Guest guest Posted December 3, 2004 Report Share Posted December 3, 2004 Hi Dee, I had thought That too because we were under so much stress that is why she contacted us. For the most part she leaves me alone except for the " presents " she buys me on ocassion. The " presents " meaning the self-help books she buys for me to help with " my " problems. When she does contact me, I just ignore her. Yet, it does stir up the anger in my even if I don't know what the jab is. Then it takes some time and energy to get back to normal. YUCK. Thanks for the welcome. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2004 Report Share Posted December 3, 2004 Hi Dee, I had thought That too because we were under so much stress that is why she contacted us. For the most part she leaves me alone except for the " presents " she buys me on ocassion. The " presents " meaning the self-help books she buys for me to help with " my " problems. When she does contact me, I just ignore her. Yet, it does stir up the anger in my even if I don't know what the jab is. Then it takes some time and energy to get back to normal. YUCK. Thanks for the welcome. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 3, 2004 Report Share Posted December 3, 2004 Mine does this! My sister and I have both noticed this and there were specific times when we were really sufferring that she just opened up and began pouring out all her issues on us. We had to insist that she stop, and she seemed baffled and once even admitted, " well, I guess this wasn't a very good time to bring this all up.. " But yes, I think they can't tolerate it when someone else is the center of attention. -------------- Original message -------------- > > > stated; > >Due to my daughters > >husband being in a horrific accident and my mother knowing that we were > >going through a difficult time, I questioned why she took now to try >and > >make amends? I ignored it and did not contact her. > > My sister has often stated that our nada is the most demanding when we > are under stress. It's like she has her radar out and can sense when > the emotional pressure rises in our lives. That's when she wants > blood, bone marrow, our very spirit. I think she can't stand to think > we might be so absorbed by our own troubles that we aren't even > thinking of her. I don't know...so much of her behavior baffles me. > Dee > > > > > > > Send questions and/or concerns to ModOasis-owner > " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " a primer for non-BPs, can be ordered via > 1-888-35-SHELL () and for the table of contents, go to: > http://www.BPDCentral.com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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