Guest guest Posted May 8, 2004 Report Share Posted May 8, 2004 I am 63 and my nada is 82. I cringe even thinking about being around her. For a long time I felt that if I changed my attitude and was more loving toward her that our relationship would change. She left here several weeks ago after doing a turn on me and I now recognize that I will always waiting for the other shoe to drop. It is wearing me out, I want to live a pleasant life and I am tried of crap. For many years I had nothing to do with her; I did not take my children around her. I knew something was not right, but I did not know what it was. Just a few years ago, I realized that when I told my nada " no " what she heard is " I hate your guts and you are the ugliest person on the face of the earth. Also I tried to never ask for anything because the answer to any question, no matter what the question was, the answer was no. I send modest gifts and cards to her on a regular basis to help me. It is so fightening to see how she acts around me. My grown children are slowly making friends with her; they are adults so they make be able to past her " test " . However, I do not think it is for long. She will do a turn on them as time goes on. May God help us all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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