Guest guest Posted July 20, 2005 Report Share Posted July 20, 2005 Hi Marie, I've found that there can be only ONE nada in any given family group. Thus, the siblings of a nada are likely to be covert manipulators in their own right. Beware 'nice' nada siblings, they have an agenda all their own. Carol In a message dated 7/21/2005 12:23:29 AM Eastern Daylight Time, proflaf1@... writes: Hey guys, I've recently been reintroduced to my nada's side of the family, I was talking one of my aunts and she commented that my mother's other sister who she won't talk to acts similarly to my mother in terms of manipulative lies. Are aunts with BPD usually as bad as nada or are they just more of a pain like other bpd's around? Alteast I've been warned about her and probably will reread swoe before talking with ths one. How do two girls come out so normal but one land in the hospital and the other just drive one sister away and put on a mask for their other one. Can this be that I did have a grandnada who had two bp daughters adn two non bp daughters? Or the normal parents with their share of problems that just wound up with one very very low functioning bp daughter and one high functioning daughter. I presume it would be typical for the non bp's to marry bp's if they are unaware of the pattern in their families. Hugs to all Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2005 Report Share Posted July 21, 2005 I think there can be others just from comments of a bp mother and bp kid fighting with eachother so why not two sisters bothe be borderlines, especially from what I am gathering from the family history (one kid is practically being too nice about their mother and father and the one that seems trustworthy admits the father was emotionally abusive and not nice to women). So sounds like two of the girls married men who put up with their borderline crap, one waited awhile to get remarried and I dont' know much about the other one. I dont' beleive one of them is a borderline and seems really nice, I don't think they would have an agenda of their own since it was I who looked for them, not them for me, one of the sisters is afraid of me. However the one who is like my nada the lies and manipulates so I've been told. Does it matter which child it is (first born, second ect) Me very confused Ideas here? Marie getevenpersevere@... wrote: Hi Marie, I've found that there can be only ONE nada in any given family group. Thus, the siblings of a nada are likely to be covert manipulators in their own right. Beware 'nice' nada siblings, they have an agenda all their own. Carol In a message dated 7/21/2005 12:23:29 AM Eastern Daylight Time, proflaf1@... writes: Hey guys, I've recently been reintroduced to my nada's side of the family, I was talking one of my aunts and she commented that my mother's other sister who she won't talk to acts similarly to my mother in terms of manipulative lies. Are aunts with BPD usually as bad as nada or are they just more of a pain like other bpd's around? Alteast I've been warned about her and probably will reread swoe before talking with ths one. How do two girls come out so normal but one land in the hospital and the other just drive one sister away and put on a mask for their other one. Can this be that I did have a grandnada who had two bp daughters adn two non bp daughters? Or the normal parents with their share of problems that just wound up with one very very low functioning bp daughter and one high functioning daughter. I presume it would be typical for the non bp's to marry bp's if they are unaware of the pattern in their families. Hugs to all Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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