Re: An adult with autism crusades, adjusts

[Guest guest]

" Why do some NT's seem to think socializing involves pubs and

nightclubs? Didn't it occur to her co-workers that it might be

sensory overload? I suppose they thought they were including .

Seriously there are some things I would prefer not to be included

in - nightclubs is definitely one of those things and I don't feel I

am missing out. "

I have never understood the whole pubs and nightclubs thing. For me,

nothing that goes on there is fun. I don;t like crowds. I don't like

noise. I don't like music that is turned up to high. I don't like

drunk people. I don't like mind-blotting quantities of over-priced

alcohol. I don't like drugs, nor do I like integrating and

socializing with people who use them. I don't like easy sex or easy

offers of sex. To me, clubbing seems to be where the people with the

least interesting minds and the most depraved morality come together

in a sort of socially contrived heathen-hell.

I prefer quiet one-on-one conversations to that sort of thing any

day.

Administrator

[Guest guest]

As a professional musician, I can tell you that a couple decades ago

when I had a band that performed for the take at the door as well as

a percentage of the bar, it was this very behaviour that provided me

with the financial wherewithall to puchase everything the band needed

from a cub van to an awesome lighting and sound system to an

electronic drum kit and quite a bit more.

Ergo the only use I have for nightclubs, pubs, taverns, et al is that

it will yield decent coin if the band is able to appeal to the most

base of NT desires without muddying one's personal morals. In other

words, what did I care if they drank themselves stupid and threw up

all over the parking lot as long as they weren't expecting me to join

in?

Raven

>

> " Why do some NT's seem to think socializing involves pubs and

> nightclubs? Didn't it occur to her co-workers that it might be

> sensory overload? I suppose they thought they were including .

> Seriously there are some things I would prefer not to be included

> in - nightclubs is definitely one of those things and I don't feel

I

> am missing out. "

>

> I have never understood the whole pubs and nightclubs thing. For

me,

> nothing that goes on there is fun. I don;t like crowds. I don't

like

> noise. I don't like music that is turned up to high. I don't like

> drunk people. I don't like mind-blotting quantities of over-priced

> alcohol. I don't like drugs, nor do I like integrating and

> socializing with people who use them. I don't like easy sex or easy

> offers of sex. To me, clubbing seems to be where the people with

the

> least interesting minds and the most depraved morality come

together

> in a sort of socially contrived heathen-hell.

>

> I prefer quiet one-on-one conversations to that sort of thing any

> day.

>

>

> Administrator

>

[Guest guest]

As a professional musician, I can tell you that a couple decades ago

when I had a band that performed for the take at the door as well as

a percentage of the bar, it was this very behaviour that provided me

with the financial wherewithall to puchase everything the band needed

from a cub van to an awesome lighting and sound system to an

electronic drum kit and quite a bit more.

Ergo the only use I have for nightclubs, pubs, taverns, et al is that

it will yield decent coin if the band is able to appeal to the most

base of NT desires without muddying one's personal morals. In other

words, what did I care if they drank themselves stupid and threw up

all over the parking lot as long as they weren't expecting me to join

in?

Raven

>

> " Why do some NT's seem to think socializing involves pubs and

> nightclubs? Didn't it occur to her co-workers that it might be

> sensory overload? I suppose they thought they were including .

> Seriously there are some things I would prefer not to be included

> in - nightclubs is definitely one of those things and I don't feel

I

> am missing out. "

>

> I have never understood the whole pubs and nightclubs thing. For

me,

> nothing that goes on there is fun. I don;t like crowds. I don't

like

> noise. I don't like music that is turned up to high. I don't like

> drunk people. I don't like mind-blotting quantities of over-priced

> alcohol. I don't like drugs, nor do I like integrating and

> socializing with people who use them. I don't like easy sex or easy

> offers of sex. To me, clubbing seems to be where the people with

the

> least interesting minds and the most depraved morality come

together

> in a sort of socially contrived heathen-hell.

>

> I prefer quiet one-on-one conversations to that sort of thing any

> day.

>

>

> Administrator

>

[Guest guest]

As a professional musician, I can tell you that a couple decades ago

when I had a band that performed for the take at the door as well as

a percentage of the bar, it was this very behaviour that provided me

with the financial wherewithall to puchase everything the band needed

from a cub van to an awesome lighting and sound system to an

electronic drum kit and quite a bit more.

Ergo the only use I have for nightclubs, pubs, taverns, et al is that

it will yield decent coin if the band is able to appeal to the most

base of NT desires without muddying one's personal morals. In other

words, what did I care if they drank themselves stupid and threw up

all over the parking lot as long as they weren't expecting me to join

in?

Raven

>

> " Why do some NT's seem to think socializing involves pubs and

> nightclubs? Didn't it occur to her co-workers that it might be

> sensory overload? I suppose they thought they were including .

> Seriously there are some things I would prefer not to be included

> in - nightclubs is definitely one of those things and I don't feel

I

> am missing out. "

>

> I have never understood the whole pubs and nightclubs thing. For

me,

> nothing that goes on there is fun. I don;t like crowds. I don't

like

> noise. I don't like music that is turned up to high. I don't like

> drunk people. I don't like mind-blotting quantities of over-priced

> alcohol. I don't like drugs, nor do I like integrating and

> socializing with people who use them. I don't like easy sex or easy

> offers of sex. To me, clubbing seems to be where the people with

the

> least interesting minds and the most depraved morality come

together

> in a sort of socially contrived heathen-hell.

>

> I prefer quiet one-on-one conversations to that sort of thing any

> day.

>

>

> Administrator

>

[Guest guest]

I have never understood it either. All the noise and obnoxious drunk people. I've never understood why drinking until you don't know what you are doing and then spending the next day throwing up and feeling miserable is considered a good time.

I do find it interesting, however, when I see alcohol referred to as a "social lubricant." Maybe that means NTs can't stand each other either and so they have to get blotto to make each other "fun" enough to be around? It seems odd to me that they who claim to be so social would need to do that. By the same token, why do they drink to deliberately lower their inhibitions and they complain when they do stupid and embarrassing things?

In a message dated 3/23/2008 3:16:59 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, no_reply writes:

"Why do some NT's seem to think socializing involves pubs andnightclubs? Didn't it occur to her co-workers that it might besensory overload? I suppose they thought they were including .Seriously there are some things I would prefer not to be included in - nightclubs is definitely one of those things and I don't feel I am missing out."I have never understood the whole pubs and nightclubs thing. For me, nothing that goes on there is fun. I don;t like crowds. I don't like noise. I don't like music that is turned up to high. I don't like drunk people. I don't like mind-blotting quantities of over-priced alcohol. I don't like drugs, nor do I like integrating and socializing with people who use them. I don't like easy sex or easy offers of sex. To me, clubbing seems to be where the people with the least interesting minds and the most depraved morality come together in a sort of socially contrived heathen-hell. I prefer quiet one-on-one conversations to that sort of thing any day.Administrator Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home.

[Guest guest]

I have never understood it either. All the noise and obnoxious drunk people. I've never understood why drinking until you don't know what you are doing and then spending the next day throwing up and feeling miserable is considered a good time.

I do find it interesting, however, when I see alcohol referred to as a "social lubricant." Maybe that means NTs can't stand each other either and so they have to get blotto to make each other "fun" enough to be around? It seems odd to me that they who claim to be so social would need to do that. By the same token, why do they drink to deliberately lower their inhibitions and they complain when they do stupid and embarrassing things?

In a message dated 3/23/2008 3:16:59 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, no_reply writes:

"Why do some NT's seem to think socializing involves pubs andnightclubs? Didn't it occur to her co-workers that it might besensory overload? I suppose they thought they were including .Seriously there are some things I would prefer not to be included in - nightclubs is definitely one of those things and I don't feel I am missing out."I have never understood the whole pubs and nightclubs thing. For me, nothing that goes on there is fun. I don;t like crowds. I don't like noise. I don't like music that is turned up to high. I don't like drunk people. I don't like mind-blotting quantities of over-priced alcohol. I don't like drugs, nor do I like integrating and socializing with people who use them. I don't like easy sex or easy offers of sex. To me, clubbing seems to be where the people with the least interesting minds and the most depraved morality come together in a sort of socially contrived heathen-hell. I prefer quiet one-on-one conversations to that sort of thing any day.Administrator Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home.

[Guest guest]

Domino's Pizza has a system where you can order pizza online. That is what I have been doing for about the last year rather than calling it in. They have a new thing now where you can watch a bar on the screen showing you what stage the pizza is in, such as being prepared, put in the oven and out for delivery. That means only dealing with the person at the door.

Mmmmmmmm I've had this problem before many times, but given a preference if I have to do one or the other I can just about manage the phone ordering and much prefer someone else to go to the door - I really dislike answering the door, not too keen on answering the telephone either; but when things get too bad, I let the answering machine screen my calls :-)Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home.

[Guest guest]

Domino's Pizza has a system where you can order pizza online. That is what I have been doing for about the last year rather than calling it in. They have a new thing now where you can watch a bar on the screen showing you what stage the pizza is in, such as being prepared, put in the oven and out for delivery. That means only dealing with the person at the door.

Mmmmmmmm I've had this problem before many times, but given a preference if I have to do one or the other I can just about manage the phone ordering and much prefer someone else to go to the door - I really dislike answering the door, not too keen on answering the telephone either; but when things get too bad, I let the answering machine screen my calls :-)Create a Home Theater Like the Pros. Watch the video on AOL Home.

[Guest guest]

> An adult with autism crusades, adjusts

> Ordering pizza over the phone is out of the question because if the

> person on the other end gets her request wrong, she can't respond

> quickly enough.

I can't tell you how many times the seemingly simple act of ordering

pizza and my lack of wanting to do it has caused discontent between my

husband and I. He doesn't understand and I have aways found it hard to

explain. In the end, I always ended up feeling disfunctional and

stupid.

Kim

[Guest guest]

" I can't tell you how many times the seemingly simple act of ordering

pizza and my lack of wanting to do it has caused discontent between my

husband and I. He doesn't understand and I have aways found it hard to

explain. In the end, I always ended up feeling disfunctional and

stupid. "

There was once a time when as a child when I was too afraid to order

anythin at Mcs or at other fast food restaurants. It was the

smile the cashiers had. The smiles made the people look like wolves

that were going to eat me up.

In this day and age, I get annoyed with people behind the counter and

have the urge to blow up at them for their stupidity. Cashiers who

have been doing the same job all summer annoy me because they cannot

take a simple order.

" Give me a number one with a coke for here. "

" You want that super-sized? "

" No, if I did I would ask for it. "

" What kind of drink? "

" I said a coke. Are you deaf? "

" Anything else? "

" I said all I wanted was a number one with a coke for ehere. "

" Is that for here or to go? "

ArggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHH!

These restaurants could usher people through the lines faster if they

wouldn't ask so many stupid questions. And they would get more sales

too, because people waiting in line wouldn't leave due to the long

wait.

But of course, most of the other people have becoming Pavlovian dogs

thanks to years of this treatment, and so they look at me like I am

the nutty one for being so impatient. The world just drives me

insane, and the more idiotic someone is on the other side of the

counter, or the other end of the phone line, the more frustrated I

get.

There is also a sense of trepidation, because people have a tendency

to get things wrong even when you are perfectly clear.

In some Mc's retaurants, they don't have numbered menus, and so

I have often ordered -say- a Big Mac Value meal and told it was

$1.50. I said, how can you tell me it's a $1.50 when I ordered a meal

that costs $4.55 (without tax)? Then she redoes the order and I pay

for the whole meal and she gives me a single Big Mac and tries to

send me on my way. Then I have to point out that the receipt says I

am owed a meal.

I don't notice these things happening with other customers. Just me.

I speak clearly, loudly, and intelligibly precisely because my sister

workled at a Mcs and told me how it is to make things run

faster when ordering. So following her and Mc's rules, I am the

perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

customer slows down service.

Administrator

[Guest guest]

" I can't tell you how many times the seemingly simple act of ordering

pizza and my lack of wanting to do it has caused discontent between my

husband and I. He doesn't understand and I have aways found it hard to

explain. In the end, I always ended up feeling disfunctional and

stupid. "

There was once a time when as a child when I was too afraid to order

anythin at Mcs or at other fast food restaurants. It was the

smile the cashiers had. The smiles made the people look like wolves

that were going to eat me up.

In this day and age, I get annoyed with people behind the counter and

have the urge to blow up at them for their stupidity. Cashiers who

have been doing the same job all summer annoy me because they cannot

take a simple order.

" Give me a number one with a coke for here. "

" You want that super-sized? "

" No, if I did I would ask for it. "

" What kind of drink? "

" I said a coke. Are you deaf? "

" Anything else? "

" I said all I wanted was a number one with a coke for ehere. "

" Is that for here or to go? "

ArggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHH!

These restaurants could usher people through the lines faster if they

wouldn't ask so many stupid questions. And they would get more sales

too, because people waiting in line wouldn't leave due to the long

wait.

But of course, most of the other people have becoming Pavlovian dogs

thanks to years of this treatment, and so they look at me like I am

the nutty one for being so impatient. The world just drives me

insane, and the more idiotic someone is on the other side of the

counter, or the other end of the phone line, the more frustrated I

get.

There is also a sense of trepidation, because people have a tendency

to get things wrong even when you are perfectly clear.

In some Mc's retaurants, they don't have numbered menus, and so

I have often ordered -say- a Big Mac Value meal and told it was

$1.50. I said, how can you tell me it's a $1.50 when I ordered a meal

that costs $4.55 (without tax)? Then she redoes the order and I pay

for the whole meal and she gives me a single Big Mac and tries to

send me on my way. Then I have to point out that the receipt says I

am owed a meal.

I don't notice these things happening with other customers. Just me.

I speak clearly, loudly, and intelligibly precisely because my sister

workled at a Mcs and told me how it is to make things run

faster when ordering. So following her and Mc's rules, I am the

perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

customer slows down service.

Administrator

[Guest guest]

" I can't tell you how many times the seemingly simple act of ordering

pizza and my lack of wanting to do it has caused discontent between my

husband and I. He doesn't understand and I have aways found it hard to

explain. In the end, I always ended up feeling disfunctional and

stupid. "

There was once a time when as a child when I was too afraid to order

anythin at Mcs or at other fast food restaurants. It was the

smile the cashiers had. The smiles made the people look like wolves

that were going to eat me up.

In this day and age, I get annoyed with people behind the counter and

have the urge to blow up at them for their stupidity. Cashiers who

have been doing the same job all summer annoy me because they cannot

take a simple order.

" Give me a number one with a coke for here. "

" You want that super-sized? "

" No, if I did I would ask for it. "

" What kind of drink? "

" I said a coke. Are you deaf? "

" Anything else? "

" I said all I wanted was a number one with a coke for ehere. "

" Is that for here or to go? "

ArggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHH!

These restaurants could usher people through the lines faster if they

wouldn't ask so many stupid questions. And they would get more sales

too, because people waiting in line wouldn't leave due to the long

wait.

But of course, most of the other people have becoming Pavlovian dogs

thanks to years of this treatment, and so they look at me like I am

the nutty one for being so impatient. The world just drives me

insane, and the more idiotic someone is on the other side of the

counter, or the other end of the phone line, the more frustrated I

get.

There is also a sense of trepidation, because people have a tendency

to get things wrong even when you are perfectly clear.

In some Mc's retaurants, they don't have numbered menus, and so

I have often ordered -say- a Big Mac Value meal and told it was

$1.50. I said, how can you tell me it's a $1.50 when I ordered a meal

that costs $4.55 (without tax)? Then she redoes the order and I pay

for the whole meal and she gives me a single Big Mac and tries to

send me on my way. Then I have to point out that the receipt says I

am owed a meal.

I don't notice these things happening with other customers. Just me.

I speak clearly, loudly, and intelligibly precisely because my sister

workled at a Mcs and told me how it is to make things run

faster when ordering. So following her and Mc's rules, I am the

perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

customer slows down service.

Administrator

[Guest guest]

Mmmmmmmm I've had this problem before many times, but given a

preference if I have to do one or the other I can just about manage

the phone ordering and much prefer someone else to go to the door - I

really dislike answering the door, not too keen on answering the

telephone either; but when things get too bad, I let the answering

machine screen my calls :-)

>

>

>

>

> > An adult with autism crusades, adjusts

>

> > Ordering pizza over the phone is out of the question because if

the

> > person on the other end gets her request wrong, she can't respond

> > quickly enough.

>

>

> I can't tell you how many times the seemingly simple act of ordering

> pizza and my lack of wanting to do it has caused discontent between

my

> husband and I. He doesn't understand and I have aways found it

hard to

> explain. In the end, I always ended up feeling disfunctional and

> stupid.

>

> Kim

>

[Guest guest]

Mmmmmmmm I've had this problem before many times, but given a

preference if I have to do one or the other I can just about manage

the phone ordering and much prefer someone else to go to the door - I

really dislike answering the door, not too keen on answering the

telephone either; but when things get too bad, I let the answering

machine screen my calls :-)

>

>

>

>

> > An adult with autism crusades, adjusts

>

> > Ordering pizza over the phone is out of the question because if

the

> > person on the other end gets her request wrong, she can't respond

> > quickly enough.

>

>

> I can't tell you how many times the seemingly simple act of ordering

> pizza and my lack of wanting to do it has caused discontent between

my

> husband and I. He doesn't understand and I have aways found it

hard to

> explain. In the end, I always ended up feeling disfunctional and

> stupid.

>

> Kim

>

[Guest guest]

" ...it was like drinking a bitter dishtowel. "

:-) I couldn't help but smile at that - I've never tried drinking a

bitter dishtowel, but nice description :-)

As for the fast food places, my son has said in the past 'why do they

call it fast food, it isn't very fast' I'm inclined to agree and am

very thankful that he is not too keen on such places now.

>

> All of that is annoying. I have found that giving my order at a

fast food

> place slowly usually works pretty well and saying " that is all. "

when I'm done

> helps too. If they try to push anything else I just say no thank

you, if they

> push again they just get a no, push again no answer at all.

>

> On the other hand, I usually go to the local Wawa convenience store

now.

> They usually have hot dogs ready, though sometimes I get there and

they are sold

> out. They also have a touch screen order system for the hoagies and

other

> things. That works out very well. It is interesting, but they also

have some of

> the best coffee around, not too bitter and a smooth texture. Much

better than

> that swill I got from Hardees the other day: it was like drinking

a bitter

> dishtowel.

>

>

[Guest guest]

" ...it was like drinking a bitter dishtowel. "

:-) I couldn't help but smile at that - I've never tried drinking a

bitter dishtowel, but nice description :-)

As for the fast food places, my son has said in the past 'why do they

call it fast food, it isn't very fast' I'm inclined to agree and am

very thankful that he is not too keen on such places now.

>

> All of that is annoying. I have found that giving my order at a

fast food

> place slowly usually works pretty well and saying " that is all. "

when I'm done

> helps too. If they try to push anything else I just say no thank

you, if they

> push again they just get a no, push again no answer at all.

>

> On the other hand, I usually go to the local Wawa convenience store

now.

> They usually have hot dogs ready, though sometimes I get there and

they are sold

> out. They also have a touch screen order system for the hoagies and

other

> things. That works out very well. It is interesting, but they also

have some of

> the best coffee around, not too bitter and a smooth texture. Much

better than

> that swill I got from Hardees the other day: it was like drinking

a bitter

> dishtowel.

>

>

[Guest guest]

>

There is also a sense of trepidation, because people have a tendency

to get things wrong even when you are perfectly clear.

, I am the

> perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

> customer slows down service.

>

>

> Administrator

>

Hmmmm sounds like every experience i have. I did well on all my

classes a 3.5 gpa 92 percentile on the Analogies Test. praise

by professors and I did not get accepted into the grad school

program. I am trying again, perhaps with the remaining scools that

offer the program. What irks me is that students that i have watched

cheat during exams, heard state that they would simply lie to parents

when faced with a challenging child, and those with sour dispositions

were accepted, and worse grades. So the cycle of frustration of

adhereing to all the rules learning all the cues and patterns,

avoiding all obstacles, and making academic achievement did not

prepare me for the pub goings on of Grad school, which is about who

likes you not if you would be a good addition to the program or

profession. This also makes it hard for me to find a place where I

can be employed and meet the fiscal demands for my son's care. Yeah

mimi

[Guest guest]

>

There is also a sense of trepidation, because people have a tendency

to get things wrong even when you are perfectly clear.

, I am the

> perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

> customer slows down service.

>

>

> Administrator

>

Hmmmm sounds like every experience i have. I did well on all my

classes a 3.5 gpa 92 percentile on the Analogies Test. praise

by professors and I did not get accepted into the grad school

program. I am trying again, perhaps with the remaining scools that

offer the program. What irks me is that students that i have watched

cheat during exams, heard state that they would simply lie to parents

when faced with a challenging child, and those with sour dispositions

were accepted, and worse grades. So the cycle of frustration of

adhereing to all the rules learning all the cues and patterns,

avoiding all obstacles, and making academic achievement did not

prepare me for the pub goings on of Grad school, which is about who

likes you not if you would be a good addition to the program or

profession. This also makes it hard for me to find a place where I

can be employed and meet the fiscal demands for my son's care. Yeah

mimi

[Guest guest]

>

> Mmmmmmmm I've had this problem before many times, but given a

> preference if I have to do one or the other I can just about manage

> the phone ordering and much prefer someone else to go to the door - I

> really dislike answering the door, not too keen on answering the

> telephone either; but when things get too bad, I let the answering

> machine screen my calls :-)

>

>

>

>

yes yes and yes

[Guest guest]

>

> There are many schools you should be able to get into with that GPA

> (I am assuming 4.0 is an A) and the test, but of course, you

> would have to move to attend.

>

> Did you request an itemization of what grounds you were refused for

> admission. What are the requirements for admission with someone in

> your major?

>

>

> Administrator

>

I am working on the request but i feel like I have to translate to NT

so as not to ruffle feathers and leave everyone's ego intact. A 3.0

and a of 50% is just not for someone that is as intellectually

challanging as me (or intimidating) You know all 5'1 " of me. (also

for some reason the woman in the department keep referring to me as

thin (I am not really thin) small perhaps but (all this tells me is

that I didn't make the looks expectation, the schmoozing expectation,

and I did not bow and scrape the right way) also i made it clear I

had an child on the spectrum and I was told that I should avoid

specializing. i said this because i felt I had a valid parent

perspective (this for some reason makes me contaversial) As this

field should be dominated by people with no personal experience?? I

am a bit at a loss, seeing the school psycologist, but it is all but

over at this school. It is not that I wouldn't be able to accept

responsibility for academic trials. I am taking anatomy and

Physiology over. I was overwhelmed the first time and made a mess

got a c+ I didn't deserve. I am taking it again and thus far my

lowest grade is an 87 with all other grades being 100's 4 total this

year, so far. I really think it was a aspie unwritten rule behavior

fiasco, and i have made improvements in that department. Well it is

a long story but thanks for asking. there is no solid answer. i had

the grades I hade the scores, they chose others. End of story

It is the fact that dullards seems to excel while i am blocked at the

door

[Guest guest]

>

> There are many schools you should be able to get into with that GPA

> (I am assuming 4.0 is an A) and the test, but of course, you

> would have to move to attend.

>

> Did you request an itemization of what grounds you were refused for

> admission. What are the requirements for admission with someone in

> your major?

>

>

> Administrator

>

I am working on the request but i feel like I have to translate to NT

so as not to ruffle feathers and leave everyone's ego intact. A 3.0

and a of 50% is just not for someone that is as intellectually

challanging as me (or intimidating) You know all 5'1 " of me. (also

for some reason the woman in the department keep referring to me as

thin (I am not really thin) small perhaps but (all this tells me is

that I didn't make the looks expectation, the schmoozing expectation,

and I did not bow and scrape the right way) also i made it clear I

had an child on the spectrum and I was told that I should avoid

specializing. i said this because i felt I had a valid parent

perspective (this for some reason makes me contaversial) As this

field should be dominated by people with no personal experience?? I

am a bit at a loss, seeing the school psycologist, but it is all but

over at this school. It is not that I wouldn't be able to accept

responsibility for academic trials. I am taking anatomy and

Physiology over. I was overwhelmed the first time and made a mess

got a c+ I didn't deserve. I am taking it again and thus far my

lowest grade is an 87 with all other grades being 100's 4 total this

year, so far. I really think it was a aspie unwritten rule behavior

fiasco, and i have made improvements in that department. Well it is

a long story but thanks for asking. there is no solid answer. i had

the grades I hade the scores, they chose others. End of story

It is the fact that dullards seems to excel while i am blocked at the

door

[Guest guest]

>

> There are many schools you should be able to get into with that GPA

> (I am assuming 4.0 is an A) and the test, but of course, you

> would have to move to attend.

>

> Did you request an itemization of what grounds you were refused for

> admission. What are the requirements for admission with someone in

> your major?

>

>

> Administrator

>

I am working on the request but i feel like I have to translate to NT

so as not to ruffle feathers and leave everyone's ego intact. A 3.0

and a of 50% is just not for someone that is as intellectually

challanging as me (or intimidating) You know all 5'1 " of me. (also

for some reason the woman in the department keep referring to me as

thin (I am not really thin) small perhaps but (all this tells me is

that I didn't make the looks expectation, the schmoozing expectation,

and I did not bow and scrape the right way) also i made it clear I

had an child on the spectrum and I was told that I should avoid

specializing. i said this because i felt I had a valid parent

perspective (this for some reason makes me contaversial) As this

field should be dominated by people with no personal experience?? I

am a bit at a loss, seeing the school psycologist, but it is all but

over at this school. It is not that I wouldn't be able to accept

responsibility for academic trials. I am taking anatomy and

Physiology over. I was overwhelmed the first time and made a mess

got a c+ I didn't deserve. I am taking it again and thus far my

lowest grade is an 87 with all other grades being 100's 4 total this

year, so far. I really think it was a aspie unwritten rule behavior

fiasco, and i have made improvements in that department. Well it is

a long story but thanks for asking. there is no solid answer. i had

the grades I hade the scores, they chose others. End of story

It is the fact that dullards seems to excel while i am blocked at the

door

[Guest guest]

> I don't notice these things happening with other customers. Just me.

> I speak clearly, loudly, and intelligibly precisely because my sister

> workled at a Mcs and told me how it is to make things run

> faster when ordering. So following her and Mc's rules, I am the

> perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

> customer slows down service.

My husband ALWAYS calls and speaks to the manager whenever an order is

incorrect, which by the way seems to be ever time he goes to get fast

food, like that does any good. At least he seems to get some

satisfaction from the call.

Kim

[Guest guest]

> I don't notice these things happening with other customers. Just me.

> I speak clearly, loudly, and intelligibly precisely because my sister

> workled at a Mcs and told me how it is to make things run

> faster when ordering. So following her and Mc's rules, I am the

> perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

> customer slows down service.

My husband ALWAYS calls and speaks to the manager whenever an order is

incorrect, which by the way seems to be ever time he goes to get fast

food, like that does any good. At least he seems to get some

satisfaction from the call.

Kim

[Guest guest]

> I don't notice these things happening with other customers. Just me.

> I speak clearly, loudly, and intelligibly precisely because my sister

> workled at a Mcs and told me how it is to make things run

> faster when ordering. So following her and Mc's rules, I am the

> perfect fast food customer, but guess what, being the perfect

> customer slows down service.

My husband ALWAYS calls and speaks to the manager whenever an order is

incorrect, which by the way seems to be ever time he goes to get fast

food, like that does any good. At least he seems to get some

satisfaction from the call.

Kim