Another miracle

[Guest guest]

Hello, I'm new to EFT as I just took the workshop on April 12 although I've

known about it for almost 10yrs.

I'm a medical massage therapist and wanted to find a way to help patients

with chronic pain. I massaged a woman today with MS and asked her if she

would be willing to do EFT with me.

The issue she picked to work on was her phobia about going into the gym she

joined 9yrs ago and never went back inside. We tapped on her " fear of going

to the gym " and the anxiety level went from 10 to 6. We tapped again using PR

and 9 gamut and it went from 6 to 3. We tapped again and it didn't go down

any further.

When I probed her about what she was afraid of, she said she felt very self

conscious about limping and going into the gym with a cane, that people would

stare at her. We tapped on that and the discomfort level went down to 0. I

asked her if she wanted to go to the gym and she agreed. I drove her to the

gym, sat in the car while she went in alone. (going in alone was part of the

terror) When she came out after going on a tour of the gym, she was so

excited that she would be going swimming tomorrow. I congratulated her and

was delighted that I contributed to this experience. Anyone else have any

experiences with MS and EFT?

Love, Shellie

[Guest guest]

Although Evy has come so very far, he still has so many deficits. Most of

these deficits include a weakness in the realm of the abstract. For

instance, he can't visualize or talk about his day in school easily, or what

he had for breakfast, or describe a fantastic field trip the morning after

it happened. He doesn't question WHY very often, and rarely probes into how

things work. WELL... This morning, I was conversing with Evy about love.

He likes to tell us when he's angry that he is not our son/brother anymore,

or that I am not his Mom. He can turn on a dime from saying " I love you " to

" I hate you. " This doesn't hurt my feelings or anything. It just

demonstrates the literalness of his thought. When things go well, I love

you. If I'm mad, I hate you. Cut and dry. Not very abstract.

So this morning, as we cuddled in bed, I had our talk about how I love him

even when he chooses the wrong, or is unkind. It is a talk I have always

had with the boys, in an effort to teach the concept of unconditional love.

So this morning, Evy finally shows a glimmer of understanding. I said, " I

love you even when you break my things. " And he looks confused and says,

" But you get mad! " Aha! So I responded, " But even when I am angry with

you, I still love you! " This led me to tell him about God/Jesus--that they

still love him even when he makes a mistake. Evy replies, " I wish Jesus

lived here. " Then he asked, " Where does Jesus live? " I replied, " In

heaven. " He responded, " Is it very far away? " (Do you see why I got

excited? A real abstract conversation!) I was so excited at him asking

tough, non-literal questions. It just made my day! I hope you can

understand how momentous this was! A small miracle. Thought I'd share!

Merry Christmas!

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