Re: Dilemma......... Need Advice

[Guest guest]

> Hi everyone. I have a difficult decision to make and I need some

> advice.

>graduated from school on the 28th and have been offered two

> wonderful jobs working for the State of Pennsylvania. Both

positions would give us more money, excellent benefits and one

facility even offered to give my husband a job if I would come and

work for them.

> Kim from buffalo

Hi Kym

This is a hard decision. Especially since we always feel the need to

sacrifice for our families, and it is very hard for us women to do

things for ourselves. It is in our nature...

That being said,

It sounds to me like this business opportunity is really wanting

you. Have you asked them if they have a transfer program where they

would help with the costs of transfering you and family there? Or if

they have a program where they foot the bill for transfering you and

have a payment program set up for reimbursement. It is worth the

asking. My transfer up here was paid for by the bank I worked at and

all I had to do was sign an agreement to stay for one year. It is

worth the asking.

I do understand your delima. Once I made up my mind to do this

surgery , my biggest fear was not being able to do it. You have

worked hard all year and saved for this very thing. It has been my

experience that there will always be " something " that comes up to use

the money you have saved for something else.

But pray about it, seek other options, and dont give up your dream.

It is your health you are talking about here, and it is important

too. If you cant work due to your health, your new job wont be of

much good to you. I would just continue to seek all the options.

Dont look at this surgery as something selfish. You and your husband

and all around you will benefit from you being healthy.

HTH

Sharon in Onyx

[Guest guest]

I don't know if this information will help you, Kym, but I had to

choose between my private office (I am a physician) and having the

surgery. I chose the surgery and work for a pittance for a clinic

now. I have never regretted it for one second. My life is

immensely better now and a job is just a job.

Marta

[Guest guest]

I don't know if this information will help you, Kym, but I had to

choose between my private office (I am a physician) and having the

surgery. I chose the surgery and work for a pittance for a clinic

now. I have never regretted it for one second. My life is

immensely better now and a job is just a job.

Marta

[Guest guest]

I don't know if this information will help you, Kym, but I had to

choose between my private office (I am a physician) and having the

surgery. I chose the surgery and work for a pittance for a clinic

now. I have never regretted it for one second. My life is

immensely better now and a job is just a job.

Marta