Abandonment Issues and Death/Moving

[Guest guest]

Question,

I understand the BP's major problem is

abandonment. Now if the BP's major connection,

be it spouse or counselor either dies or moves.

Do they typically try to " replace them " by having

other people play their roles preferably another

close person. I see so much of my nada's

behaviour here it's amazing. I'm asking because

after my father died she expected me to take over

his stuff. Then after her counselor moved she

expected me to take over for her counselor. Both

circumstances resulted in a breakoff and I think

this time I'd better stay away from her this

time.

Marie

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