone. Just an example: (1) If I let go of my story, I won't have anything to talk about with my friends. (2) Is that true? Yes (3) Are you sure? No, because sometimes we talk about other things. (4) What would you be without the thought? I'd be free of my story and many other stories. I'd stop saying things just to fit in. I'd have more time to do the things I've always wanted to do. I'd be real. I'd be a compassionate listener. TA: If I let go of my story, my friends will have plenty to say to me. I'm willing to be with my friends without my story. Good Luck, openeyes In Loving-what-is , Gem Val <giminiagno@y...> wrote: > I'm still in the twilight, but no fun over here?! > So I go back to asking the questions; I feel disappointed that when I do the work it leaves me feeling alone...I do the work on that,but I don't get a TA... I'm not sure how to do the work when its on 'me'?? Is this the same twilight ? ) gem > > SteveDaily <lafdaily@a...> wrote: > Eddie: > > I can relate to your " twilight zone " feeling and I know that it is > still just another story. No new stories, what fun! > > Steve D. > > > > Gem, > > > > I notice that when I'm in transition to a new way of thinking or > feeling, as > > I leave an old belief system and haven't quite embrassed the new > one, I seem > > to be in what I call " the twighlight zone. " The feelings and > confusion > > associated with that transition are soon transformed into a sense > of > > certainty that I am on the right path and a sense of clarity about > what I > > left behind and what I am now embracing. It's then not uncommon > for me to > > attract new people into my life that are mirroring a new, higher > level of > > consciousness for me. Hope this is helpful-- Eddie > > > > > > >From: Gem Val <giminiagno@y...> > > >Reply-To: Loving-what-is > > >To: Loving-what-is > > >Subject: Re: > > >Date: Tue, 17 Feb 2004 15:12:37 +1100 (EST) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >Hello, I'm new to the group, and enjoy reading all these > comments. > > > I am familiar with 's work, but have problems on doing > the work > > >on me… Although I like my `alone' time, I love being with people, > but feel > > >the more I search for freedom, and do all the 'undoing' & > accepting all as > > >`it is what it is', it leaves me quite numb and feel I annihilate > myself. > > >It's a dichotomy. I know the work can clear this up for me > somewhere, but I > > >can't seem to grasp it…..does this make any sense to anyone??… > thanks....gim > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >--------------------------------- > > >Try the new improved Yahoo! Australia & NZ Search > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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