[modoasis] One more ultimate ? about daughter dealings

[Guest guest]

Ok, or somebody, how do we deal with the fact that grandma took

daughter to horse shows and all that? To people, that looks like a

nice thing. Daughter did like going to horse show but not dealing

with grandma before and at other tmes in life. I suppose that was my

bad, eh, for letting that stuff go on like that giving such

appearances that grandnada was great and an angel and being so kind do

daughter, eh? How do we deal with that when the girl mentions " but

your grandmother took you tohorse shows and paid for them, so she

loves you! " They will never see all the strings attached, of course.

Theresa