Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 Thanks for the admiration. I keep reminding myself that my nada's previous therapist believes me. I called her saying I will not go to nada's current therapist until records from that previous therapist are released to the current therapist. I am sure nada will explain away that one if she can stating she isnot like that any more or whatever. I briefed the previous therapiston the goings on and she just kept saying, " I am so sorry you and your daughter have to go through this " When anyone approaches me about dad leaving nada I will just say, " Well, why do you think someone would just leave taking nothing? " I mean, gotta admit, either that person is jumping off the deep end to go die or another act of desperation like getting the heck away from the craziness they lived in. I cannot think of any other possibilities. I am just presently upset that the lady who was upset at my nada b/c my nada called her a " warden " for watching my daughter and taking her to that friend's confirmation went ahead and invited nada her kid's birthday party. I mean at least she could ahve warned me,but I guess she figured daughter and I would not go to her kid's party if we knew nada was there or something. DAughter almost keeled over when she walked around the corner and there was nada. Then nada demanding my daughter give her hugs or kisses or saying " I love you " in front of other people, of course, so that daughter feels pressured I suppose. It's so dumb. I found a local support group that meets 1st and 3rd Sat of the month, but I called the person who could give me more info and my case, and she said she does notthink they have had anyone who had a PARENT who was BP in their group, and definitely no one with a case as weird and bad as mine. I will go check it out just for the heck of it, though. I give nada a year to start cleaning up her act and if she is just as crazy in a few months from now as she is now I figure I will try to move. Theresa > Hi Theresa, > I just wanted to say that I have so much respect and > admiration for you. What you have been going through > with NADA, daughter, horses, the best friend's mother > etc has been so crazy but you continue to search for > solutions and validate your child. > > Any normy would not believe what you have been > through! I think, in your case, it might be okay to > explain briefly to others that your mother has > errative behavior and mood swings due to a personality > disorder and you would appreciate their understanding. > > I think a couple of weeks ago you talked about moving > away. I think, although hard initially, and scary for > your daughter, a move may be the only way you can get > un-enmeshed with your determined Nada. > HUGS, > > > > > __________________________________ > Yahoo! Mail Mobile > Take Yahoo! Mail with you! Check email on your mobile phone. > http://mobile.yahoo.com/learn/mail > > > > Send questions and/or concerns to ModOasis-owner > " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " a primer for non-BPs, can be ordered via 1-888-35-SHELL () and for the table of contents, go to: > http://www.BPDCentral.com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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