Washington Post article on Tropic Thunder

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What 'Tropic Thunder'

Thinks Is Funny

By

Shriver

Monday, August 11, 2008; A15

I've been

told to keep my sense of humor about the film " Tropic Thunder, " which

opens this week. Despite my requests, I have not been given the chance to see

the movie. But I've seen previews, read about it and read excerpts of the

script. By all accounts, it is an unchecked assault on the humanity of people

with intellectual disabilities -- an affront to dignity, hope and respect.

Consider

this exchange:

Ben

Stiller's character: " There were times when I was doing Jack when I

actually felt retarded. Like really retarded. "

Downey Jr.'s character: " Oh yeah. Damn. "

Stiller:

" In a weird way, I had to sort of just free myself up to believe that it

was okay to be stupid or dumb. "

Downey:

" To be a moron. "

Stiller:

" Yeah. "

At another

point, about acting like a person with intellectual disabilities, they say:

Stiller:

" It's what we do, right? "

Downey:

" Everybody knows you never do a full retard. "

Stiller:

" What do you mean? "

Downey:

" Check it out. Hoffman, 'Rain Man,' look retarded, act retarded,

not retarded. Count toothpicks to your cards. Autistic, sure. Not retarded. You

know Tom Hanks, 'Forrest Gump.' Slow, yes. Retarded, maybe. Braces on his legs.

But he charmed the pants off Nixon and won a ping-pong competition. That ain't

retarded. You went full retard, man. Never go full retard. "

I worked

with the Farrelly brothers on a film on this topic. I know about edgy comedy.

I'm also told that movies are equal-opportunity offenders.

So here's an

equal-opportunity response to the equal-opportunity offenders:

People with

intellectual disabilities are routinely abused, neglected, insulted,

institutionalized and even killed around the world. Their parents are told to

give up, that their children are worthless. Schools turn them away. Doctors

refuse to treat them. Employers won't hire them. None of this is funny.

For

centuries, they have been the exception to the most basic spiritual principle:

that we are each equal in spirit, capable of reflecting the goodness of the

divine, carriers of love. But not people with intellectual disabilities. What's

a word commonly applied to them? Hopeless.

Let's

consider where we are in 2008. Our politics are about overcoming division, our

social movements are about ending intolerance, our great philanthropists

promote ending poverty and disease among the world's poor. Are people with

intellectual disabilities included in the mainstream of these movements? For

the most part, no.

Why? Because

they're different. Their joy doesn't fit on magazine covers. Their spirituality

doesn't come in self-help television. Their kind of wealth doesn't command

political attention. (The best of the spirit never does.)

Sadly, they're

such an easy target that many people don't realize whom they are making fun of

when they use the word " retard. " Most people just think it's funny.

" Stupid, idiot, moron, retard. " Ha, ha, ha.

I know: I

could be too sensitive. But I was taught that mean isn't funny. And I've been

to institutions where people with intellectual disabilities are tied to beds or

lie on concrete floors, forgotten. I've heard doctors say they won't treat

them. I know Gallup found that more than 60 percent of Americans don't want a

person with an intellectual disability at their child's school.

I've talked

to people with intellectual disabilities who cry over being insulted on a bus.

I've received too many e-mails from people who are devastated not by their

child's disability but by the terror of being laughed at, excluded and

economically devastated.

It wasn't

funny when Hollywood humiliated African Americans for a generation. It's never

funny when good and decent human beings are humiliated. In fact, it is

dangerous and disgusting.

This film is

all that and more. DreamWorks went so far as to create a mini-version of Simple

Jack and posted it online. The studio has since pulled it down, realizing it

had gone too far, even in an age of edgy, R-rated comedies.

So, enough.

Stop the hurtful jokes. Talk to your children about language that is bullying

and mean. Ask your friends, your educators, your religious leaders to help us

to end the stubborn myth that people with intellectual disabilities are

hopeless. Ask Hollywood to get on the right side of dignity.

I hope

others will join me in shutting this movie out of our lives and our

pocketbooks. We don't live in times when labeling and humiliating others is

funny. And we should send that message far and wide.

The

writer is chairman of Special Olympics

and a columnist for washingtonpost.com's On Faith discussion

site.

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