Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 ~:{[sungoddess]}:~ wrote: > I must have missed a post. Did someone say something about me being > a lesbian? This group is about pain etc, this is why i didn't want to > bring it up here in fear someone would say something. I thought that at first too. Then I thought, we talk about family, abuse, marriages, work, gardening, cooking, and I thought there is no difference. It is who we all are, and we are here for support and connection. A lot of us are so very isolated socially. If touching on all these subjects helps us in anyway, then the effect is we are less sad, less frustrated, & we feel like we are socializing which all has to do with the whole body. We aren't just pain. We need to look after all our other aspects that can be very beneficial to us in decreasing our pain. sometimes my pain increases here, not many times. but most of the time I go to bed happier and look forward to reading more about all of you out there. If I know all about you and I love it. Then you can know all about me and others . It's sharing our lives with each other, and that's all good for pain. That nasty bugger is with us far to much. Lets get rid of it when we come here ay. > Yes, i am gay, but it is not the most IMPORTANT things about me, the > ethics and morals i live by and my passions in life name who i am, not > my sexual preference. Exactly the same if you're not gay. > It is s wonderful to have straight people like you sam, who see > being gay as not a disease, not a choice... but just something, > someone happens to be . I never chose to be gay, i slowly > developed into it during puberty. That's what happens. I wonder how many non gay people out there who say it's a choice, sat down and said to themselves, " Will I choose the same sex for MY life choice? " No one says that. It's laughable. That would means we are all exactly the same until we come to that time of having to look for a partner to have as your own. > Anyway, thank u for your support, Thanks to people like you, > gays and lesbians are more excepted these days. Of course it > could be better for us, but it is slowly improving. Here, here . Have a pain free day . :-) Sharon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 ~:{[sungoddess]}:~ wrote: > I must have missed a post. Did someone say something about me being > a lesbian? This group is about pain etc, this is why i didn't want to > bring it up here in fear someone would say something. I thought that at first too. Then I thought, we talk about family, abuse, marriages, work, gardening, cooking, and I thought there is no difference. It is who we all are, and we are here for support and connection. A lot of us are so very isolated socially. If touching on all these subjects helps us in anyway, then the effect is we are less sad, less frustrated, & we feel like we are socializing which all has to do with the whole body. We aren't just pain. We need to look after all our other aspects that can be very beneficial to us in decreasing our pain. sometimes my pain increases here, not many times. but most of the time I go to bed happier and look forward to reading more about all of you out there. If I know all about you and I love it. Then you can know all about me and others . It's sharing our lives with each other, and that's all good for pain. That nasty bugger is with us far to much. Lets get rid of it when we come here ay. > Yes, i am gay, but it is not the most IMPORTANT things about me, the > ethics and morals i live by and my passions in life name who i am, not > my sexual preference. Exactly the same if you're not gay. > It is s wonderful to have straight people like you sam, who see > being gay as not a disease, not a choice... but just something, > someone happens to be . I never chose to be gay, i slowly > developed into it during puberty. That's what happens. I wonder how many non gay people out there who say it's a choice, sat down and said to themselves, " Will I choose the same sex for MY life choice? " No one says that. It's laughable. That would means we are all exactly the same until we come to that time of having to look for a partner to have as your own. > Anyway, thank u for your support, Thanks to people like you, > gays and lesbians are more excepted these days. Of course it > could be better for us, but it is slowly improving. Here, here . Have a pain free day . :-) Sharon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 hon i was asking you for help, its my niece, i dont know much about it, i was asking how to handle my family they are real mean about it, i was just wondering where she could get some support, im fine with it but rest of family is mean about it, i would never say enything mean, i just worried about her she is a wonderful person. as far as the word choice i would apply that toward eny relationship and it was nice of sam to answer me, thats why i ask what to do. im ignorant on this subject, i dont care what she does, i feel no diffrent about her, i just would they could be more open. sorry hon i did not mean enything by it i just needed help. sorry if i caused you eny discomfort, hugs and more. hugs nanna or dee > >Reply-To: chronic_pain >To: chronic_pain >Subject: Re: Re:womens sex lives.. >Date: Mon, 29 Mar 2004 21:08:59 +1000 > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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