Guest guest Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 Cherie White wrote: > , > I read your long email regarding your husband and sex. I have been > married almost four years to a wonderful man but we haven't had sex > once. Has he engaged in sex with many women in the past? Is he very religious, traditionally speaking? He might not be attracted solely to women although. I've known plenty of women who have been married to men and have sex with them, but are also gay. My girlfriend is Bi sexual, although now, she is totally monogamous with me. Your husband might be bi sexual. Partners of the opposite sex are always, I find, the last to know. And are the most shocked to learn of this. But if it doesn't matter that much, love each other for love its self. How wonderful that is! > > ... will have nothing whatsoever to do with me sexually.... Whenever > I bring up the subject of SEX, he either gets very quiet and doesn't > speak or gets angry with me. I feel for him., I really do. It's obvious he'd change it if he could. > So I just have to keep my mouth shut and continue to be frustrated. That is so unfortunate. It's an issue I would let lay for too long though if it's important to one, it's important to discuss for the marriage. All the best Cherrie. Sharon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 Cherie I read your response to the email about marriage. I?m glad you got it good you may be one in a thousand, None said they did not love the other they were talking about what happens in most marriages, time puts strain on persons and our other halves as well we understand them and respect them but everyone has problems sooner or later, guys sometimes apply too much pressure when this subject comes up, you?re lucky you don?t feel trapped wanting to go that extra mile and you can?t men as well as women have these problems, we just ask people to love us for who we are, I?m aware that my illness affect my life but I did not ask for this, so hon if you could put yourself in a place like that you would understand it is not pleasant for us either, beside guys could be a little more kind where this subject is concerned, there are some great guys out there, but there are some really bad ones too. it a hard place to be. some guys need lessons in romance as well as some women and how to be tactful when approaching a sensitive subject ,especially if some one get hurt, have a nice evening, food for thought. > >Reply-To: chronic_pain >To: chronic_pain >Subject: Re: Cherrie/ hubby >Date: Tue, 23 Mar 2004 13:34:19 +1100 > _________________________________________________________________ All the action. All the drama. Get NCAA hoops coverage at MSN Sports by ESPN. http://msn.espn.go.com/index.html?partnersite=espn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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